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having a hard time trusting my boyfriend abo9ut his female friend
i have been with him for 5 years and reading all the things i have been reading on this website is showing me that he may just not be inlove or hes sick in his head and loves two women. so... he has been wanting me hard for the whole time however doing things that dont make sence on the side. he has this friend thats a girl. they owned a bar and a house together. I have not been welcomed to ethier of those places. now i know how that sounds but!!! he spends all holidays and weekends with me and swears she is just a fat bitch jelouse friend. i met her sister i call the bar and talked to her friends and they all told me they are just friends. but why am i not allowed to meet her? why am i not allowed the house my man owns and she lives in? but there not together? he asked my parents for permission to marry me.. im so confused i dont know what to think... i dont understand there relationship or what hes trying to pull.... mind u .. im hot,, shes fat and has three kids and her baby daddy is in prison and he been playenb baby daddy for her cause there " friends". but he texes me all day everyday how much he loves me. i have met there other roomates that are frie3nds with her and it seemd ok im his girl and there not together. however im not 9okay with not being able to meet her ? and i cant come to my own mans house ? why? wtf am i suppose to think!!!!! or do!! i cant sleep i cant eat.. i cant work.. i have named tatted on my lower parts... im lost and i need to know what could be going on. i dont understand this mentality. i grew up in a good home in nh and he grew uop in a abusive home in oakland.. i dont kinow what to do my heart is so broken i want to write this girl a letter but i dont know if its a good idea... i liked your open comment.. it was right on point with how i feel about things... you are open minded and id like to know your advice... thank you jennife
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hi there,
since he has asked you to marry him i'm assuming is a strong relation you share with him. Yes, the situation does sound extremely weird, and you must be really desperate to know about this other side of him, but writing a letter to the girl directly would actually mean back stabbing him. It would be better if you would talk to him and get him to introduce you to that woman. It seems you have tried it, try again and show him how much this means to you.
And if you still cant find a way, use your girl power and find out about that woman through friends and neighbours, Ofcoure you'd have to do it discreetly!
All the best!
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