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I feel lost, i like a girl but she only thinks of me as a close friend, and plus she likes someone else.I got rejected in the past 3 times. I always liked girl but none of them ever like me back. I only have friend-girls but nothing else. I just feel lost, i dont know anything about girls and i really want to know how they react to stuff.
so if you are a girl and you are a girl with much experience then please email me:
mainetpolo@gmailcom.
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Don't feel lost. The girl you like, best to do is get over her. It'll only cause you more pain watching her fall for someone else. You'll realize you never liked her much to begin with once she's with someone else. But you can't expect to not have hardships with any girl. Give it time, everything happens for a reason. If you really want to impress a girl, maturity and sweetness/kindness is always a good way. Girls, like me for example, really hate immaturity. It's annoying, and if you really like a girl, don't bombard her either. Don't text her every two seconds, don't ask her out if you barely know her. Just be yourself. Play it cool and don't feel lost. Even little comments like "you look nice today" will make a girl smile. Be happy :)


I love my boyfriend a lot. I feel it in my heart, and I know it's true. But strangely I'm not in a constant state of love. I'm generally a cold person, and sometimes I feel nothing at all. I feel hollow like an empty shell. And when I feel like that I don't feel any love or anything at all for that matter. Do I love him? And should I reply with "I love you too" when he says he loves me and I don't feel love at that moment? I always know deep in my heart that my love for him is immense. I love him to death. I am so confused. Has anyone had such an experience? Is it normal? I don't know what to think and it irks me that I can't always love him. I want to. (link)
I know exactly how you feel. To be honest, I'm very cold and have anger management, so I generally hate and get mad at everything. I never got close to people, even my friends I've known for 9 years don't know how to describe me or anything. I've been in an amazing relationship for 13 months, we're young, but I believe I'm truly in love with him. At first, I didn't show it and didn't tell him anything about me, and even thought about breaking up with him two months into our relationship. But I decided to stick with it, because I said to myself if this is an on going feeling I'll do it, because it was only ever so often. And I swear, it was the best decision I ever made. He's my best friend, I tell him everything and I don't know where I'd be without him. Give him a chance, and the relationship. It's worth it.




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