Member Since: March 15, 2013 Answers: 2 Last Update: March 15, 2013 Visitors: 430
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ive asked myself this a lot of times,why am i depressed?
i have great parents that are so openminded,i have friends,i go to an awsome private school that i love,i have nice clothes,i have a pet that i love,ive traveled,i get almost anything that i wont,i have sort of good grades,im not insecure,not a skinny gurl,but i love myself the way i am,sooooo why am i so sad,why do i spent nigh after night crying for hours and hours? what went wrong? whats the reason for this unhappiness? it hurts so much and the only reason that i dont kill myself are my oarents,it would ruin them. but i dont know if ill make it,im 15 and already so damaged,what will that turn into after a few years? will i take it,im strong,very string,but im feeling like ill break,can you help me please (link)
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Hi :)
first of all, I would like to begin by asking ..do you believe in God or in anything as a matter of fact?
i read your question then tried to imagine myself in your situation, since it helps to understand better. and i can tell that there is something that you feel is,,missing in your life? is it so?
and nobody but YOU knows what it is. anyone else can only help you to understand your problem a little but its YOU who will get through it :)
sometimes we think everything is perfect but it really is only superficial .not true.dont mean to question your life. but just saying.
maybe you want something but u dont know what it is? tell you what.. HOLD ON. dont think about doing something silly because this is your OWN battle. it will make you stronger and better! have faith :) dont think you are alone. even though it may seem like that but it isnt. everybody is going through some kinda trouble -psychological. we have to fight :) and it will turn you into an awesome person. dont lose hope :)
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My 12 year old son recently told me that he had no friends and i just thought it was a phase until i popped into the lunchroom one day and he was sitting alone with no one at his table.
Sorry for such brief details but my iphone has 2% battery (link)
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Hi,
before jumping on to any conclusions, you might want to know why is he behaving like this. Is he usually an introverted kid even at home, or maybe some recent incident has changed him..
you can try talking to him sometimes not like a mum but like a friend.
Sometimes some kids are unique(obviously in a good way) they dont see the world as other kids do, they are more in touch with themselves/inner self.. they are more intelligent and analytical. They dont fuss over things which usually kids of this age.. fuss over. It MIGHT be the case with your kid as well. But just try to listen to him and understand what he says.
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