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I cheated on my boyfriend of 8 years, how do i fix it?
I cheated on my boyfriend of 8 years for a period of a year and a half with a guy at work and two times with a guy half my age. He knew before i told him and still took care of my kids that he has helped raised. He has had a meth problem but was clean for 5 years but went back to it and left for about 4 months. Now that he is back and we are trying he thinks that things are going on here at the house all the time. He has gotten high a couple times since then and when he does it gets really bad. I am not doing anything but he has recorded some voices that i have no clue about and i dont know what to tell him. He is going crazy and i understand but i really havent done anything in over a year. What do i do? Are we totally doomed?
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Put your kids first, Do what is best for them.
Just like the user said before me, I can't tell you what to do either. However I sure as hell would think about whether you really want them around someone who has a history of drug use. You and your children should be in a healthy, safe environment. You are a parent you need to start thinking like one.
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I really can't tell you what to do, but I will tell you what your priority is and that is your kids. Once you become a parent, your responsibility is to keep them from any potential harm you can conceivably keep them out of. Failure is not an option! Make your choice, everything else is just chaff. Duty, Duty, Duty.
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