ummm...i saw my guy friend naked. how can i make it less awkward tomorrow?
Question Posted Wednesday March 13 2013, 8:55 pm
so we have a female gym coach and a male gym coach at our school. im a girl and the female coach told me to give the male coach a note and he was in the boys locker room so i asked her to wait until he got out but she told me to go in there and give it to him. so i walked through a room full of naked 13 year old boys all staring at me and my guy friend, who i have a crush on, was in there. once they saw me they made a dash for cover and my friend and a couple of other boys werent quick enough so they were in the open and i couldnt find the coach so i had to ask my friend where he was so it was super awkward. that was last period so we went straight home after that. so how can we talk tomorrow without it being awkward?
GilbertMar answered Thursday March 14 2013, 11:41 am: The fact your teacher told you to do it does not excuse you for entering. Do you think she would have got you in trouble by reporting that you refused to go in the "Boys" locker room? When you know something is wrong, you stand on principle and refuse to do it. (Please don't take that personal, but someone needs to say it.) She knew it was wrong and would not have done it herself, that's why she made you do it. If it weren't for the fact that others are involved with this, I would say this teacher should be removed, she knew damn well what she was doing. Personally, I would go to her and tell her that if I ever hear that she does this to another girl, I would see she never worked in another school again, but that's just me. As to your friend, you should leave that alone, if he doesn't bring it up, you don't. Someday he may, deal with it then. [ GilbertMar's advice column | Ask GilbertMar A Question ]
lightoftruth answered Thursday March 14 2013, 5:00 am: Yeah, honestly I would just act like it didn't happen. When you see him, don't think about it and act normal.
And I do agree that your coach shouldn't have had you go in there. It's completely inappropriate and you should tell the principal or something because it's actually wrong.
Anyways, be normal with him and everything should be fine. [ lightoftruth's advice column | Ask lightoftruth A Question ]
Xui answered Thursday March 14 2013, 1:44 am: It is a bit inappropriate seeing the coach had told you to enter the boys locker room. No matter what the teacher or coach said you do not enter a boys locker room. The right thing to do would of been to wait until the other coach was back from the locker room or give it to a male classmates to give to the coach.
This incident should be reported to the principal of the school.
As for your friend, Act like it never happened. To be honest it really is no big deal. It is only a big deal if yoi act immature about the situation. I would definitely let the principal become aware of what happened though [ Xui's advice column | Ask Xui A Question ]
TheAnnie answered Thursday March 14 2013, 12:45 am: Pretend as if it never happened. Seriously, it was an accident. You were just there to give the note to the gym teacher. I'd pretend as if it never happened. But, if say someone asks you simply tell them you were just doing that the coach told you to. [ TheAnnie's advice column | Ask TheAnnie A Question ]
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