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ok well im a f/14
yes im 5'1 an way 120
i don't look fat well i have some meat but im not like a sumo restler
but when i turn 16 i'm going to star modeling because that is my dream ya know . anyway i want to get skinnier
does anyone have any tips
i tried starving myself for a week and when i felt i was going to faint i ate a cheese cube (yes i know crazy but im desperate) any help?? (link)
NEVER STOP EATING!!!!
you need the minerals and your body will hold all the fat from the smallest things that you eat. Work out, drink alot of water and eat healthier food. Thats how to lose weight the right way. Never stop eating because it will backfire badly. trust me.


**PLEASE ONLY ANSWER THIS IF YOU ACTUALLY KNOW WHAT I AM TALKING ABOUT**

So I am getting pretty pissed off, I cannot find any good online games for my PSP. I have Socom, but it is getting boring, and I was wondering if anyone knew any from personal experience that would be worth buying. (link)
i dont know if you like sports games but Madden 07 is good. Dont play NBA 07 online because it keeps pausing and doesnt play write. I dont know what kind of games you like, but if you write back with the games you like, i can give you more suggestions:]


13/f

Okay well then.. im beginning to think that my boyfriend is likin` this other girl.. My boyfriend's name is john, and the other girl is named Lily. They're in the same group (hang out group) they hang out w/ the same people somethin` called the "JAW 4L'S." and Lily is John's bestfriend's ex girlfriend. Winston (johns bestfriend) & john act all nice to lily. Lily's nick name is "lee lur" on her myspace or whatever.. but shes also my friend too.. not js the JAW 4L's. She got into his myspace and "hacked" him or whatever you call it.. and she put on his heading "i love lee lur :]" He's been actin` strange lately.. and then he told lily that he loved her.. (but im not if he meant it.. or as a friend), shes number one of his top, im not sure if she put her there, or he did it, and js last night, he told me that he wasnt gonna call me that night... im soo worried out of my mind.. =T


advice ? (link)
Did you ever think that maybe she didn't do it? How would she know his pw? Unless he told her! Maybe he's cheating on you! But maybe she's just jelous that you get him, but she likes him too.

The best way to figure this out is to ask him what's up and ask him about his myspace thing. Tell him that it's over if you find out that he his really cheating! You sound like a nice person, and you don't deserve to be treated that way!


Another way is to make him jelous. Start to hang out with that group and pretend to hit on one of those guys. He would be SOOO jelous! Do exactly what he did to you! If he has a myspace get


okay so after my boyfriend and I have sex and he pops inside me..he claims that it feels really weird if he continues and sometimes even hurts..and hes fine a few minutes later..why does this happen? and how can we stop it? I mean it would be nice for the 1st round to last longer ;) (link)
You say something disturbing here ("...he claims...")that says you don't believe what he is telling you.

He is telling you the truth. You know the feeling you get when you have had multiple orgasms and your clitoris is incredibly sensitive and you don't want ANYTHING to touch it because it hurts it is so sensitive? Same thing for a guy after he reaches climax.

This is all very basic stuff and if you dn't know it yet, it might be time for a basic sex manual. Sex for Dummies is really good.


theres this guy who i really like and i might be hanging out with him over holiday break. hes really flirty with alot of girls though so i dont know how he really feels like if hes interested in me or not. but if he were to put moves on me or try to make out with me and hook up should i or not. i know its my decision but im not looking for a hook up type of thing like yeah i would be fine with that for a little bit but in the end i would want commitment not just a hook up thing. i dont have any idea what to do. and i dont want to just not do it to totally turn him off. please help me! thanks. (link)
What I would do is(if u have his phone number) call him up and ask him out. I mean, the worst he can do is say no.
If not: If u do end up hanging out just kiss him or ask him privetly to go out with you! good luck!


this is a question about losing weight and getting a better body. i know there are a lot of questions like this already, but mine is kind of different. I know what to eat and how to exercise, but my problem is I have NO WILLPOWER! i don't know why but whenever i see chocolate or chips or anything in front of me I literally cant not eat it! i don't know what to do, and it's hard to make myself go to the gym. Please help, i need tips for good food choices, like how to say no to myself and not eat something. I also need tips for how to stay active wihout it feeling like intense exercise. THANKS sooooo much (link)
well... first of all, you have to tell yourself that you can have some of what you want but in moderation. You can only eat a little of the food. I used to think i didnt have any will power, but once you really want to lose weight, and start working out it will get you in the mood to work out. Once you do it yopu will honestly feel really good after and want to do it more. Some exercises are just doing crunches and jumping rope. Rent a disc set called turbo jam. Ive been doin a DVD a night and ive already lost like 5lbs in about 1 week and a half. i hoper you take my advice because you will see results. Also, join a sport and do something you like, its easy exercise because you dont even think about it.


I stumbled across this site by accident. I seriously doubt many of you have the qualifications to give real people proper advice. After reading some of your responses to people's inquiries i was quite astonished as to how teenagers find they are able to give quality advice and information to real people in need with such little life experience. If you ask me you are not in a place to give your "personal opinion" when people truly believe you are giving them the right answer simply because you claim "people think i give really good advice". (eg. i am still at a loss as to how a 17 year old girl thinks she can give advice to someone regarding conceiving a child) I know you try to come across as a "godsend" to poeple who are in some sort of personal crisis and need a fast easy answer but the truth is, in the cases where it really counts, there rarely is one; at least not from you. (link)
i'm an ASE certified mechanic, most of my answers can be found in the cars section. i know how to work on, repair, buy, and fix cars. i answer mostly questions about cars. how that's a problem i don't know.


right i have £200 for a new phone i dont know what to get i mainly use my phone for music but i use the camera aswell plus i need a good cheap network it has to be pay as you go i cant stand contract any advice would be great thanks:) (link)
one of the sony ericsons would be good. the walkman ones. or that new nokia music phone. The LG chocolate is a good phone, but TOO sensitive according to my sister, but the samsung heat sensitive phone is better than the choc


there's this kid. he's in 2 of my classes (we're both freshmen) he's cute and everything.. but idk if i really like him yet. well, a while ago we worked on a project together & kind of talked. my friend heard him talking about me, saying that i never talk. which is untrue but seems to happen a lot with me. yes, i'm quiet in school, around people i don't know very well. i don't raise my hand a lot in those classes, and for the project i hardly talked to him. i'm shy, not mute. well first of all, why would he care? ok anyway.. i have his sn on my buddy list and the other day my friend imed him.. (i was watching her, freaking out) he actually responded and knew who i was.. after like 2 minutes though he said he had to go but yeaah. how can i continue talking to him in school and online? like idk i feel weird since he thought i was so quiet. and if he says something to me in school about it what should i say?? thankss. (link)
First of all, since you're shy, start off with a hi in the hallways and whats up. Just simple talk and then you might start to feel more comfortable talking to him online and stuff. Once you start talking and him if he wants to do something like hangout somewhere. hope it helps..


i like this guy my friend . hes new to are group . i haven't known him that long but long enough to get to know him and we have a lot in commnon. i want to tell him soon but i don;t know how!i want to be able to tell him but there not be any weirdness between us.thank! (link)
I think that if you like him, write him a note telling him that you like him and see if he wants to do something, but add that you dont want it to be awkward. If he doesnt want to dont get all upset, and tell him you wont get upset so that he'll be honest. And say if it doesnt work out you can just be friends.....


15/f

so i'm not sure what to do about hair removal down there, do guys like it when it's all shaved? or just a little? a friend of mine told me she got waxed in SHAPES! like a heart or a diamond? i don't get it, can someone please give me tips and explain, i'm nervous about this (link)
basically they wax most of the hair but the part above your 'vajayjay' in the shape of a heart, so that the heart shape is like the trimmed hair
but thats sooo tacky i just completely bralizian


Hohumm. The ever popular question:

What did he mean by when he said this?

We were talking about girls at my school[they are really skinny]

He lives in NC and I live in TX. 16/f 16/m.

He says:
But I hate "sticks"
I say:
Now I really wish the boys here were like you D:
He says:
me too [insertmyname] me too
I say:
You wish the boys here were like you? :3
He says:
I dont know, yes and no, on one hand you get to hang out with me all day on the other well you know.

I dont get it >_ (link)
well i live in texas, i was born and raised in texas, and i can guarantee you that the guys down here don't just love skinny ass girls. i like my women to have some meat on their bones heck sometimes i like them to be big girls based on how i feel. but i digress:

he means that he wishes he were here so that he could be with you. he has a bad way of getting that point across but that's what he's trying to convey. that's the first thing i'm picking up here and then the second is that he just has a bad way of getting his point across. haha good luck with this dude, seems okay, just needs to learn to be better with words.


hi. i'm a guy and i'm eighteen. okay, let's being w/some background information...

there's this girl i met thru my friend. she found me on myspace and added me. then like as soon as i accepted she left me a comment. so we started talking thru there and i asked for her s/n. we chatted on there for a long time [two hours or so] and she asked me for my number. about two days later she calls me and we have a two hour phone conversation. nothing in particular, just talking. before i was about to hang up, she asked me to call her early in the morning to wake her up, so i did. [she's been asking me for these wake up calls since then, btw.]

the next day, my friend messages me saying 'are you trying to get w/_____ b/c you know that i like her, riiight?!' i don't really know my feelings toward her, she's cute and has a great personality, so i guess some feelings are there. i'm just not really sure what i should do about this, he's my friend but i have a strong feeling that this girl has feeling towards me. what should i do? i don't want to lose a friend, but i don't want to break a girl's heart. i need your advice! (link)
You seem very close to this girl. Have you met her before? If you've never seen her, it's best you just be friends with her. If she never seen you in PERSON, then she probably has feelings towards your friend. If you haven't seen her, tell her to meet you somewhere and you can see her. But if your friend says stay away from her, best to just talk on the computer and phone. You don't want a girl getting in the way, so you have two choices. A) Meet her and telling your friend your only friends...you might change your mind. B) Just talk to her as friends, and don't test your friend.


I have an important event I have to attend tomorrow night. My hair is very curly, but I straighten it often. I have VERY short layers, but my hair comes down to my chest. How can I get my hair SUPER straight? Like, what can I do to make everything straight and withstand a night of cold blowing winds? (link)
Take a shower at night. Blow try it and then straighten it with hot heat with a good curling iron...remember, cheap curling irons don't work on any hair, really. Use a curling iron that's product price is beyond at least $25.00
When you sleep, put you hair in a light ponytail...don't worry about the dent. When you wake up, straighten your hair again, and it should work.


okay so i'm going to this new school soon. but the grade you're going to in that school dependse on the age. (now i am going to a school were they don't have that arrangement) so i am 15 years old. in what grade am i going now?
my friend said maby 9th or 10th grade. i turned 15 in 8th grade and now i'm in 9th grade.
so in schools were it dependse on the age in what grade are you when you're 15? i am turning 16 in about 2 month so i'm almost 16. this is confusing me
sorry about my weird grammar =/ i don't now how to phrase this question right.
anyway please help (link)
Yes, it depends on your age, but you should of included your birthday. Your schools do it by birthday and age...by a certain month, it depends which grade you go in. For here in Colorado, your birthday must be before September 18th or so and you get in. If you aren't, then you have to wait a year. Ask your mom about that. Your going to turn 16 in two months...well, I'm thinking you will be in 10th grade because you'll be way to old if you were going to be going into 9th grade. I'm only 14 and I'm going into the 9th grade soon, so you'll be going into the 10th...time to drive! :)


okay my best has to do everything i do, and lately its getting on my last nerve.

first, i got my hair cut & she got hers the same way.
second, i got the ipod nano, shes getting one.
third, i wanted the chocalate phone, now she wants one.
forth, i changed my mind about the chocolate phone got the razr, now she wants the razr & the same color.
fifth, i just started shopping at hollister now she has to shop there.
sixth, im getting a perm & now shes getting a perm

ahh i cant take it anymore, help anyone? (link)
Tell her in a nice, simple way. Think if partially positive, she thinks your her role model, or she's there to piss you off...I hate it when that happens! My friend does it all the time, but I just don't have the heart to tel her. But he honest with her, tell her can she at least buy some things from other places and not have everything you have. Tell her she can keep her nano and her razr, but not her hair like yours...and stay away from stores you like.


what does mamacita mean? (link)
dont they use that term when refering to a hot girl or something?


ive heard there is a website that you can upload a pic of yourself and try different hairstlyes out so you can see what you look like before you get it cut. im scared i wont like the style i want. does anyone know the name of this website and the address or anything similar?

thankyou (link)
http://www.makeoversolutions.com/makeover/virtualMakeover
its a brilliant website, just a quick registration, (you can choose one where you can pay or you dont have to) you can add on make up, accessories etc. really good website.
xxx


well ill make this short
im in a group and i have my best friend there too and shes becoming close with the rest of my group.. which isnt a bad thing. but at the same time i feel like im losing her. we still are close but i also feel like im becoming her second choice. i would talk to her about it and have no problem talking to her but i know what she will say.
should i talk to her anyway or just let it slide and not worry much about it?
thanks (link)
well, first of all, never let a friend slide away.If she is your best friend and a true one, she will listen to you and tell her that she is growing apart and that you dont want things to change. i dont know what i would do without my best friend so you just have to talk to her. tell her it is hurting you to see her going away and ask her why she thinks its happening. ( not to sound wierd but i hope you know what i mean). Hope it helps...


There is this CUTE guy at my school and his name his Logan. He's a tall, cute, blonde guy that is a Freshman. He's nice, sweet, handsome, and everything what I think is perfect.
If you are experienced with guys that are hardly older than you, maybe you can give a girl a hand.
I'm 14/F (Chinese) and I just want to get some advice how to talk to the guy I really like.
I met him last year, and only been liking him for about 9 months and I hardly can talk to him!!! When I am with my friend and she says Hi Logan, I try to bring up cofidence to talk to him and later, I wish I just said MORE.
Can you help me and what can I tell him so I can figure out if he likes me or not. How can I overcome this fear? I only have 4 more years and things happen quickly. He's going to the homecoming, maybe, and I'm so jealous because I'm not old enough.
THANK YOU AND SO SORRY IT'S SO LONG!! (link)
Don't worry, your 14...but after a while, life goes fast. Just try to talk to him...if he's annoyed when you talk to him, just let him me...you'll stop liking him in 3 months and crushing on another guy!




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