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annoyed.
okay my best has to do everything i do, and lately its getting on my last nerve.
first, i got my hair cut & she got hers the same way.
second, i got the ipod nano, shes getting one.
third, i wanted the chocalate phone, now she wants one.
forth, i changed my mind about the chocolate phone got the razr, now she wants the razr & the same color.
fifth, i just started shopping at hollister now she has to shop there.
sixth, im getting a perm & now shes getting a perm
ahh i cant take it anymore, help anyone?
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Tell her in a nice, simple way. Think if partially positive, she thinks your her role model, or she's there to piss you off...I hate it when that happens! My friend does it all the time, but I just don't have the heart to tel her. But he honest with her, tell her can she at least buy some things from other places and not have everything you have. Tell her she can keep her nano and her razr, but not her hair like yours...and stay away from stores you like.
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Greetings.
I'd take it as a compliment firstly.
Your friend seems to think so well of you that she wants to be like you.
Which can't be an entirely bad thing.
Obviously she's not comfortable with being herself, or doesnt know who she is yet so she feels better mimicing things that are approved by you because you are doing them.
Try helping to discover what she likes and what she wants to be.
For example, just go to her "I think today you deserve a makeover for being a good friend".
Give her a makeover with a few other friends, make her look amazing and like herself.
Now tell her how class she looks and that it really suits her and basically reassure her that it's ok to be different and experiment with her image.
If she's a good friend, dont get too annoyed with her, she's only trying to make you like her.
She's just young and insecure.
Encourage her to be herself.
Hope I've been of some help!
Contact me for further advice if you want it.
-Shelagh
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