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friend's crush.
hi. i'm a guy and i'm eighteen. okay, let's being w/some background information...
there's this girl i met thru my friend. she found me on myspace and added me. then like as soon as i accepted she left me a comment. so we started talking thru there and i asked for her s/n. we chatted on there for a long time [two hours or so] and she asked me for my number. about two days later she calls me and we have a two hour phone conversation. nothing in particular, just talking. before i was about to hang up, she asked me to call her early in the morning to wake her up, so i did. [she's been asking me for these wake up calls since then, btw.]
the next day, my friend messages me saying 'are you trying to get w/_____ b/c you know that i like her, riiight?!' i don't really know my feelings toward her, she's cute and has a great personality, so i guess some feelings are there. i'm just not really sure what i should do about this, he's my friend but i have a strong feeling that this girl has feeling towards me. what should i do? i don't want to lose a friend, but i don't want to break a girl's heart. i need your advice!
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Well... I am a girl. And I would never go out with a girl who my friend likes. Its just wrong. So even if you do like her, and she likes you back, I wouldn't go out with her, unless you talk to the guy and make sure he is absolutely fine with it.
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give it some time an ask her if she has feeling for your bud. if she says she doesnt at all then try telling your friend in the nicest way there an make sure you dont sound like your lying just so you can have her all to yourself. and if you arent sure you like her try getting to know her more an meet her in person at a coffee shop or whatever.
an if your friend really likes her an she likes him then try not to lead her on to much or she will start to think you really like her(this happened to me before)
hope my advice helped
-kimberly
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You seem very close to this girl. Have you met her before? If you've never seen her, it's best you just be friends with her. If she never seen you in PERSON, then she probably has feelings towards your friend. If you haven't seen her, tell her to meet you somewhere and you can see her. But if your friend says stay away from her, best to just talk on the computer and phone. You don't want a girl getting in the way, so you have two choices. A) Meet her and telling your friend your only friends...you might change your mind. B) Just talk to her as friends, and don't test your friend.
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Well chicks before dicks, bros before hoes right?
Honestly, just end it before you actually figure out whether or not you like her, because if you do, you're going to be in some serious shit.
Even if she feels the same towards you, would you go out with her knowing that your friend is probably dying inside? Probably not.
You can find someone else or stay single, either way, it's pretty clear that this girl is off limits and it's good that you found out this early on.
It might be tough to think about now but yust distance yourself from her. Right now is the easiest time to do it.
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