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kinda stupid question but...
there's this kid. he's in 2 of my classes (we're both freshmen) he's cute and everything.. but idk if i really like him yet. well, a while ago we worked on a project together & kind of talked. my friend heard him talking about me, saying that i never talk. which is untrue but seems to happen a lot with me. yes, i'm quiet in school, around people i don't know very well. i don't raise my hand a lot in those classes, and for the project i hardly talked to him. i'm shy, not mute. well first of all, why would he care? ok anyway.. i have his sn on my buddy list and the other day my friend imed him.. (i was watching her, freaking out) he actually responded and knew who i was.. after like 2 minutes though he said he had to go but yeaah. how can i continue talking to him in school and online? like idk i feel weird since he thought i was so quiet. and if he says something to me in school about it what should i say?? thankss.
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First of all, since you're shy, start off with a hi in the hallways and whats up. Just simple talk and then you might start to feel more comfortable talking to him online and stuff. Once you start talking and him if he wants to do something like hangout somewhere. hope it helps..
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Well, he would first of all care if you talked much or not since you guys are working in a project and maybe he's kind of bored having a partner who doesn't talk much or feels like he's doing much of the work and not being able to communicate with you. Even if you do talk, maybe you don't talk as much as he expects people to.
If he says something about you not talking much, blame it on lack of sleep or say that he should spend more time with you and he'll doubt what he was saying.
Just talk about the project, ask how his day's going, what music he likes, what classes/teachers he likes/dislikes and everything. Just don't feel limited to what you say and just talk about whatever you want. There are limitless possiblities on what you can say to someone.
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