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I'm Christina, and I'm 27. I tend to be brutally honest when I give advice or an opinion. I don't tell people what they want to hear but rather what they need to hear. They don't always appreciate it at first, but I usually get a thank you in the end.

I have 15 tattoos, and 8 piercings. I'm married and just gave birth to a baby boy in May. I'm currently a SAHM so you can find me taking care of my son and binge-watching television while he naps.

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Ok Im 15 nd having a baby nd will the baby take the fathers last name or mine or is it our choice?

It's your choice.

&TiNA;

13/f i feel soo bad my bf whos 13 is gettin me all this stuff i found out bi my friend and i dont have any money to realy get him anything he asked me to mesure mr rist size and i was okay w/e i thought it was goin to be 4 some tackey bracelett but no he took my bff sarah with him to a place like tiffanys to buy me a real dimond bracelett and he got me a wicked lott of there stuff but i dont have anything for him and i cant even goto the store bc i got like 4 feet of snow so im like screwed what can i give him would burnin a cd work helpppp and fast thatx illl rate the highest

Make him a cd of all the songs that make you think of him. Also, you could make him a cute little card, and if he comes over & you know how to cook...Make him dinner. =) And watch a cute movie.

&TiNA;

Ever since my parents have said no games and no music the internet is boring. Starting my own website is boring. The only thing I can do online that I know of is update my blog so what can people do online besides gaming, chatting, and listening to music?

Myspace. It's kind of your own website, but it's definitely NOT boring. It's addicting & fun. You can add your own style, and you can design it anyway you want. For layouts go to:

- www.createblog.com

& myspace is:

- www.myspace.com

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do guys like if a girl has her belly botton peirced? why or why not

Some guys find it sexy. Others find that girls with too many wholes in their body aren't very attractive. If you're fat - it's gonna look bad. But, if you have a nice figure, go for it.

&TiNA;

I havce 3 morbid, discusting habits, And i need help on stopping them.
- I forget to wash my hands after using the bathroom. Gross, How can i remeber to wash them?
-I chew on pens I literally take them apart and chew on different pieces and usally end up with no pens, its sad. How can i stop?
-And i can never remeber to flush the toliet.
And thats gross to.
Help me with theese horrible habits!

Okay.

-Buy a soap that smells really good & write your name on it, so they know it's yours, and it'll make you wanna wash your hands, because it'll smell good.

-Whenever you feel like biting on your pens, put gum in your mouth. Trust me, it'll work. My mom told me that's how she got over biting her nails.

-And for this, just think about it. Flush & go. It's not so hard and it takes a split second.

&TiNA;

Okay so I have some chocolate chips...i decided i want to make my friends something for valentines day and who doesnt like chocolate right? yeah, okay well i have no idea what to make or what i need to make them (preferably nothing expensive)...I would google this but i'm not sure what tto search for so if anyone knows a website that could help me or tell me what to google i'll appreciate it!! Thanks

Hmm. Well, google a recipe for chocolate chip cookies. Or, you could buy a cake mix, either chocolate or vanilla, and throw the chocolate chips in and make them some cupcakes or a cake & stuff. It's a good use, and it's really fun.

&TiNA;

I am 146 lbs. and am only five feet tall. I recently started a new diet and joined a gym. My boyfriend has been VERY supportive of me through this. I recently said something(dont remember though) that brought up a conversation and he said "I dont think you're fat..you're just big boned" ..and i got soooo mad...then he said he was just kidding. Should i be hurt by this??

No, it's obvious your boyfriend loves you how you are, but is very supportive if you want to change. It's nothing to be hurt by. I'm sure he didn't mean it in a mean way.

&TiNA;

im 13 and i got my period a week before my 12th birthday. my boobs didnt grow at all before that and they are supposed to grow dramatically and then still havent grown much at all im like a 32A and its been a year and 2 months since ive gotten my period..is somethign wrong or are my boobs just enver going to grow?

Hah, there's nothing wrong with you or your boobs. Everyone grows at their own pace. Just give it time. It's not like you can snap your fingers and they instantly grow. It takes time. Stop rushing it, you have plenty of time to grow.

&TiNA;

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What do each of these column settings refer to on your column? I mean, which section? Like, if you put a color in, where will it go?

Page background color would refer to your background, so if you put white in, that's your background. As for background image, if you don't want a color, but a picture, you right click the picture, click properties, and get the URL and copy it in, and then your background will be a picture. Page text will just be the color your text is in, and for links - it'll make the link color the color you chose. Sidebar background - Well, sidebar is your little thing that holds your age, & depending the layout, the info too. It also has your link you chose to use in there, and your sn & stuff. So it's the color you chose. You can also put an image for that, and you do the same thing for that as for your background. Sidebar text - same as page text, it's just the color you chose, and your text appears that way. For links, it's the same as if you make links in your profile and they appear a certain color. I hope I helped you.

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I want radio that plays songs by only one band. Example an internet radio station only plays songs by System Of A Down and the website has a wide variety of other bands to choose from.

Try www.yahoomusic.com ; Then search System Of A Down, they have them as just them for a station, as well as many other bands that way. But, I think you have to sign up and pay like 5 dollars monthly for it. =( Paying for that sucks, but it's probably a good way. Or, if you have aol, click on music & search System Of A Down. I'm pretty sure they have just them too. =) I hope I helped you.

&TiNA;

How good of schools are theses and how hard are they to get into.

Rudgers
Penn State
Brown
Performing Institute of New York
Princeton

Those are very good schools, and very hard to get into. On a scale of 1-10. They're an 8.

&TiNA;

i've been feeling sad for a couple of months now because i felt that my bestfriends are drifting away. then yesterday, i was with my friends at a school basketball game and my bestfriend got mad at me out of nowhere. then i started thinking like always, but i started crying. i pulled one of my friends to the bathroom with me and stayed in there. then my friends and my bestfriend started coming in and they told me to come out. i came out, but my bestfriend started ignoring me. we went back to the game, but i couldn't stop crying. my bestfriend hasn't talked to me ever since and i think that she thinks it's her fault. i slept for 13 hours but i still feel tired and i've been crying for no reason. i have no energy to eat. what's up with me? what should i say to my bestfriend?

You're just depressed. Tell her how you feel, and I'm sure things will get better. =)

hey, do any of you know really good ways to get relaxed besides drugs? and if you do, give exact details and steps.

Well you could always:
- Sit on your butt, eat chocolate in sweats with messy hair & watch sad movies.
- Sleep.
- Bubble bath. =)

&TiNA;

I just started dating someone yesterday, but he is really sweet and i really like him, and he has liked me for like 4 months. Should I get hm anything for valentine's day besides a card? Thanks.

Well, find out his favorite band & buy him the cd if he doesn't already have it. Or, you can take him out & make the whole day about him. =)

&TiNA;

where can i find a cheap computer desk

Walmart, Target & K Mart.

&TiNA;

i like him, he's dating her. what do i do?

Don't wait for him. You'll just be waisting your time.

&TiNA;

i have this friend and she is kind of an ass. i mean we get into fights and all but we get over them and forgive each other. but there are so many other people that she has hurt in the past. for example, one of my really good friends used to be extremely close with her. like they were inseprable. and then they got in HUGE fight (name calling, bad language, etc.) and they have never talked since. alot of people talk to me behind her back about how much they despise her and yet in front of her they act like her friend. There has only been a few instances where me and her have been mad at each other. i know she has talked behind my back before.. but i mean we're teenagers... i've talked behind her back too. it happens. just i'm not sure if i should still stay friends with her. when we're together i enjoy her company very much. just i know what she is capable of and i dont want to get hurt. what should i do?

It's hard to forget the good times, I admit, but staying her friend could result in worse situations, such as how you said one of her friends & her haven't talked since their fight. Next time, it could be you she's arguing with like that. Ask yourself - do you really want a friend like this? Do you really want someone who could possibly bash your whole reputation, or someone who could start rumors? I say drop her & quick, because the sooner you drop her, the sooner you have time to make a better friend who indeed won't talk about you behind your back. Some people are just so much better than that. I know how you feel, because I've been in this situation, but I stopped being this girls friend because of something she did to someone else. That someone else being my brother. She hit him, and I just kinda lost it. I haven't talked to her since because I don't like that crap. I just stopped being her friend, even though we had so many good times, I met others who were so much better. I hope I helped you, somewhat.

&TiNA

Here is my problem. I am gay but I dont know how to ask guys out. I am always so afriad of what they might do.(e.i. gay bashing, beat me up,) So I just admire guys from a far and never talk to them and so then I end up unfufilled and emotionally drianed. Because I dont know how to talk to them. It is totally different if they come up to me or if a friend introduces them to me then I can usually be my charming self. But I just feel like something's wrong when I am in a gay bar for almost a week straight and I dont get hit on by anyone. So how do I talk to guys and how do I get over my fears?

Only insanely ignorant people bash gays. There are some, but most people are kinda cool. I know it doesn't seem that way because of Bush and how he wants to ban gay marriages. But who cares what he says, really. He's an asshole. All you need to do, is get over your fear. Go to a gay bar. You can meet tons of gays. I think it'd make it easier. I guess, guys don't hit on you because they maybe have the same problem - they're too shy. Break the ice.

&TiNA;

this is going to be my first valentines day with my very special boyfriend. he's not a romantic type of guy. he's in to rock music. This one band he likes released a new cd and i was wondering if that was a good gift for valentines day besides a valentines day card and rose?

That'd be a great present.

&TiNA;

alright so yesterday i started my period, it was a few days early to begin with, but im not usually on a tight scedule, my period just kind of shows up when it wants. so anyways then today i havent had anything even resembling the fact that i might be on my period...nothing. so my question is...what do you think is up and should i wear a pad to bed tonight...like is it necessary?

thank you, guys.

It's not necessary, but it'd be a good idea just in case.

&TiNA;

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