Question Posted Saturday February 11 2006, 4:44 pm
i've been feeling sad for a couple of months now because i felt that my bestfriends are drifting away. then yesterday, i was with my friends at a school basketball game and my bestfriend got mad at me out of nowhere. then i started thinking like always, but i started crying. i pulled one of my friends to the bathroom with me and stayed in there. then my friends and my bestfriend started coming in and they told me to come out. i came out, but my bestfriend started ignoring me. we went back to the game, but i couldn't stop crying. my bestfriend hasn't talked to me ever since and i think that she thinks it's her fault. i slept for 13 hours but i still feel tired and i've been crying for no reason. i have no energy to eat. what's up with me? what should i say to my bestfriend?
Showtime answered Saturday February 11 2006, 4:56 pm: Ok I know exactly what you are going through. The reason you feel so tired is because when you are upset and really fealing down your body realeses a chemical in your brain that makes you feel sleepy and when you wake up this chemical is still in your brain so you still feel sleppy. This chemical does not go away unless you sweet it out. So the best thing to do is go for a run. Not only will running clear out that chemical (sorry forgot what it was called) but it will give you a chance to think and also a chance to be outside. Being outside is therapy in itself. It helps people to see the beauty and size of creation. THen you realize man there is so much out there in the world and I am so small and insignificant I am really lucky to be alive. SO then you put your pride behind you and go apologize to your friend even if you did nothing wrong. Humility is the key to life. Littleness is greatness. You will mercifully take one for the team to save the friendship. Good luck and I am happy for you because I know everything is going to work out fine. I also recommend watching a movie that focuses on true friendship together once yall have made up that will renforce the love that should be shared. I recommend a movie perfect for this and made for this. "Therese: The story of a Soul" It comes out Tuesday and it will be in the Drama section of Best Buy. It is AMAZING!!!! [ Showtime's advice column | Ask Showtime A Question ]
jammy12 answered Saturday February 11 2006, 4:52 pm: I think every girl has a little problem with friends and I don't quite understand your problem but maybe you should invite her to lunch or go out the movies or something and talk about it! I mean it's not going to her if she stops tlkin to you and you keep crying and stuff ..trust me right now I'm going through that. I have been crying a sometimes I can't eat but after a while I know it's unhealthy for me and I think that's y i'm gettin those pounds! So If i was you tlk to ur friend or a consellor and sort it out b4 you get sick! [ jammy12's advice column | Ask jammy12 A Question ]
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