about

I'm Christina, and I'm 27. I tend to be brutally honest when I give advice or an opinion. I don't tell people what they want to hear but rather what they need to hear. They don't always appreciate it at first, but I usually get a thank you in the end.


I have 15 tattoos, and 8 piercings. I'm married and just gave birth to a baby boy in May. I'm currently a SAHM so you can find me taking care of my son and binge-watching television while he naps.

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Okay so theres this girl on my bus lets say her names Kayla. She is SO ANNOYING!!! I cant stand her! shes a real popular girl (I dont know why!) and she is so mean. She has never done anything to me, except just make me mad. anyways, theres another kid on the bus lets say his names greg and hes a grade younger than her. Noone really likes him on the bus except for the real shy people who dont stick up for anyone. I personally dont know him and he doesnt know me. Kayla says the meanest things to him, like that hes fat and ugly and makes fun of his friends and stuff. I can bearly take it because I feel so bad for him. All these kids pick on him and he has a hard time sticking up for himself because there are so many mean kids on my bus. Shes actually mean to everyone that doesnt wear "the latest and greatest fashion". She was mean to one of my good friends because she didnt like the smell of her hand sanitizer. HAND SANITIZER!!! She needs to grow up desperetly. I really want to stick up for these kids. She actually hit one of these kids one day. The worst part is, our bus driver doesnt even care.

could you help me think of something to say or do?!?

ACE

P.S i rate high

Well, tell someone. Either that, or do what I would do, slap the shit out of her, and tell her off.

Stick up for them, and yourself. =[ Poor kids.

That's why I hate girls because they're bitches.

&TiNA;

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okay... I have this friend (lets say her name is Kelley) and shes really cool and stuff. I have another friend, (lets say her name is Jen) who I used to be really good friends with. Now Jen is a lot more "popular" than me and kelley, but she was pretty nice to us up until a few months ago. First, we had always sat at the same table together, and now she is sitting with the kids who are really mean. She didnt say anything to us or anything, and she just sort of ditched us. I was okay with that, maybe she just wanted to meet new people or something. So anyways, Now we have to do a community project for school. Kelley and I are making blankets for children in a homeless shelter and jen wants to deliver bears to the hospital. Shes all mad cuz we wanna do something else so she just switches groups. Shes seemed really selfish to me because she was saying "what kids would want some stupid blankets" and was sayin that "oh this will take too long." She calls us her "little friends" all the time because she thinks her popular friends are more important or something.
So I really dont know what to do. She doesnt know that me and Kelley are mad at her, and I have just kind of avoided her. On the other hand, I dont want to be mean either.
Should I give Jen another chance? Or should I just stay away and be friends with Kelley?

Stay away from her and be friends with Kelley. Why would you wanna be friends who does that? I'd just forget about her and be friends with Kelley.

&TiNA;

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My boyfriend said I was irresponsible and lazy just because I'm not going to school today. One. day. And he refuses to let me kiss him, when I next see him and now he's ignoring my calls&IMs. I don't know.

Yeah, you have a right to be angry. He's overreacting.

&TiNA;

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I don't attract guys at all. It's been said that I'm a lesbian (which I'm not), and I have an extremely brutal (but with purpose...I don't just say "Fuck the world" for no reason and think it's funny) sense of humor and wear all black. Are these turn-offs? But I'm a nice person. Though I can be a little morbid, I'm generally pretty friendly, I consider others' feelings, and I try to make friends, but nobody at my school wants to be around me. It's inevitable someone will say "Marian, I REALLY wanna sit next to Joe Shmoe. Can you move over?" at least twice a day. I just hate that. Whenever we have to choose partners/teams in gym, I'm always the last person. I feel so lonely, I cry sometimes in the locker room when nobody is around. There's only 1 friend of mine that's a guy who actually appreciates me for who I am, and I now have such a huge crush on him. I don't want to sound conceited at all, but I think I'm a nice-looking person, so that eliminates the idea that guys might not like me because of my looks. Does anyone understand? How can I make more friends? Even though he doesn't like me back in the same way, should I tell this boy I like him, and if so, how?

High school is really hard with all these stereotypes and ways to fit in, and you're now going through it. Welcome to teenage life. Making friends is sometimes simple, yet sometimes hard.

Colors matter, and I know it sounds weird, but it's true. Black is sort of a dark and negative color, and bright colors are more positive. [Although this doesn't apply to me, because black happens to be one of my favorite colors.] I guess, if you wear black, people will think you're a negative person sending a negative message. I'm not saying to wear bright colors constantly. At least wear black every other week. You can still be you and dress differently, also.

I hate it when gym teachers let kids pick teams, it's so dumb. Although I was always picked first, I hated it. A lot of kids in my class were left out and I felt bad for them, because everyone deserves to have fun, be accepted, and be liked.

I guess, what I'm trying to say, is don't change so much, just wear different colors but black is still okay every once in a while.

As for telling your friend you like him...I wouldn't do so just yet. Think about you first, and then go for him. If he rejects you, just move on and don't let it get to you, because really, you can't lose something you never had. And last is never least.

&TiNA;

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OK i think this guy that I have been bffs with forever likes me. I wicked like him too. Only problem is, i could be wrong cus like, im fat. Hes cute too. I guess my question is .. does weight matter to everyone. And im a really big tomboy, i dont wear cute preppy clothes like all of my friends because i dont like things w/ a tight fit, im like a DD. Just please help !

Weight doesn't matter to everyone. Some guys like big girls, and some guys don't. And I'm sure if he likes you, it's not because of looks, although it could be that too. It's for personality, mostly. I mean, he's your best friend and he knows you very well, and how you are, and somehow over time got attracted to you. =] Weight doesn't matter to everyone, so don't worry about it.

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well usually i like my mom but now i feel like i hate nothing more than her! i told her not to go into my room but she did and i mean thats not thaat baad but she told me she wont but she still did and then she read all the things i wrote and i have this crush on a guy named david and i wrote his name like 50 times on a piece of paper and she saw that 2! i hate that i dont want her 2 know!!!!!!!! and now i'm really angry at her i trusted her and she just went in there! i think she knows 2 much about me she knows that i hate school she knows all my friends she knows like everything and i always hated that and now she also knows who i have a crush on and I CANT STAND IT ANYMORE! ore i want to go out at 7pm and than she says no no its to dark and blablabla and there are even junger kids than me out there! I'm 13 and will turn 14 in 23 days and my parents treat me like a baby! they wont aloude me to have a mobile ore a computer and i have to go to bed at 8pm and I REALLY HATE THAT! i tried talking to my parents but they never listend and i dont know what 2 do anymore! I NEED ADVICE!!!

THANKS!!

Well first off, you're 13. Age is everything to parents. If you're young, you're limited. At 13, I wasn't doing any of that either, but I did have a computer and cell, but I hardly ever went anywhere.

Trust is the easiest thing to break with anyone, and seems to me your mother broke yours. Talk to her about it. Tell her you don't like the fact she broke her word, and now you don't trust her because of it.

I can understand why they don't let you go out at night. For one thing, it is dark, and there a very crazy people out there. For instance, a girl was raped over myspace, so now schools have banned the site from their systems. If you're outside playing in the dark, they can't keep an eye on you. They wouldn't be able to see you because it'd be too dark for them too. And I really don't think you wanna wear reflectors. They just make these rules for your safety.

As for bedtime, deal. I don't have one, but I know what it's like. They set those because it's proven that kids with more sleep have better grades. I don't know why or how it works out, but it's true. There's nothing you can do about it. But, maybe if you talk to them about bedtime CALMLY, maybe you guys can work something out for something later.

& for your crush: very bad idea to write his name on a sheet of paper over and over and over again. I did that in 2nd grade for a boy whose name I don't even REMEMBER, and my dad found it, not my mom. Equally both upset, but, I got it worse from my father. He took my notebooks away from me. =[

For what she read, you can't blame her. Everyone has a natural curiosity for knowing what's up with their kids. We never tell them, so they need to find out somehow. Now, my mom has never read my diary, and she really knows better, but, I can't blame her for being curious. Her knowing that you hate school isn't such a big deal. A lot of kids do, so that's natural. And about your friends? Don't you think she should know? I mean, if your friends are doing drugs and whatever they're not supposed to be doing, she needs to know. Those are not people you wanna hang out with. They'll influence you to do bad things, and get you into bad habits. And habits like drugs, drinking, and smoking are HARD to break, because each is VERY addicting.

Really, you can't blame your mother, sometimes it's our fault too. Such as leaving those things out in the open for them to look at. Keep stuff like that hidden. I'm not saying what she did WASN'T wrong, because believe me, it was, and I'd feel so violated if my mom did that, but give her a break. She's curious to know what goes on through your head. Just respect her, and her wishes, and when you talk to them: Talk calmly. If you're yelling and screaming, and throwing those temper tantrum we all love the throw, then you're going to get nowhere.

I hope I helped you, and I'm sorry it was long. But sometimes it needs to be for a point or message to get across.

&TiNA;

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I wanted you to know I love the way you laugh
I wanna hold you high and steal your pain away
I keep your photograph; I know it serves me well
I wanna hold you high and steal your pain..what song is this and who is it by?

Broken - Seether and Amy Lee.

&TiNA;

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ok im 13. i wear a 34 DD. yeah im not fat either. just huge boobs my mom is almost an E! yeah so i need help. my boobs they are big bu they kinna sink and they have the cleave i want my boobs to not sink and much and get like pushed up... my mom wont by me a push up bra either.. soo how can i make my boobs like perfect so when i wear a low cut shirt boys will ... heh you knoww..

Wear 2 or more bras at the same time. It'll lift them better.

&TiNA;

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I have this friend, known her forever. Shes turning out to be really mean, and its gettin me down.

This summer, we spent EVERY DAY together. Never ever missed a day. When we got back to school, she paid no attention to me. I talk to her on the computer these days and she tells me im fat, ugly, slutty, fat,fat,fat,fat,fat!!

And it gets me down, because im not fat. she gets others to hate me

But then.. Im so nice I go back to forgiving her!!


I cant stop myself!! What do I do!?!!?

See, that's why I don't hang out with girls a lot. They're are such bitches. I hang out with guys because guys are less drama than girls, and so much more fun. And you learn how they are, and how to talk to them, but anyways.

I had a friend like this, and she always tried to be better than me, and I just said "Fuck it." If she thinks she's better than you, then forget about her. She's someone you don't need. Friends will never think they're better, and they will never think they're not. They'll see equally. But, just tell her you don't wanna be her friend anymore because you're not gonna deal with the drama and the putdowns, and really, who should?!

People who put me down are a reason for my low confidence, but after a while, I stopped caring, although it still hurts coming from people who are SUPPOSED to love you. I guess there's nothing you can do but stop being her friend.

=] I hope I helped you some.

&TiNA;

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i dont really get myspace.. can someone help me??
>>designing it
>>adding things

Okay.

If you want HTML codes. Go here.

- http://www.web-source.net/html_codes_chart.htm

If you want layouts, go here.

- www.createblog.com

Also, check out my myspace and see if that's how you want it to look. If so, I can do it for you. Just email me at taiinted_iin_love69@yahoo.com

I'd be glad to do your myspace for you. =]

&TiNA;

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Does anyone have a website,link or anything else
where i can listen to this one song by Armor for sleep called "Akward last words". I dont want to download it or anything.

Thank you!

They more than likely have it on yahoo.

&TiNA;

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Last night my ex-boyfriend (we still have feelings for each other and are bestfriend..I don't want to get into it) well he felt me up a few times. Now I'm and only a 32/A, is he going to be like weird that im small? and what was he like thinking?
13/F

i rate

Hun, you're 13. Who cares if you're small?! You have plenty of time to grow.

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lets call my boyfriend "bob" and the guy i cheated on him with we will call him "tj" anyways bob goes to a different school, we have been dating for about a week and i never get to see him nor do i ever get to talk to him except for weekends. last night i went skating and this kid that goes to my school that i like alot was there. tj just happened to finger me. anyways bob calls me today and asked me what i did last night and i tell him skating he goes i heard u made out with another guy. i say no..now im all worried that bob will find out and to make this any harder my best friend "ashley" likes tj alot..any advice ill do anything

15/f

You should've told him the truth instead of being a lying ho.

&TiNA;

Really? So does your mom.

At least as I was being honest.

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i used to have a lot of friends and allt he guys liked me. but this year we went to the new school and everyone hates me and talks about me and i pretty much have no freinds and i didnt even do anything, i even lost my best freind and people only talk to me when certian people are around. It sucks so much what should i do.

If people are rude enough to talk to you behind your back and hate you, and only so ignorant where they talk to you around certain people, fuck them. They don't deserve your friendship now, and they never will deserve. Fuck people. Be your own friend. I know this doesn't exactly help your problem, but fuck what people think, and they suck if they're gonna be that way.

&TiNA;

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Iam 16 years old and I want to have sex so I could get pregnant becouse I feel like nobody loves me and if I have a baby iam sure my baby will love me is this normal?

Are you kidding me? The baby won't love you. It'll take so much time, and stuff. It's a bunch of shit to have a baby at 16. And who do you plan on having the baby with? Just any old guy who doesn't mean anything to you? Or millions of guys so when you get pregnant, you end up going on Maury because you don't know who the father is? Rethink this over. I'm sure your family, friends, and parents love you.

I love how older kids than me think. Some of you think like you're 10.

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There is this boy at my school who is only in my spanish class. When we were there, we were in teams. He saw me go to team 1 so he asked the teacher if go over with my team. Then he started looking at me when it was time to go. I go with somebody, but I don't talk to him much. What should I do?

Break up with your boyfriend, and try for him.

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O.K., I am suposed to be seeing this boy who is my mom's boyfriend's son. he is cute. I am going to be really shy than the first time I saw him since we started talking.I want to go with him, but I hate long distance relationships. What do I do?

Lol, if they get married.
It'll be incest.

Haha, sorry, I thought it was funny.

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ok, i really need a strapless bra but i cant find one anywhere. and i dont mean the kind thats just like, a strip of spandex. i need one that actually works! my sister got a good one from limited too, but they sont have them anymore. does anyone know where i could find one?
thanks

I got one from walmart. Try there.

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hey im 14/m and im stumped. i cant thing of sweet things to say to my gf i love her to death and she thinks im the sweetest thing in the world but i like went stupid and cant think of anything else and its really bugging me can someone tell me some things so say i really need it to help me get going again. ill really appreciate it thx everyone.

You should tell her what comes from your heart.

You shouldn't have to come here for sweet things to say. If you love her to death, then you shouldn't have to do this.

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Hey, Im 13 and a female. I would like to start tanning because I am very white/pale. She says that 13 is too young to start tanning and that I should wait until I am 16. I really dont think that I would be willing to wait until I am 16. I mean come on that is 3 years! Is there anything that I can say or do to make her agree. Please dont say you should wait till your 16. Ill rate high. Molly ♥

You don't have to go to the tanning bed. Get a spray on or a tan lotion that tans you. Besides, who wants that fake bake look anyways.

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