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I have this friend, known her forever. Shes turning out to be really mean, and its gettin me down.
This summer, we spent EVERY DAY together. Never ever missed a day. When we got back to school, she paid no attention to me. I talk to her on the computer these days and she tells me im fat, ugly, slutty, fat,fat,fat,fat,fat!!
And it gets me down, because im not fat. she gets others to hate me
But then.. Im so nice I go back to forgiving her!!
I cant stop myself!! What do I do!?!!?
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You have to stop being so nice! I mean it, this person is not really a friend. She is abusing you and you don't have to put up with it. Ditch her and don't talk to her again. Tell her that you find her behavior immature and irrational. If she does this to you, she will do it to another person and they will find out in their own time and way. She will be the one left without any friends.
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See, that's why I don't hang out with girls a lot. They're are such bitches. I hang out with guys because guys are less drama than girls, and so much more fun. And you learn how they are, and how to talk to them, but anyways.
I had a friend like this, and she always tried to be better than me, and I just said "Fuck it." If she thinks she's better than you, then forget about her. She's someone you don't need. Friends will never think they're better, and they will never think they're not. They'll see equally. But, just tell her you don't wanna be her friend anymore because you're not gonna deal with the drama and the putdowns, and really, who should?!
People who put me down are a reason for my low confidence, but after a while, I stopped caring, although it still hurts coming from people who are SUPPOSED to love you. I guess there's nothing you can do but stop being her friend.
=] I hope I helped you some.
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sweetie i dont know how old you are but im like 16 and trust me ..i can tell you girls are such bitches and thats pretty much why i have more guy friends than girls :) they dont cause so much drama and they are just more fun to be around! now with your friend..this kind of happened to me..this girl was my bestfriend and we hungout so much then in my 10th grade year..we went back to school and she wouldnt talk to me..she would act like she was so much better than me and she was just trying to be "popular" and she started drinking and shit..well i just decided to make new friends..and blow her off since she didnt seem to care. we are no longer friends..and i like it MUCH better this way because now i have two best friends..that i just met this year and they are awesome. my advice is lose this girl..i mean why would you wanna be friend with someone that calls you fat and ugly? tell her to fuck off..and then go make new friends! hangout with your guy friends! :) well hope i helped sweetie! if you need anything else be sure to let me know.
♥ Kristen
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She's insecure about herself (probably thinks that she is fat, ugly, etc). She doesn't care about you, so don't be her friend anymore. She needs to know that you won't tolerate what she's doing. Block her sn, delete it off the list. Don't get involved. Maybe someday in the future she'll realize what she has done..Then maybe you could be good friends again.
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That just struck me as funny. You were like "yeah she calls me fat, ugly, and slutty. Well i'm not fat" implying that you ARE the other things. She's a bitch. Lose her.
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She realy isnt your friend if she is actin like that. She might just like the attention from it thats why she does it. She know that whatever happens you wil lgo back and forgive her so she is gonna do and say whatever she wants. I think you keep going back and forgiving her because you were such good friends and you know its not like you to be mean to her. So just nicely go to her and tell her that if she is gonna be like that then you dont wanna be friends with her anymore.
-Jess
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girls are bitches. period! so just act liek it doesn`t bother you ;; because if she sees that it doesn`t matter to you that she does this crap, then she will stop. she is only doing it because she knows it gets to you. just keep your head up high. oh && if she has to get others to hate you and junk, she is just so insecure with herself that she has to make fun of you and look COOL in front of her new friends. so just let her do whatever. she`ll get bored and start making fun of someone else. YOU can talk to me on AIM.
[♥]barbie[♥]
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girls can be such bitches! ugh it makes me sooo mad.
this chick is not your friend anymore. she was but lets just say she has gone to the dark side. you need to tell her that you dont care what she thinks
cause she obviously doesnt like you anymore and your
NOT going to be her friend if she is saying all these nasty things to your face! DO NOT forgive her beacause then she thinks its ok to treat you like this and its not. and you dont deserve to hear this
crap from your so called "friend". ditch her like she ditched you. start hanging out with some nicer girls. trust me there out there!
and if you need any more help leave one in my inbox!
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Hi,
She must not be your friend. She knows how to work you now that you have forgave her so many times. But what you should do is show her a new side of you. When she trys to apologize be like, "No, I don't want to talk to you.". Don't acknowledge her. In other words ignore her the best way you can. Please, you need to find new friends.
-GD
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She's obviously not your friend. Seriously dont hang out with somone who makes you feel bad. It's not worth your time. Dont be mean to her and say " Well i dont want to be friends with you",because than your stooping down to her level. Name calling really isnt necissary neither.At school dont really make as much eye contact and dont go up and start a conversation. If she happens to see you and waves or somthing. Wave back no big deal, But if she is being mean to you than walk away and dont even bother looking back or listening to what she said. As for AIM. AIM has a really handy dandy button, that i barely use, and im sure your familiar with it if you have AIM. Its called the "Block button" haha. So when she is making you mad or makes you feel bad. Either ignore her by minimizeing her box and exing out when she is done (but not reading a thing)OR you could click block and never have to deal with it on AIM again.
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