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friendless
i used to have a lot of friends and allt he guys liked me. but this year we went to the new school and everyone hates me and talks about me and i pretty much have no freinds and i didnt even do anything, i even lost my best freind and people only talk to me when certian people are around. It sucks so much what should i do.
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If people are rude enough to talk to you behind your back and hate you, and only so ignorant where they talk to you around certain people, fuck them. They don't deserve your friendship now, and they never will deserve. Fuck people. Be your own friend. I know this doesn't exactly help your problem, but fuck what people think, and they suck if they're gonna be that way.
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be friendly to everyone. smile alot & act happy. more people will want to be around you. good luck
lovelovee<3
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i know you want to run away dont you cant always run away from your problems . try to be how you used to be before you went to that school , show everybody taht you arent going anywhere people will learn to respect you alot more .also dont let people talk about you if they start to stop them say something like grow up and stop being so messy and if you feel you cant do this at least try tomake friends wit though you would have never been friends with , it always turns out they become your best friends
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im sooo sorryyy!!! but you know what,if they judge to fast,if they believe lies and dont ask you about it,what good of friends would they be?Trust me,next year,they'll pick on someone new.Every stupid snob thinks they can get away with this,but they cant! karma*.it ALWAYS comes back. who ever started this,will get it back 3x as bad.who knows maybe everyone will hate that person next year.my sugesstion - keep a high goal and focus on the upside. i remember when i was going through that, i wanted to be [and still do] a singer/actor.Then when they saw my name in lights they'd be wishing they are never did that :p. You have to think -- everything happens for a Reason*.and dwelling on others that wont have a chance to get to know you- is not worth it.im not saying to compleatly shut them out...but if you dont talk to them,they cant get any dirt on you.i really hope you relize there is nothing wrong with you,it is this one person conducting it all.So be bold,be strong,and be happy!! i think you should take acting lesson,gymnastics,anything,because then you can meet new people.And if she really was your best friend,she would know that just because others hate you doesnt mean she has to hate you.she actually should have been helping you!! things will get better!! with every wild card comes great success =] i REALLY mean this--
Gooooooooooooddd luuccckk!!!!
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xdarkdesirex
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Oh God, I feel so bad for you.
Believe me, I went through EXACTLY the same thing. Two years in a 36 strong class and not one person talked to me in all that time.
I wish that I could offer you some true words of advice and tell you how to make them your friends...but I can't. What you need to realise right now is that these are not the sort of people you really want as your friends because it's really low to treat people that way.
You can try talking to a teacher and seeing if there is anything they can do; maybe switch you to another class? But I must admit that when I did this, it temporarily made the whole situation 10 times worse and I ended up locked in the loos crying for half an hour before a sixth former dragged me out.
It seems so awful now but the absoloute best thing you can do is to keep your head down, try to focus on studying and getting through it. Eventually, they will grow up and they'll probably never even remember having being so dreadful to you. But one day, you will be able to look back on the whole experience and see how much stronger it made you and how much of a better person you are than them because while they knocked you down and made you feel so miserable for so long, at least you didn't resort to bullying people to make yourself feel better.That's probably very little comfort to you right now....but if I could have my time again and had to go through being bullied like I was again, knowing how much stronger I would feel afterwards might have helped me get through it.
I'm sorry I couldn't be more help but please, if you want to seek help, it IS out there and if you think it will help, please, please don't suffer in silence. Speak to a teacher, a parent, anyone who you can tell how miserable you are. I really hope everything works out okay.
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