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howww can he like me?
OK i think this guy that I have been bffs with forever likes me. I wicked like him too. Only problem is, i could be wrong cus like, im fat. Hes cute too. I guess my question is .. does weight matter to everyone. And im a really big tomboy, i dont wear cute preppy clothes like all of my friends because i dont like things w/ a tight fit, im like a DD. Just please help !
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weight doesn't matter. unless it's an a-hole that likes anorexic skanks thats all skin and bones. just observe the things he does around you, does for you, and says to you. it'll be obvious if he likes you. and if you considering on changing your look, like the way you dress.. think about it before you do it. you don't have to dress the way other girls do and be another clone. it seems like that guy likes you because of who you are right now. changing yourself might make things different. (;
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i really think you should go 4 it!! most relationships that work out are between people that are friends 2! it doesn't matter, or shouldnt matter that you are a tomboy! weight doesnt matter 2 most boys either, and if it does matter 2 a boy then hes not worth it. a boy should respect you 4 who you are!!
good luck!!
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Weight doesn't matter to everyone. Some guys like big girls, and some guys don't. And I'm sure if he likes you, it's not because of looks, although it could be that too. It's for personality, mostly. I mean, he's your best friend and he knows you very well, and how you are, and somehow over time got attracted to you. =] Weight doesn't matter to everyone, so don't worry about it.
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I really don't like how you classify yourself as being "fat"! I used to think that way, always having been a little bit heavier, but now I look at myself compared to the girls at school, and I see myself as being more of a woman because I have kickass curves :) And yes, a lot of guys like the girls who aren't boneracks... and those who don't haven't grown up enough to realize that they don't want a little girl :)
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Not all of us guys want girls for their looks. They guy that like you happens to be one of the guys that don't.
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true fact: guys love girls with a little "meat" I couldnt believe how my old ex liked me, but I relized its your personality thats draws them in. Screw other girls. He likes you, not them. Dont put yourself down, build up confidence and talk to him about your feelings :)
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To give you a bit of confidence... think of it this way. Girls like Paris Hilton (anorexic) are pretty much guys with no penis (AKA- sticks). And who seriously wants to have sex with a stick?
Curves kick ass. If you show them off in an appropriate manner, in the right way, you can get whatever you want.
I personally think girls with curves are at an advantage- you get more attention, because hey, every guy likes a girl with a huge chest. Not even kidding.
Anyway, weight doesn't really matter that much at all! If you think about it, the person you want to spend the rest of your life with is going to get old and ugly anyway. It's the personality taht counts, and if your best friend is cool enough to see that, then you'll have yourself a really good boyfriend.
I am not simply advising you, I am commanding you... tell this guy how you feel, before someone else does.
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