Okay so theres this girl on my bus lets say her names Kayla. She is SO ANNOYING!!! I cant stand her! shes a real popular girl (I dont know why!) and she is so mean. She has never done anything to me, except just make me mad. anyways, theres another kid on the bus lets say his names greg and hes a grade younger than her. Noone really likes him on the bus except for the real shy people who dont stick up for anyone. I personally dont know him and he doesnt know me. Kayla says the meanest things to him, like that hes fat and ugly and makes fun of his friends and stuff. I can bearly take it because I feel so bad for him. All these kids pick on him and he has a hard time sticking up for himself because there are so many mean kids on my bus. Shes actually mean to everyone that doesnt wear "the latest and greatest fashion". She was mean to one of my good friends because she didnt like the smell of her hand sanitizer. HAND SANITIZER!!! She needs to grow up desperetly. I really want to stick up for these kids. She actually hit one of these kids one day. The worst part is, our bus driver doesnt even care.
could you help me think of something to say or do?!?
ACE
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[ Answer this question ] Want to answer more questions in the Work & School category? Maybe give some free advice about: School? NinjaNeer answered Thursday March 9 2006, 3:22 pm: It's easy to deal with people like this, because they're usually really dumb :) I was always on the wrong end of girls like this all through elementary and high school, and here's how I dealt with them:
DO NOT get angry or passionate when arguing with them. It means they have the upper hand, they're getting what they want. Just be calm and logical, and explain what a dumbass they're being! I had one girl once make fun of me because I wore the same pants on a Friday and the following Monday: I turned the tables on her, and said "What, you keep a journal of the pants I wear?" And everyone made fun of her from then on. Just use your brain, not your heart, and come up with a great way to retaliate. Also, NEVER use physical violence, all it does is get you in trouble. So just stick up for your friends, make her look like an idiot, and don't hit anyone :)
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SWANKiFiED answered Thursday March 9 2006, 1:45 pm: This girl is too much & since you feel a passion towards stopping, that's exactly what you should do. Sometimes it's hard to stand up to people like her because they are intimidating. She's going to keep doing this because it gives her power over people. Sticking up for what you believe it can come with consequences. For example, she may try to say stuff to hurt your feelings but show her you can't be pushed around. One day, just tell her exactly how you feel. Be stern & confident, not sheepish & don't show fear. If you do this, everyone will be glad to have you around because you were such a help. Good luck & if you have any more questions, don't hesitate to ask. ;D [ SWANKiFiED's advice column | Ask SWANKiFiED A Question ]
LoViNu2mOuCh answered Thursday March 9 2006, 11:02 am: That girl sounds like a bitch. I am sorry but she does. I think the thing you need to do is stick up for you and the other kids. I mean right now she probably feels like she has power over you guys since you don't stick up or do anything about it. So she is just going to continue to do it.
If you are too afraid to do it by yourself, then ask some other people to help you out. If she is really as bad as you made her seem, then I am sure other kids will be more than happy to stick up to her, especially in a group of people.
orphans answered Thursday March 9 2006, 1:00 am: This girl sounds emtreamly immature and shallow. And its realy messed up that she is picking on people for no reason at all. Maybe next time she says something mean to someone you could respond with something like "Its pretty sad that you have to point out other peoples flaws to try and hide your obvious ones." Maybe point out the fact that it is truely immature to make fun of others and that she should feel lucky to still be in school because that behavior will get you nowhere in the real world.
You should stick up for the others too. There was this kid on one of my bus routes and everyone hated him and amde fun of him. I was so sick of it I just straight up told everyone that they need to knock their immature crap off otherwise I was gonna kick their asses. They took me seriously!! lol
But i guess if all else fails just tell someone, like your principle or counsilor at school. If someone like that knows about that behavior she may get kicked off the bus and the bus driver may get in trouble for ignoring it.
christina answered Wednesday March 8 2006, 10:53 pm: Well, tell someone. Either that, or do what I would do, slap the shit out of her, and tell her off.
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