about

well i am a 15 years old girl that is soft hearted and i loves helping other people out. i love giving out advice. i can relate to a lot of peoples problems because i have been through a lot in my life. i have done a lot of stupid things in my life that i regert but i cant change the past but i can try to change the future. i love to dance and enjoy life to the fullest. i love my best friends to death i would do anything for them..




advice

hey is it true that when you sleep you're supposed to take your bra off?

you dont have to but you should let your breast breath you know. it feels a lot more comfrontable too.
*~Stephanie~*

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i know i don't have breasts but when i get near a guy i try to push them out.[it works kinda] but i think now boys are looking for that. im 13. what should i do?

thanks in advance

ash

guys dont usualy look at that these days. personaly they dont like them big becaquse then it is like when they try huggin you theu sufficate the girl and they dont liek it. how do i know this i got a lot of guy friends and my bf told me.
*~Stephanie~*

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what do you get a guy for his birthday and christmas when he says he doesn't want anything?

i got my bf a dog tag wit a picture of myself on one side and a sweet little thing i had engraved on the back. and i think it would be a cool idea. hope this helps.
*~Stephanie~*

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my girlfriend is having a halloween party and i forgot about it and made plans with my friends to go to the movies. should i go to half the party and then to the movies or to all of the party. do you think my girlfriend will be mad if i dont go to the whole party

think which is more importanter to you. it better be your girl otherwise you got some problems. your girlfriend should always come first. unless you dont want to be with her for a while.. hope this helps.
*~Stephanie~*

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ok well i want to get a little closer with my boyfriend you know what i mean the thing is should i shave down there or not
i shve mu bikini line and stuff and i trim to but i don't know what the dudes like so how should i do it what do you guys like.
help me lol

i personally think you should. just because it looks a lot cleanier and that if he does soemthin like eat you out or soemthing of that sort he wont have hair in his mouth (yuck).
*~Stephanie~*

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why do guys find the need to have a skinny girl? it gets me mad when a guy is attracted to some skinny girl when he could have great chemistry and a great relationship with a different girl who is overweight?

sam with girls i guess. but guys seem to have a more 'strict criteria'

i so get what your talkin about. i hate that to how guys go after the boney people that mayb got back put got no cheast or anything. just because she thin. personally i think it is wrong because i think a girl and a guy look better with some curves and not just striaght down skin and bones. i dont know why maybe she is s\thin and it is very likely that in the future and if she doesnt get pregnant that she will stay thin and not gain a lot of weight and become fat.
*~Stephanie~*

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Ok Me and My boyfriend broke up the other day due to he liked another girl! It broke my heart, I was mad, and I could have pinched his head off. But now he acts like he likes me AGAIN! Like when I was sitting at lunch today with some girls he kept looking at me for long periods of time. He does that even when I pass him in the hall. And when he sees me on the bus he will look for me and when he sees me he will smile. And at other times he will ignore me and just look at me. So Whats going on???!?!? Signed Confused! (Smarty Pants will be reported.)

all depending on how long you and your bf were together.. i think he likes you.. he can and probably does still have a lot of feelings for you if he cant get over you. it also can be that he misses you and that he knows without you he feels incomplete and doesnt want to be with the other girl. what should do is talk to him about it. like you and him only. tell him how you feel and explain to him what you see him doing and ask him why he doing what he doing. hope this helps you out.
*~Stephanie~*

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SORRY IT'S LONG BUT PLESE HELP
Ok where do I start?Let me first explain that as a girl I'm not pretty but I'm not ugly either,I don't get attention from boys especially not popular ones I only get attention from older men and other people that I would so not like to date
But recentley a quite popular boy has seriously been onto me and he tells all my friends and everyone else how much he likes me and how he thinks I like him.He is like really popular and can have any girls in schoool he wants so why me?the thing is I don't actually like him. I mean I want a bf and all cause I've never had one but I'm not that desperate,he's like really sweet and all and my sister and most of my friends like him and think we suit eachother but I just don't see it.I have been trying to come up with plans that can get rid of him but none of them ever suceed and last week I over heard him telling his friend that he was going to ask me out and when he does I don't actually want to say yes but I need a good reason to say no don't I? just incase he asks why I don't want to go all in explaining how I don't feel that way about him so my only option is to say that I already have a bf but I don't like lying so can someone like tell me how to get one and QUICK PLEASE

my opinon on this problem.. since i go to probably a more "ghetto " school then you it might not be the same. popular guys always think they can get what they want. until one day they get rejected adn feel like shit. they more then half of them think they can get a girl and sleep with them and then leave them without giving a fuck about what they do next or what they have caused the girl and all her pain. anyways... i think you shouldnt lie to him. tell him the truth that you dont think it is a good idea 4 both of you to go out because you barely know him and and dont want to rush into things. tell him if he really likes you that for right now start as friends and get to know eachother. then "maybe" there is a possibilty for you guys to get together. hope this helps you out.
*~Stephanie~*

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14/f ..i know this sounds dumb but i really want to know....my boyfriend and i have braces and i was wondering if they can really get stuck together when you make out?ill rate high for a good answer ...thanks

it can happen but rarly. i mean you dont use ur teath to make out. only your lips and tongue. so dont worry about. hope this helps you out.
*~Stephanie~*

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hey everyone im 17 and im a gurl..me and my bf have been together for awhile now but he lives kinda far from me so we dont get to see eachother much either so how do i kno if he is being true to me? i mean we talk like alot on the phone everyday and i dont think he would cheaton me but i am jus wondering i mean it could be possible he is since he lives far away and maybe would do it and i wouldnt kno...but he loves me and i love him...i bet i am jus worrying over nuthing but i have alittle doubt in my mind that he would do it but jus alil doubt...he talks about past relationships sometimes & it bugs me i dunno i am worrying over nuthing right? i rate 5's since this is long

i can so relate to you right now. that is how me and my boyfriend are right now. even though i am 3 years younger then you. i think i can help you out. dont think about the negative things. think about the positive and the good things. dont always think he is doing somethign behind your back.. if he does break your heart and tellls you or even you find out then forget him. dont worry about it... srop it and move on i mean there are soo many guys out there that it isnt worth it to make a big deal out of one of them. hope this helps you out.
*~Stephanie~*

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All right,my sister is 18 and her hair is EXTEAMLY thin,its so delecate,and fine.I feel so bad becuase its so thin you can see her scalp in some areas when its wet.No hair cut will work for her.She has died her hair many times.I can tell shes trying to make it have body,but it doesnt work.I know she is going to try anything to make it look good.When its dry,its thin,and frizzy.I just feel so bad me and my mom talked to her doctor,they did some tests and everything was fine she isnt looseing any vitamins,does anyone know how we can fix this problem and what to do,and hair growing products or maybe even anything she can take to get thicker hair? and i mean...really thicker hair??

this was caused by her dieing ehr hair sooo much. the one thing i would recomened for her to do is to go to a salon and get a hair therpy treatment done it should only cost from 10-30 dollars.. but what it doesn is gives more strngth to her hair and makes it grow more then it falls out and so it will look and get more thicker. hope this helps you out.
*~Stephanie~*

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okayy so me and this guy andrew have been dating for about 3 months and we've done a lot and have gotten really into eachother.. so i thought but it was all summer and once we got back to school he stopped calling and stopped comming over and to me that isn't hard to come over we only live 2 houses down! so in school my friend jack started likin me and i sort of starting like him a little bit to but i still had a lot of feelings for andy. Now tomorrow in school jack is asking me out so i've heard but i don't want to turn him down again cause it would be like the 20th time i have turned him down. But i still really like andy, however, i don't think andy really likes me anymore but it's really hard to get over him. So i need help.. should i go out wiht jack? or should i try and stay with andy?.. and im sorry i know its confusing

first thing first since your really still going out with andrew and havent really "broken up" with him you need to call him up and talk to him. dont be so caught up likin jack that you forget about andy. tell andy how you feel and talk it out dont be scared. then take your choice and go for jack that seems more into you then andy is. hope this helps you out.
*~Stephanie~*

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this question may be a little weird, but, i just need to know as many possible showering ruitines as possible.
1)How often do you shower?
2)girls- when you shave, when do you? Because i find it kind of hard to shave with the water frmo the shower head running over my legs and the shaving cream being watered all off
3)when it comes to shampoo, conditioner, soap, shaving, etc, what do you do first..like in order?
haha thank you guys itll help!

1)i shower everyday
2) i shave every other day but in the winter maybe every 3 days (at most)
3) in order.. 1) rinse my body 2) shampo wet 30 seconds then rinse out 3) conditionar (leave it in) 4) shave 5) rinse out my body again and my hair. then i am done. =]
*~Stephanie~*

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I am 17/M. I have a girlfriend that I have almost dated for 4 months. We had a great realtionship to start out with. Once school began though I start to drift away from her. I am very active in school and after school. She is in love with me but I am not.(I told her I didn't after lying about it for awhile) She calls and I am not really inclined to call her back or even talk to her when she does call. It is like a chore for me. I wuldn't mind spending time with her but only if it was for awhile not some BS 15 mins. When we are together I feel really close and begin to like her a lot. Then after like 2 weeks I just dont care anymore. She is really serious in this relationship and I am not so much. I don't know what to do. I just want some direction or arrow telling me what I need to do. Plz give me that DIRECTION!

personaly your scarying now i am wondering if that is how my boyfriend feels about me.. if my boyfriend ever told me that he didnt like me the way i like him or even more then i did i would have left him already and tryed finding someone else.because he barely talks to me anymore. but anyways this question is about you. it might just ebcause you need to clear your head and think what is more important to you. what would be some advice but can ruin your realtionship with her is to ask her to take a break because you need to clear up your head. if she loves you and after you cleared you head and find out the truth if you really do care about then she will come back to you. if she doesnt then it will prove that she doesnt really care. hope this helps you out.
*~Stephanie~*

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Is there anyway for people to know you and ask you personal questions. I have had only a few personal questions and I wish I had more. Is there like i said anyway to get more popular on this site, or well known?!?

all you got to do is answer as many questions as possible. for instance you can try to answe at least 10 questions a day and people will rate you and will know you a lot better and enjoy yor advice and will ask you personal questions.
*~Stephanie~*

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I'm really close to this guy named Kevin. He's one of my best friends & I just met him about a month ago when I first moved to this state. He told me he was gay when we first met. It didn't bother me at all, seen as I have a lot of gay friends. But, this was our conversation tonight:

HIM: I love you a lot! :)
ME: Hah, you can't you're gay.
HIM: No, I'm bisexual. I just prefer guys more.
ME: Lol, well youre 75% gay.
HIM: Yeah, but the other 25% is you.


Okay, Well, basically my question is, do you think he really likes me? Like from that 25% thing? Just wondering.. Thanks a bunch.

i think he likes you. if you can understand that he is gay/ bisexual then i think you to can make it work out.
*~Stephanie~*

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k does ne1 no how to get those ♥ thingys i had to copy and paste this 1. thanks i'll rate 5s for working awnsers.

& hearts ; put that all together and you get a heart. =]
*~Stephanie~*

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My girlfriend and I have been split up for 3 wks. We went out 4 times this week and its almost like we're together again. She has a $250 digital camara and printer that she gave me for Christmas, she says they're hers. Last night we had a stupid fight in the car and I took the camara from the compartment next to the seat. She tried to snatch it from me, but I took it anyways. I'm just wondering if I was so wrong for doing that? or if she is wrong for trying to take back something she gave me?

personally when i am in a realtionship and who ever i am with gives me gifts and when or realtionship ends i personaly give them back so that i dont feel like i used them to get something that i want. i dont know why you would want it if ever time you look at it will remind of what you had and what you cant hve anymore. if you really want to keep it my suggestion is to give her the money for it or go get yourself another one.
*~Stephanie~*

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Ok i broke up w/ my boyfriend like 4 days ago because he had sex w/ some other chick. Well his bestfriend and me were good friends. His best friend asked me out the next day and i said yes. I think part of the reason is just because i wanted to make my x jelous. Now i really miss my x. I think i still have feelings for him though is it to soon to be going out w/ anybody else.

yea it is kinda messed up that you got a boyfriend the next day that just proved to your boyfriend that no matter what you always win and that he isworthless. which is true since he cheated on you. but you need to keep doin what your doing. if you dont like ur oyfriends ex stop going out with him now. dont keep it up or it wil hurt him a lot more. whatever you decide to do dont go back to your ex. doesnt matetr how hard it gets dont do it it isnt worth it.hope this helps you out.
*~Stephanie~*

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ok I am talking to my X Boyfriend and we are thinking of dateing again cause we cant really let each other go...and my mom dosnt like him at ALL!! she calls him a jerk and all that....I have been asking her to give him another chance cause he really has changed....and my x boyfriend (might be boyfriend) he keeps talking about how I hurt him and he tells me that he was heartbroken for a month or 2 and he feels better that we might be dateing agian...but how can I get my mom and dad to approve of him again???

PLEASE HELP ME!!! I will rate all 5's I just really need ADVICE!!

if your parents dont listen to you when you tell them soemthing PROVE it to them. envite him to dinner or over your house and talk things out with your family and him. hope this helps you out.
*~Stephanie*~

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