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Confused...
ok I am talking to my X Boyfriend and we are thinking of dateing again cause we cant really let each other go...and my mom dosnt like him at ALL!! she calls him a jerk and all that....I have been asking her to give him another chance cause he really has changed....and my x boyfriend (might be boyfriend) he keeps talking about how I hurt him and he tells me that he was heartbroken for a month or 2 and he feels better that we might be dateing agian...but how can I get my mom and dad to approve of him again???
PLEASE HELP ME!!! I will rate all 5's I just really need ADVICE!!
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bring him around your family so they can see for themselves how good a person he is ♥
GO0DLUCK girl
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If you prove to your parents that he is trustworthy then maybe then they will learn to. Maybe you guys should become b/f and g/f right away b/c you parents dont approve but you guys can go out. If shows that he can be a friend and a nice guy when your not dating then there is a chance they will see that he can be good as your b/f. If that makes sense.
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If your parents don't like him now they probably won't until they see for themselves that he has changed. So basically you'd have to start bringing him around again. Sadly though, people don't really change that much and relationships rarely work out the second time. Depending on why you broke up the first time (which would have been really helpful) it MAY work out, but it's probably unlikely. There's no harm in trying again, but be prepared if it doesn't. I hope that everything works out for you and good luck!
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Your parents probably will start to approve after you guys are together, and they see that he really has changed. Until then, just ask them to try. (= Good luck.
♥ Melissa
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Just like someone else said, try to prove to your parents that he is changed, but before you do that make sure he has changed, because if he has not changed and you find that out in the middle of the realationship, your parents will never let you live it down. Also, I just wanted to say that its good you are giving him a second chance. Now when you say can't be apart do you mean all the time, just make sure you can be independent, that will make sure he won't become too clingy, and things will go great.
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if your parents dont listen to you when you tell them soemthing PROVE it to them. envite him to dinner or over your house and talk things out with your family and him. hope this helps you out.
*~Stephanie*~
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There must be a good reason why youre parents dont like him. Did he do something to you for them to feel that way?
What do your friends and other people think of him now? If its been years maybe a person can change, but if its only been months, i doubt it!
There really isnt a way for your parents to change their opinion of him, except to try and convince them to give him a 2nd chance just like your willing to. Thats the only way to prove them wrong. Sometimes other people see what you dont.
Good Luck!
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