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why do guys find the need to have a skinny girl? it gets me mad when a guy is attracted to some skinny girl when he could have great chemistry and a great relationship with a different girl who is overweight?
sam with girls i guess. but guys seem to have a more 'strict criteria'
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Hey... well i have that same problem and it gets me mad and then i stop to think "but would i really want a guy that shallow?" and i think its better to find a guy that likes you and everything about you instead of just you weight, looks,etc. Well hope i helped
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NeVer_Noticed
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Same with me. All guys are just attracted to cheerleaders at my school, and all the skinny slutty girls. It makes me mad. I can't answer exactly y. It just does. That's how guys are. If yu want a bf try n flirt.
Hope we helped,
x0x Laura
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the thing is alot of guys are like that and we cant help it but i mean come on if a guy is shallow enough to be into looks alone do you really want him anyways? thats why long term relationships and serious relationships happen in ur 20's bc guys develop the maturity level to see beyond looks girls are more mature than boys when we are teens and thats why our criteria isnt as strict bc most of us arent into a shallow relationship based on looks alone. hope i helped!
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This is very hypocritical, but true. Men are visual. Women are not as visual. This explains why we love porn. Women tend to like erotic books. It makes no sense to me. Seeing great fucking or reading great fucking? Gimme seeing. But ultimately, if shes just a little overweight but otherwise good, we'll prolly end up with her. But come on, who's better? Brad Pitt or Jack Black?
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well that is not always true... girls have a certain criteria also like some girls wont date anyone shoter then thereself or they wont date someone who is heavier .. i understand where u are coming from with this question and i agree that it is unfair to those who are heavier but are way better then the next skinny chick i say those guys are assholes because they arent focusing on who the person really is all they are using the skinny chicks for is like a trophy which is pathetic at all cost!!!
hope i helped you!!
XxCynthiaxX
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all guys dont like skinny girls...I am one of those skinny girls but its good for a girl to have meat on her beacuse of alot of guys like that.
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I've found with heavier girls that that wears off as the girl gets older if she has a good personality. As guys mature, they become less shallow. I hope you can find a guy who can see past appearances!
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Sad but true. Society has us all trained to work against each other I think sometimes. Women are trained that in order for them to make a statement they have to have the right shoes, dress, purse, car, house, ring, hair color, make-up... Men on the other hand have to have the right looking woman hanging on his arm who will be expecting him to provide her with all those things previously mentioned. Men like to brag and say that they are simple and don't need that much. They say all they need is two pairs of shoes and a couple of pairs of pants and they are fine compared to women. What they choose not to see is they can't afford anything for themselves because that's the price they have to pay for that perfict looking woman hanging on. And believe me as soon as he stops being able to provide for her....out the door she goes to the next chump.
Good Luck!
LULABELLE
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not all guys like skinny girls.. i actually know a lot of guys who would prefer not to have a skinny girlfriend.
and as for the "same with girls i guess". i'm just throwing this out there for all of you.
my ex was overweight and its nice because when they're big they make you feel safe. but the guy i'm with now is really fit and that's nice too..so i pretty much don't care about what a guy looks like..though many girls do.
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Honestly, some guys don't feel the need to have a skinny girl because of the fact that they're skinny. They feel the need to be with these girls because skinny girls from an earlier age have been more confident in themselves because they feel more comfortable with their bodies. They grow up thinking they're awesome, other skinny girls tell them they're awesome and this is how pre-teen princesses are born.
Later on, these girls turn into the popular clique at high school. They eat next to nothing to remain skinny because they have been brought up to see that skinny is 'in' and spend hours taking care to look like Queen Bees.
Now Queen Bees at high school are -always- skinny and -always- the object of lust by the majority of high school boys. The boys like them because of their confidence/popularity and so people mistake that for liking them because of their weight because virtually all popular girls are skinny.
In the real world, things get more complicated. Girls turn into women and boys mature. It is a scientific fact that most guys prefer hippier females (signifies good ovaries and reproductive qualities) and choose an extrovert personality (signifies a good life partner) over looks.
But in situations like these, obese (obese should not be mistaken for overweight) females and males are the losers because their weight signifies bad health and not many members of the human race want to have babies with an unhealthy person.
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i don't like skinny girls, its like having sex with a skeleton. I like 'em physically fit with a nice touch of belly pudge to accent the smooth muscular legs. hey, I got buddies who like big girls, so stop looking at it like we all have a thing for bony broads, we are all unique, with different tastes. you'll find a nice fella that'll love you for who you are...........
-gunner
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welll to let you know we have a social life too ok going out with a girl thats a bit chubby we get made fun of yeah well thats the strict criteria we have
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i am a girl and i hate to say it but my most dislike of a guy is them bein over weight, its a total turnoff for me, it makes me feel bad but its so hard for me bcuz im skinny and i expect to be with a skinny guy, but if i did lik a guy thats wasnt skinny i would go out with him, but likin a guy that is overweight would be really weird for me just bcuz its so much of a turn off for me...
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Sadly, it is just a guy thing. They may not only just be attracted to the skinny girls, the other half is because if they are seen with an overweight girl, or a girl that nobody likes by their friends, they'll immediatly feel insecure and dump the girl. This is called major immaturity, just remember that it eventually changes even though things shouldn't have to be changed all because of crazy hormones.
-TheTeenGirl
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i so get what your talkin about. i hate that to how guys go after the boney people that mayb got back put got no cheast or anything. just because she thin. personally i think it is wrong because i think a girl and a guy look better with some curves and not just striaght down skin and bones. i dont know why maybe she is sthin and it is very likely that in the future and if she doesnt get pregnant that she will stay thin and not gain a lot of weight and become fat.
*~Stephanie~*
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Guys are weird and if they knew how nice some people are they wouldn't care what their weight was. Guys have strict criteria because (I know this sounds harsh but..) they do not want to have rumors about themselves etc. about his gf. It is kinda a popularity contest for them sometimes. I admit I'm not the most skinniest girl in my class but I'm not overweight. I get mad sometimes as well. But it is the chemisty of life. My advice is be yourself and always be true to yourself if you want to get a guy and gain self-confidence.
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