Question Posted Wednesday October 26 2005, 3:36 pm
Ok Me and My boyfriend broke up the other day due to he liked another girl! It broke my heart, I was mad, and I could have pinched his head off. But now he acts like he likes me AGAIN! Like when I was sitting at lunch today with some girls he kept looking at me for long periods of time. He does that even when I pass him in the hall. And when he sees me on the bus he will look for me and when he sees me he will smile. And at other times he will ignore me and just look at me. So Whats going on???!?!? Signed Confused! (Smarty Pants will be reported.)
sizzlinmandolin answered Wednesday October 26 2005, 5:12 pm: Seems to me like he's realizing that he lost a great girl. Things could still work out between you, but since he's not begging you to take him back or even asking at all I would say he's moved on, but he's very upset that he has because he knows that you two had something good going. My advice to you is to either give up on him completely or try talking to him so you know what he's really feeling. Most relationships that don't work the first time, don't work the second time either, but there is always a chance if you're willing to explore it. Don't get your hopes up though, there's a much greater chance that you two are done for good. I hope everything works out the way you want it to...good luck! [ sizzlinmandolin's advice column | Ask sizzlinmandolin A Question ]
lulabelle answered Wednesday October 26 2005, 4:45 pm: Sounds like he's playing games. I'm sure he knows how hurt you were by his behavior. But, just to be on the safe side, if you know what girl it was that he broke up with you over I'd do a little investigating. Could it be that she rejected him and now he wants you back? Or, maybe he wants both you and her at the same time. It's been known to happen. He could also be trying to keep you as just a friend while he is seeing someone else. He could be one of those people were the grass is always greener. These people are never happy where they are and are always looking elsewhere for their happiness only to find when they get there that they are no happier than the were before. He may not be worth your time. Be very cautious before you get involved with him again. If you take him back, make him work for it. Don't just take what he says at face value when he explains why he wants you back. Check out the gossip. Find out for yourself what is going on with him. Ask people questions. They will answer them if asked. I know it's hard and you cared for him so very much. But, you have to look after number one, and that's you. Protect yourself.
angelfire2708 answered Wednesday October 26 2005, 4:33 pm: Hes just being a typical guy that doesnt know what he wants. Its been a year and my bf still looks at me. Im sure it doesnt mean anything.
If he wanted you, hed be with you, its that simple. He broke up, he can get back together, but hes not. So just disreguard the looks, or let him.
Advicelady6798 answered Wednesday October 26 2005, 3:53 pm: He is not even worth. If he truly liked you then he would have not even done that to you. I" think you should like someone else for the reason that you can do better. I think that he regrets not being with you. [ Advicelady6798's advice column | Ask Advicelady6798 A Question ]
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