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What do I do? will rate 3's and above for all reasonable ans
SORRY IT'S LONG BUT PLESE HELP
Ok where do I start?Let me first explain that as a girl I'm not pretty but I'm not ugly either,I don't get attention from boys especially not popular ones I only get attention from older men and other people that I would so not like to date
But recentley a quite popular boy has seriously been onto me and he tells all my friends and everyone else how much he likes me and how he thinks I like him.He is like really popular and can have any girls in schoool he wants so why me?the thing is I don't actually like him. I mean I want a bf and all cause I've never had one but I'm not that desperate,he's like really sweet and all and my sister and most of my friends like him and think we suit eachother but I just don't see it.I have been trying to come up with plans that can get rid of him but none of them ever suceed and last week I over heard him telling his friend that he was going to ask me out and when he does I don't actually want to say yes but I need a good reason to say no don't I? just incase he asks why I don't want to go all in explaining how I don't feel that way about him so my only option is to say that I already have a bf but I don't like lying so can someone like tell me how to get one and QUICK PLEASE
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Walk to him say : (his name),sorry,i dont think we will be a good pair,i don't see a relationship between us
Good luck
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Well, it never hurts to just go out with him? Just don't get attached and see what he really wants you for. If it's for you... then yay! =)
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my opinon on this problem.. since i go to probably a more "ghetto " school then you it might not be the same. popular guys always think they can get what they want. until one day they get rejected adn feel like shit. they more then half of them think they can get a girl and sleep with them and then leave them without giving a fuck about what they do next or what they have caused the girl and all her pain. anyways... i think you shouldnt lie to him. tell him the truth that you dont think it is a good idea 4 both of you to go out because you barely know him and and dont want to rush into things. tell him if he really likes you that for right now start as friends and get to know eachother. then "maybe" there is a possibilty for you guys to get together. hope this helps you out.
*~Stephanie~*
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ok don't say you have a bf just tell him you like someone else and you have for a long time
or ask him why he notices you now
I hope I helped
Jessica
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I think that you should tell you want to be friends. Or find a different guy. You could probably find one in a chatroom if you dont want to lie. Or you could tell him you like someone else. I always did that to get a guy not to like me anymore so i am sure it will work for you to. You just have to think of a person that you like. In case he asks b/c if you dont have a person he will knoe you dont like anyone else.
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If you think that "I am not interested is not good enough of a reason then try these lines....
Eh, your just not all enough.
I am a staunch non-conformist and therefore I cannot date you because people like you.
I have a mild form of epilepsy and you bring on attacks because you make me too excited. Therefore I cannot date you.
I have Tourette's Syndrome. So if your f$#@%# A@#% isn't F#%^%ing embarrassed by the sh#%& I say, then GODFU$*@% you piece of%#@* Your mom is a c#@& that *&%#@ when she &$%@#. It happens every OTHER sentence.
You have to be this tall (and raise your hand up as far as you can) to ride this ride.
I only date guys with cars (if he is 16 then you only date guys that can vote.)
If those don't suit your fancy, then be honest. Say you just are not ready to date right now.
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You already have a very good reason to not go out with him, you aren't interested.
You don't need to lie, or make an excuse or anything at all, if he asks you out just say "No thanks." If he insists say "I'm not interested." or even "Sorry, I don't think of you that way."
Being polite is fine and good but you also have to stand up for what you want. Don't compromise yourself. It's okay to not want to date someone who wants to date you.
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ok well first you should wait and find out if he does actually like you. becuase if they are popular they might be saying that toget ur hpes up high and then when you do start liking him he'll be like no i never said that, i only know that becuase people do it to this boy at mi school all the time and i feel so bad. if i were you i would wait and find a real guy. the way it sounds is like its a joke so just wait and see and if he really does like you then go for it but i would wait. hope everything works out for you and if u need any more help just ask!!Good luck
hope i helped
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Christin
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i think the reason he wants you is BECAUSE he CAN have any girl in the school, but you just dont like him. but dont say you already have a boyfriend,...thats kind of wrong,...i'm single to but, dont be so despreate sweetie! i think you should be like casually "you're a great guy and everything, but i just dont like you..DONT ASK WHY! It's to long." and if he's even worth talkin to afterwards, he'll shut up and be alright with your decision
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