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okay this is kinda hard to explain, but anyways about a couple of months ago my dad made me move with him to a new area, new school, new everything. while i was at the new school i met a rly special guy he means the world to me and we have been going out now ever since i moved. Now my dad has decided he doesnt like it out here. So hes making me move back to my old school, old friends, which i dont want to move back. I hated it at my old school and just about everybody in the school. Now im going thru like hell....could anybody help me in anyway? oh yeah, i havent moved yet buts its going to be soon :/
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Just try to keep in contact with him, if he loves u he will help u through all of this.
Try and talk to your dad about this whole moving thing and be nice about it and just like say, '' Dad i really like it out here, i have friends, a boyfriend who all care about here, and that i never had at our oher house.'' It might make him think a little more about your happiness here than back there.
Good luck
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Unfortunately, if you are underage, you pretty much have to go wherever your father drags you. I would, however, suggest that you sit him down and talk to him. Explain that you have started a new life here, one you really like (don't emphazize that you have a boyfriend, some fathers hate that), and how hard it was to pick up and move here, and how much you don't want to go back to that place you hate.
Other than that, perhaps you can talk to your mother, or another adult relative, and see if they can help you.
As for boyfriends, if you do happen to move, you can continue a long-distance relationship. Unfortunately, however, you should realize that if things do head south and you end up breaking up... well, then that's what happens. Young boys, especially those in their first five or so relationships, tend to be emotionally immature. If you break up, then you know it wasn't "meant" to be.
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is there anyway you can still talk to your dad about it?? maybe if you explain to him your whole situation he'll think about it. juss tell him how you feel & you don't want to keep switches schools & everything, & now you finally like it there. he was a kid once, so maybe he'll understand where you're coming from. if that doesn't work, there's no reason why you still can't talk to that guy. phone, online, go visit each other, hang out, etc. you can always keep in touch with the friends you made, & maybe your old friends really want you to go back to school w/ them & stuff. it'll work out.
-hope that helped!♥
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