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can you get an std from giving a guy a hj?
because i read something on a site that said that you can get hpv from skin to skin contact. please make sure you have facts before you answer because i REALLY dont wanna get an std.

i've heard of people getting herpes by face to face contact but never from giving someone a handjob. i'm almost absolutely positive you cannot get an STD from it.

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i dont know what to get my boyfriend for his birthday or just something as a gift to him when i feel like it. i just need some ideas. he luvs to play guitar and he wants a new electric gutar and i was thinking about saving up my money for that and then giving it all to him, but i dunno i wanna get him random gifts cuz i didnt get him that much on valentines day

Well personally, i think buying him a guitar is spending too much on him. you could go to a music store and see what he's into... what kind of guitar, etc. (playing guitar is kinda vague). while you're there he can show off his guitar playing skills. maybe he'll see a book or guitar accessory that he likes and you can go back and get it for him for his birthday... then you'll know that he likes it and it's not so random. if you need anything else, lemme know.

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wich is the MOST funny video you've seen at youtube???? or the moste amazing! magic trick !???? please tell me (link)

i like
shoes
loveletters**
sextop 2000
big mac rap

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when my boyfriend fingers me for the first time. will i bleed? and if i do. will he be disguisted?

:(

it depends. since it's your first time, have him go slow and only use one finger and you probably won't bleed. any more than that, you probably will. If he's mature, he won't be disgusted.

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i know they're both bad, but which ones worse?

-estacy, or weed?

ecstacy is way worse.

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i'm 125lbs
i'm 13
i'm 5'2
i've been told i'm average weight, i've been told i'm slightly underweight, & i've been told i'm morbidly obese
and i've been told i'm just plain fat
i don't think my appearence is fat.. but..
is this a healthy weight?

I was the exact same height/weight when i was 13 & 14. You are fine... actually, good. don't gain weight.. just maintain your weight as in try to keep it the same. yes, you are healthy.

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does lipton green tea have caffeine in it?

I'm pretty sure it does.

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I am dating this guy and we really love each other and we're both 13 and his mom gave him 2 condoms that she got for him and has aloud to make out on the couch and stuff...we've talked about sex and stuff and we both this we're ready but I dunno how its supossed to happen ? Any tips,comments to suggestions ?

I think you are still too young. I have a 13 year old brother and trust me, 13 year old boys are still little boys. He would say "i love you" to anyone with a vagina if he knew he could get some. At 13, the first time would just suck. neither of you are fully grown.... his mom gave him condoms probably for just in case. do you know how to use a condom? do you know it's bad to use more than one at a time? do you have a place and time to do it? will you both tell your friends and hope they don't tell anyone? do you know what you would do if the condom broke? would you be willing to be in pain and wonder what happens when you bleed? think about it. there's so much more to sex than just boy + girl+ condom.

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okay, so my boyfriend and i have been dating for about 2 months. we hit it off really well & we have a very very healthy relationship. we are both strong christians, and have morals, but the farthest we've gotten is french kissing. Now we have friends of ours that we double date with alot. They've gotten way farther than us. like they haven't gone all the way, but he's like fingered her & she says that they've done things that she regrets. but idk. i don't really have an issue with going any farther with my boyfriend. but is it wrong to do anything? because i just feel like a goody goody.

HELP!

you're not a goody goody, you're just being smart and making good choices. it shows that you have self control and really respect each other. If you feel like a good lil girl, i know a girl who went out with a guy for 6 months and they never kissed - no lie. so really, you're ok. you don't need to do more after 2 months. just enjoy what you do feel comfortable doing and don't let anyone make you feel like you're behind... you're not.

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I want to know if my waist/hip size is right for my age but I don't know how! My bf's waist is 32 inches! sounds a little too skinney for me

EDIT: So what exactly IS your question? I don't see a question mark anywhere.
If you're asking what waist size is right for your age... you MIGHT just want to, Oh I don't know, INCLUDE your age?
Stupid people ask stupid questions. Stupid questions get stupid answers.
Have a nice day.

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i am thinking about letting my boyfriend finger me,but i have really long large in lips on my "lower area" will he get freaked out? or should i do something about it, or not let him finger me, do guys think that is weird ?

he will probably be too excited to even notice. if you don't want him to see everything just yet, wear a skirt and just give easy access not a full on view.

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So i'm generally considered a 'good' girl.. even prudish by some of my less closer guy friends. But last night at a party, i went to second base with a guy friend who's interested in me... it was my first time and in retrospect it was a really really stupid idea. looking back, i dont even know why i did it!! and now i dont know what to do.

I dont want to seem 'easy' or anything and i definitely dont want to be used. My other guy friend said not to believe him when he said that he doesnt care that im not that sexually active. It's just awkward to see my guy friend now, especially when he wants to go out with me and i dont know if i want to... hes not very attractive but he has a great personality and i dont want to seem shallow or anything... what am i suppose to do? i think that if i do end up going out with him we might touch second base again or something because i wouldnt let him go far in that.

any help or advice please?? any hurtful rude nonhelpful comments will be disregarded because im really worried about this.

Well everyone makes mistakes like this and feels easy or slutty but really, if you make a mistake once, it's just that, a mistake and since it was only once, you are not a whore or anything. don't beat yourself up over it just clear it from your mind but just don't do it again if that's not your thing.

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what's body butter? lotion? can you put it on your face?

It's a really rich, smoothing lotion basically. it makes your hands and body really smooth and kinda slippery. I don't think it's meant for faces unless you want a shiny-ish greasy face look.

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Sooo can any one explain to me exactly WHY Britney Spears shaved her head?

Thanks

I think its just for attention.
BUT i did hear on the radio today that they were going to do a drug test. Hair can test positive for drugs for like 6 months so that might be why she just got rid of all of it.

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My Daughter is 11 and she tells me shes old anough to babysit but i dont know if she should. I started babysitting when i was 11 but i want to make sure its a good age. Please help!

most people start at 13 or 12. 11 is a little young but it'd be fine if it was an 11 year old taking care of an older child that's at least 5 or 6. not many people will hire an 11 year old but for family issues and anyone that is in desperate need of a sitter, it should be ok.

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Okay well... my boyfriend and I are both
virgins and not sexually active what so ever.
However, when we lay down on a couch/bed and he wraps his arms around me I get a lot of VD.
Like what the heck ?
Is this normal ? or just weird ?
HELP.

It's normal... probably even more so for the less experienced but don't quote me on that. actually, it'snot only normal, but a good thing.

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i am saving my self for marrige and my bf doesnt want to wait until we get married. he sometimes puts me agasnt a wall or kisses me and doesnt let go. this things exite me alot and im afraid they might lead to me giving in.
Is this normal for me to get exited sexually at such things?

It is normal to get excited.. that's basically their purpose but it does not mean you will give in and have sex before marriage. Tell him that you want to wait and he should respect your decision and not make you or insinuate that he wants to go further.

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Do guys shave down there usually or not? I want to know what to expect (not that im doing anything anytime soon. just curious)

usually not, but a few i know do.

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It's a known fact that guys don't go out with girls who aren't skinny, gorgeous, and flawless which is really unfair because i happen to be none of the above. Basically, I NEEEED a boyfriend, like its beyond just wanting to be with somebody it's a need to have that special somebody. Sure, there's friends and whatnot and they're important too (don't get me wrong) but sometimes you want somebody that can be more than just a friend to you. It's frustrating because some girls can get a boyfriend in a split second without even having to blink. people like me on the other hand have to sit back and watch these people and envy them while they work their charm. So what can I do to be more like them? To be glamorous and amazing so that guys will want me as much as they want those other girls? PLEASE HELP.

Frist off, you do not need a bf. you are just as good without a man as you are with one. guys don't go after just skinny, gorgeous, flawless girls, i promise. once guys mature, they like girls that don't look like sticks and they know that no girl is perfect. just sit tight. girls that can just get a bf whenever don't really appreciate the relationship or usually even care about their bf. honestly, a lot of girls just get a lot of guy attention for being busty or putting out. I know its frustrating not having someone special but its worth the wait till the guys mature... they'll appreciate who you really are more. Don't try to be like everyone else for a guy to like you... you can be confident like these girls but don't change who you are. guys don't like girls that are clones. just be you, feel pretty learn to love yourself and mr. right will come looking for you.

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does the guy in dresden dolls sing at all?

I think he does back up. I love their music.

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