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Sex
I am dating this guy and we really love each other and we're both 13 and his mom gave him 2 condoms that she got for him and has aloud to make out on the couch and stuff...we've talked about sex and stuff and we both this we're ready but I dunno how its supossed to happen ? Any tips,comments to suggestions ?
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I know a lot of people have told you you arent ready and havent really answered your question...i agree with everyone else that you are still a bit young..but i will answer your question for you because nobody else really has. Sex should happen naurally..you should be alone with nobody to inturupt you two..while making out you should start to undress him or take your shirt off..it should happen naturally like that..and maybe kiss each otherr's necks...and other places ;)
I must urge you to wait..becaue 13 is soo young..my litttle brother is 13..and i cant picture him doing something like this. At this age you two are probabl curious and hormones are getting a little crazy...if you two really like and trust each toher..i suggest maybe exploring a bit ..but find alternatives other than sex. try touching and kissing places maybe. i hope this helped..but i agree with everyone else..sex should wait
-melissa
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omg you guys are not ready, sorry but yall just started puberty, theres no way to be physically or emotionally ready for such a big thing like sex.
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I'm going to be quite blunt & get to the point. You aren't ready. How would I know? Being ready to have sex is being ready to deal with the consequences that may come after. & in today's society, no one at 13 is ready to be a mommy. Even if you use a condom, it doesn't guarantee you 100% protection. I can't even imagine losing my virginity at 13. When I was 13, sex was something we discussed, but nothing we acted upon. It's sad to see people this young are actually considering doing something that should be shared later on in life. You're still young & you should enjoy being 13. Don't worry about these kinds of things till you're physically & mentally mature enough. I was 13 once. I know sex may seem something you're "ready" for now, but later on you'll regret it.
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I think you are still too young. I have a 13 year old brother and trust me, 13 year old boys are still little boys. He would say "i love you" to anyone with a vagina if he knew he could get some. At 13, the first time would just suck. neither of you are fully grown.... his mom gave him condoms probably for just in case. do you know how to use a condom? do you know it's bad to use more than one at a time? do you have a place and time to do it? will you both tell your friends and hope they don't tell anyone? do you know what you would do if the condom broke? would you be willing to be in pain and wonder what happens when you bleed? think about it. there's so much more to sex than just boy + girl+ condom. <3
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before making any decisions, really think about it. how long have you even been with this guy? you may think you're ready, but maybe you're really not. at 13 its a little too early to settle down and most 13 year old boys just wanna mess around with other girls. so even if you do have sex with him, think about it, what if he leaves you afterwards?
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well you probably don't want to hear this, but you aren't ready for that. trust me. I'm 20 years old and have been active, but i still don't think i'm ready. Sex is meant to be special with someone that you really love. and i know you don't want to hear this, but love when you are 13 is so much different than when you get older. trust me. things change and you grow up and believe me you will live to regret it. i sure do.
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his mom probably gave him the condoms for that just in case thing , you know how parents are all "its better to be safe than sorry" thats probably whats shes doing, and making out on the couch eh. not a huge deal to be honest. i mean i dont like to PDA personaly but its your choice. and dont absolutly have sex until you are personally ready, and so is your partner.
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