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im 16/f. k, so i've been dating my guy since july 04. he was supposed to move to indiana but he didn't. he ended up moving in my house instead. he went thru my cell phone last night, so i went through his and found a message he sent to someone saying "hey sexy" and "finger urself". so i got kind of worried. today, i was talking to his best friend today and he told me my bf told him that he was going to cheat on me if he moved to indiana, and he still might cheat on me now that he lives with me. his friend doesn't want me to rat him out, but i need to say something to him bc im so upset about this. what should i do? thank you in advance. (link)
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ok you guys have been together for so long and he wants to cheat on you? thats really lame on his part. don't rat his best friend out, and maybe you shouldnt even mention it because he'll just deny it. it's not even fair that he's living with YOU and wants to cheat on you. what kind of bs is thattt? he really doesnt love you if he's doing this to you. im not gonna tell you to dump him, because in the end that's your decision, but definitely think about it. sounds like he's a dirtbag.
good luck.
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whats the worst thing a girl can do to make a guy stop liking her??? or what can she do to make him keep liking her??? (link)
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first, don't be too clingy, don't try to be something you're not. and don't make him like him for something you're not. just be yourself
you cant make a guy keep liking you.
gooood luck
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I'm 13/f, and I just started dating my best friend's step-brother(my first boyfriend, which seems pathetic, I know, but the only nice/cute guys at my school are all taken--by my best friends). We don't talk much, he goes to another school, and the only time we've talked since we started going out(last Thursday, Feb. 22) was when he asked me out. The thing is, I feel somewhat attracted to one of my other best friend's boyfriend. I used to have a HUGE crush on him earlier in the school year. If I break up with my boyfriend, my best friend might get mad at me, and even if she doesn't, there's still the fact that I'm kind of attracted to my best friend's boyfriend(this best friend is NOT the one with the step-brother). Did you catch that?
I have no idea what to do. (link)
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one rule of femenism is chicks over dicks. so as much as you don't wanna hear this, it's ok to feel attracted to your best friend's boyfriend, as long as you don't try to get him or anything.
as for your new boyfriend, if you like him, you should stay with him but dont let that get in between you and your best friend.
gooood luck
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ok so tomorrow i HAVE to talk to the guy i like. because i do have a chance if I talk to him. so like were not friends. he knows i like him. so what can i say to him? i see him at lunch. (link)
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just be yourself around him. don't try to empress him or anything. just start up a normal conversation and don't like plan it (that may make you nervous and you'll mess up) just go with the flow.
GOOOD LUCK
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I am a 15 year old girl. My boyfriend and i broke up after a long time a few weeks ago. I really do love him and he told me "i used to love you." I messed up because i really hurt him and now I dont know it he is just saying he doesn't love me or if he really doesn't. There is this other boy who is really cute and he likes me. All of my friends are telling me it will help if I go out with him but I still love my ex. what do i do? should i keep waiting for my ex.. he calls me everynight and he always wants to talk... or should i forget about him and go for the new boy? (link)
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if you and your ex have been together for along time and you still love your him, it will NOT help you at all if you go out with the new guy. it will just make you want your ex more, plus its not fair for the new guy. i'd say give it a little more time and see how things with your ex go.
gooood luck
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16/f
hey. i know i can always ask for you guy's help, because you've helped me a lot over the years =) today, i'm in a crisis, and I really need the help of someone who doesn't know the situtation very well. I'm sorry if this is kind of long, but, I need to get it all in there. So, I'm going to start fromt he beginning
There is this boy named JC. I've liked this boy now for a couple of years. But, it's not that I just like him. He's been my everything since I've known him. When I'm around him, it's like I can't even begin to put into words how I feel. This person is so important to me. I've written him a series of letters over the years, telling him how I feel about him. Recently, I've started a binder and I'm planning on giving it to him, without saying who it's from yet. I didn't feel ready to give it to him because he has a girlfriend. I know he doesn't really love his girlfriend because I know why he's with her. It has to do with their families and it's just a relationship of convinience. He just has her to say he has a girlfriend and their families know each other. It was just like convinient.
Sometimes, I have tried to get over this boy. But, I don't really want to get over him. When I'm ready to tell him, I'll tell him. But, I've had boyfriends, other guys. But, I mean, I got my first kiss when I was 14. I was there with this boy, who took me to eighth grade prom, and I wasn't just not going to kiss him. Besides, I had felt bad because, well, you know, imagine if I hadn't kissed anyone now because I was waiting for him, and he was there with his girlfriend. I would feel awful, and I would feel worse if I saw them together and I had never had a first kiss waiting for the boy who has a girl sitting on his lap, right?
So, I have a boyfriend now. He's a very sweet guy, and I like him a lot. These two boys go to different schools, rival schools. haha. But, yesturday we went to this fair at JC's school. I went because that school is my school's brother school and I wasn't going to miss it just because my boyfriend didn't want to go to the rival school fair, but he ended up going. So, we found this little hut in the school and we started making out and he gave me hickey. I was there with him, and some other people. So, my best friend texts me and tells me she couldnt find me, and I told her we found a spot. So, my mom drove us home, because I'm learning how to drive, and I don't like driving at night, because I'm still learning. He goes to this thing called paintballing and he lives with his grandparents, so usually his grandpa takes him. But, he didn't have a ride because his grandpa took the car with him on a business trip. So, he called this kid, to pick him up, so he could sleep over at his house and take him to paintballing today.
my mom sees the kids and totally freaks out. I see the kids and totally freak out. I'm so scared, it's not even funny. These kids were bad, and like really bad. So I send my best friend a text message saying, listen my mom and i are really scared of these kids, i don't think my mom wants me to be with him anymore, and that i needed help covering up the hickey what should i do? and I didn't send the text message to my best friend. The message, BY ACCIDENT was sent to my boyfriend. So, when he gets it, I had to make up some lame excuse that I switched phones with this kid, but now everyone is mad. I just want to fix this and I don't know how. I couldn't stop crying yesturday and I don't know what to do. I really really want to fix this. please can you give me some advice on this?
Thing is, last night, at 2 in the morning when I was crying, I called JC. I called himand I was about to tell him everything. But, he was sleeping and the phone was off. So, there we go. Anyways, I don't know if this is important but, please please help me
Please and thank you (link)
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if you loveee JC, maybe you should tell him how you really feel. take the risk.
in your boyfriends case, be honest with him and tell him how you really feel too.
goooooo luck
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ok two of my "friends" have been calling me a whore to my face and behind my back because i kissed a guy at a dance who was my date and we were not going out because he is not ready for commitment(and i did not know that at the time) and also because i have guy friends who are kinda touchy feelly but are just my friends please someone tell me what to do. (link)
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are your friends serious about you being a whore or are they just kidding? that's really immature on their side. you're not a whore for kissing your date. if its bothering you, tell your friends its bothering you that they're calling you a whore and make sure you get it through their head that you're not. if they keep calling you a whore, ignore them. gooood luck
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This wouldn't be a "love" question if it didn't involve a boy. So it does.
So Jack is my best friend. We get along great, and the whole shebang. And I like him. A lot.
I guess I'm a really shy person. Is there any way to tell if he likes me back?
Also. When I get to be good friends with someone, when I say goodbye, for the day, afterschool or whatever, I hug them.
Is it weird that I don't hug Jack? Should I? Would that be awkward? Would he be able to assume that I like him?
I really don't want to tell him that I like him because I don't want him to think that I'm weird, but I really want to know if he likes me too.
And my school has this thing going on next week called "Twirp". It's like Sadie Hawkins. The girl has to do everything, as opposed to the other way around. Should I say something then? (link)
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i think asking him to the twirp is a good start. if things go well after, tell him that you like him. take a risk. if he doesn't feel the same way then you'll know to move on and not be there confused. GOOD LUCK!
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when girls wear a perfume?
and what perfume is the best to turn a guy on? (link)
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YES. go for soft scented perfume that last a really long time
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I am dating this guy and we really love each other and we're both 13 and his mom gave him 2 condoms that she got for him and has aloud to make out on the couch and stuff...we've talked about sex and stuff and we both this we're ready but I dunno how its supossed to happen ? Any tips,comments to suggestions ? (link)
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before making any decisions, really think about it. how long have you even been with this guy? you may think you're ready, but maybe you're really not. at 13 its a little too early to settle down and most 13 year old boys just wanna mess around with other girls. so even if you do have sex with him, think about it, what if he leaves you afterwards?
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