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What should I do?
This wouldn't be a "love" question if it didn't involve a boy. So it does.
So Jack is my best friend. We get along great, and the whole shebang. And I like him. A lot.
I guess I'm a really shy person. Is there any way to tell if he likes me back?
Also. When I get to be good friends with someone, when I say goodbye, for the day, afterschool or whatever, I hug them.
Is it weird that I don't hug Jack? Should I? Would that be awkward? Would he be able to assume that I like him?
I really don't want to tell him that I like him because I don't want him to think that I'm weird, but I really want to know if he likes me too.
And my school has this thing going on next week called "Twirp". It's like Sadie Hawkins. The girl has to do everything, as opposed to the other way around. Should I say something then?
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the best way to be subtle about the dance is to just joke around with him about it. Maybe mention that you are thinking about asking "Bob" or whoever, and then say something like "who has asked you about going?" if he hasn't had anyone to ask him yet, or if he doesn't want to go with the ones that have asked, then just say, "well, if my date doesn't work out, and you can't get a date, then we should go together." or something like that, so you aren't being too obvious.
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i think asking him to the twirp is a good start. if things go well after, tell him that you like him. take a risk. if he doesn't feel the same way then you'll know to move on and not be there confused. GOOD LUCK!
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Well, if he likes you back you can tell if maybe he treats you a little differently, he does stupid things to get your attention, and flirts with you.
If you suddenly start hugging him, then it would totally show off that you like him, but it will also be awkward since you just randomly start hugging him. So yes, he would be able to assume you like him.
If you really like him, go for it! If you are scared to do it in person, write a post-it or IM to him like "will you go to twirp with me?" You might find out he likes you too, or maybe nothing will happen at all. :( If nothing happens, don't tell him, but invite him to a movie! If that goes well, continue inviting him on dates (not too close to each other though) Flirt with him - joke, laugh at his jokes, poke him in a playful way, make sure to be interested in what he's saying. If there is no progress, he probably just doesn't have feelings for you. Hope I helped!
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