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whore
ok two of my "friends" have been calling me a whore to my face and behind my back because i kissed a guy at a dance who was my date and we were not going out because he is not ready for commitment(and i did not know that at the time) and also because i have guy friends who are kinda touchy feelly but are just my friends please someone tell me what to do.
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are your friends serious about you being a whore or are they just kidding? that's really immature on their side. you're not a whore for kissing your date. if its bothering you, tell your friends its bothering you that they're calling you a whore and make sure you get it through their head that you're not. if they keep calling you a whore, ignore them. gooood luck
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okay you are so NOT a whore. if you were with your date and kissed someone else, then that i guess could be considered a whore. but your not and plus you didnt know that he wasnt ready! i mean seriously. they are wrong. telling them"dont call me a whore" isnt really gonna stop them cause thats not how life works :]
the best thing to do is make them feel stupid for what they are telling you. they dont even know what a whore means in this case... when they call u that, just stare at them or "raise an eyebrow" and make them feel dumb. i get that sometimes all i say is "um..ok?" and they dont have anything else to say. haha well i hope i helped
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Well, tell them that you don't like the fact that they calling you a whore and that if they were your real friends they wouln't call you such names.
If they get mad at you and don't change after you tell them that well they was not good friends from the start. Try not to worry about what people say I know that its bad when your friends say such things like that but if you are not a whore what do it matters. It sound to me that they are jealous one might like the guy you went to the dance with and they jealous that they didn't go to the dance with him. The way to handle jealous people is to make them even more jealous and know that you are not nothing they say you is. I hope this helps
Read your bible it always help best
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People who call you that aren't your real friends. Stick with the friends who don't call you names.
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So what? That's not whorish at all. Your friends are totally wrong. Next time they call you a whore to your face there are a few things you could do.
you could take the high road and say something like, you really have to quit calling me that.
or, you could say something a little(lot) bitchier like, at least guys like me.
but i would probably tell them to stop callimg me that, and, at the same time, become closer to other friends and kind of ignore them. eventually, the whole thing might pass.
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They clearly don't know what a whore is.
If that's all you've done, you're not a whore.
I have guy friends that are also "touchy-feely." No waaay am I a whore. :]
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I'd punch them in the face. Or just stop being friends with them. Nobody's perfect, and I'm sure they're not either, so remind them of that since they obviously think that they're better than you.
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