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fingering
when my boyfriend fingers me for the first time. will i bleed? and if i do. will he be disguisted?
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not if he isnt rough and comin from a guy he wont be disgusted and if u do bleed it wont be noticable
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it depends. since it's your first time, have him go slow and only use one finger and you probably won't bleed. any more than that, you probably will. If he's mature, he won't be disgusted. <3
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you won't bleed unless he gets really aggressive then you might... he won't be disguisted but he won't know. you won't know either until you go to the bathroom and wipe it's not like intense bleeding.
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Well im 99% positive that you will not bleed you will only get wet make sure that if he does do it the first time that you are confortable and that he does it slowly because its the frst time you experienced this happening to you..
And if he pops your cherry or break you hymen I think you may bleed everyones diffrent but you may just have a a very milky discharge Oh and make sure you wash up before him doing this so he wont have wat they call a stinky finger
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Hi.
Well, it really depends on if he is gentle, or rough. I didn't bleed till 3-4 months after my boyfriend (now fiance) started fingering me, and thats only cause he was really rough and halfway popped my cherry.
Speaking of which, it also depends on if you cherry has been popped or not.
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The key to ensure you do not bleed or feel sore from the experience you must talk to him before hand and tell him exactly what you find pleasurable and non-pleasurable and guide him. Most guys at this stage have no idea about female anatomy and what to do.
Be sure you tell him and guide him through everything and then he'll know what to do for the future. This helps you avoid being sore or minor bleeding which should never happen.
Let's say you did bleed a bit if he cannot handle that then he's not mature enough to be doing anything remotely sexual with you or nayone else yet. It sure isn't your fault if you bleed as you're not in control of that. The key is to communicate before doing anything as well as during the actual act. You'll be fine that way.
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You might bleed if your hymen breaks. If it is already broken [due to something like a fall] then you probably won't bleed. Tell him to be careful, and tell him you might bleed. Just let him know, he shouldn't be disgusted.
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