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exiting
i am saving my self for marrige and my bf doesnt want to wait until we get married. he sometimes puts me agasnt a wall or kisses me and doesnt let go. this things exite me alot and im afraid they might lead to me giving in.
Is this normal for me to get exited sexually at such things?
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It's natural to be turned on and excited sexually from this kind of behavior that the two of you have recently been engaged in.
As far as giving in goes you have to know inside your own mind what doesn't feel right or where your boundaries are set. If things get hot and heavy and you think it may lead to sex gently push hin away. tell him you are not ready for sex yet and stop your make out session completely.
Any time you think you might give in remind yourself how you feel about wanting to remain a virgin until marraige and gently push him away or off of you. Once you do that once or twice he will have learned how far he can take things without it crossing boundaries you have set up for the relationship and about sex.
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That's okay if your excited about that! You should be. It's absolutely normal to feel this way. He most likely feels the same. But I think as long as you have enough self disipline and self control, you'll be fine. Make sure that he understands that you clearly want to wait until you marry, and don't give in unless you absolutely want to do it. Don't do it just because he wants you to. He should respect that. You are the only one who can ultimately make a decision and act upon it. No one else can force you to do this. So it is all up to you and your judgement. Keep on telling yourself that you'll resist it and you won't give in.
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yeah its totally normal don worry about it. getting excited is fine just when it gets to the point where you are about to give in you should ask him to stop.
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Yes it is very normal..I'm waiting til marraige also. So many girls are loosing it so early that i think it's better to be different...Your boyfriend is probably trying to excite you and get you horny to change your mind about your decision to wait to have sex til you're married..He sure does want you to give in but he should respect that you dont want to have sex yet. But it's nothing wrong with him wanting to make your body feel good and your pussy wet every now and then without have sexual intercourse. And also it can be tempting to resist having sexual intercourse but remember there is always an Escape for any Temptation...Anything you do, think of all the consequences and how you'd feel afterwards, before you do anything..hope i helped
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It is normal to get excited.. that's basically their purpose but it does not mean you will give in and have sex before marriage. Tell him that you want to wait and he should respect your decision and not make you or insinuate that he wants to go further. <3
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