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Ok i just turned 13 and im not matured yet.. all my friends are .. but they are all turning 14 soon .. there is hair down there and i see some white stuff in my underwear but at that docter checkup thing they said i would when im 14 or a freshmen , well im going into 8th .. im really small and flatchested soo whats goin on?

your just a late bloomer, thats all. nothing to be worried about =]

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is that a good age to babysit? Because I have had like 2 years of experiance with my 2year old nephew!

yes, 13 is a good age to babysit.

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when ever i download the sims2, and i put the thrid disc in, it freezes there, my freind kammi (hi kamz!) said she doesnt know, i have the sims2 doewnloaded on a diff computer, but im not allowed on it, because i got my own, and its my sisters and she doesnt want me to delete the families and stuff like that! can you tell me why its freezing? (it freezes at exactally 49%)

3 of my other friends have sims2 as well. they all say that it freezes on their computer too! i think there is something wrong with the actual game, but not your computer. try calling technical support.

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ok so i went to florida with my ex-boyfriend who i'm still crazy in love with! we hooked up down there but we still don't go out. he says he wants to be single because you can do whatever you want. then he says he doesn't like me cuz he wants to be single! i have no clue what to think. what should i do? how do i handle this?
cRazY iN lOve x3

i think that he's trying to tell you that he doesnt like you. i say to get over him, and i know its hard to get over your love. but if he doesnt like you back after about 2 weeks, forget about him.

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i have a crush one sum1, but idk if hes gay or srt8, and a few people say hes str8, but he says some things to me that make me thing differently...should i try to get over him, or something else?

~~The Human Heart~~

~~The Human Heart~~
if you arent sure, dont get over him. wait a bit till he trusts you enough, and if you feel comfortable, ask him (if you are a girl: ask if he's straight, if you're a boy, ask if he's gay). it might feel uncomfortable and awkward to you, but if this person gets to know you well, he wont feel like hes in a bad position to tell you.

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Wow ok this sounds really stupid.. but, there is this kid i like and hes really really hott. He has braces , but hes still hott with them! So if i hooked-up with him would it like feel werid or just feel regular .. lols

Stupidly Confused

stupidly confused-
it would feel regular. just because he has braces doesnt make anything different.

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Okay I've been with this guy for about six months and we just recently broke up. When we broke up I asked him if it was over completely and he said no. Now I am wondering what I should do? Should I wait on him or should I choose to move on? I still like him a whole lot and he still likes me but I'm not sure if I should wait and see what happens. This is the second time we've broke up. What do I do? I live in California and there is so many guys that are hot here.

if you really like him and cant think about your love life without him, go for it! if not, go hook up with those hot guys from california. haha.

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Okay, I know that you have a ton of these questions, but oh well.
I'm 14/f, and I live in pennsylvania. In pennsylvania you can start working when you're 14, but few places will hire. Does anyone know where they hire at 14. I heard about McDonalds, and there's a McDonalds where I live, but I don't think they hire at 14. Wendy's doesn't hire until 16, neither does Rita's. So does anyone know any places?

Btw, I can't babysit. Not allowed to, and there's no one to babysit and it's almost fall so I can't do landscaping.

Thanks in advance!!

you can work at a mall (claires, delias...), or target. also a local supermarket.

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ok, well, my bf's friend asked me if i would make out with my bf and i said i would. you see my bf had never made out with anyone before. so when we went to the movies with him and our friends something happend. all the guys were calling him a wuss bc he has never made out before and stuff. so anyway in the middle of the movie he turns to me and says "look, i love you but i dont want to mess anything up so can i kiss you?" and i was like...um...yea ok. so he was like.."lets do it then". i felt REALLY werid. so then everyone came and sat by us so we kinda stoped talking or doing anything. so then about...i would say 10 mins past and he said "ok, i know this is gonna be akward but im sorry". so out of no where he starts to make out with me. and im not saying it was bad but it felt werid. so after 3 seconds i pulled back and said "this feels weird". and he said sorry and stoped talking. so now i feel bad. i mean, i want him to kiss me bc he wants to and bc he likes me. not bc his buddies are making fun of him! so the question is...should i tell him why i pulled away? and was it bad for me to pull away? sould i say sorry? im so confused so I BEG OF YOU! PLEASE PLEASE PLEASE PLEASE help me!!!!!!! theres some 5's involed : ).

1) yes, you should tell him why you pulled away. right now, he probably thinks hes a horrible kisser or that there's something wrong with him.
2) no, it was not bad at all for you to pull away.
3) if you want to clear your consience, you can say sorry. but i suggest you dont, because there's nothing for you to be sorry about! =]

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I have a really cute guy friend name"Brock Bumbarger" & we have been friends for 3 years now. We hang out all the tim, and go to the movies together!! Last august on my 15th b-day he kissed me, like making out wise & ever since then I have been confused. Everyone says we should just admit we like each other. I so want to tell him how i feel, but i am scared he might reject me & I would know what to do if he did. What should I do?

just tell him how you feel. if he really kissed you, then he obviously likes you as well. if he likes you, he wont reject you. and if he does, who cares? at least you told him how you felt =]. you wont know if you dont try. if you dont try, you'll end up regretting it later.

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AHH i burned my head with my straightener and i need to get something that will make the scar go away or fade drasticly...its a white spot on the tip top of my forehead! quick! school starts in like 4 days!

sweetie, dont worry. the white spot will go away before 4 days.

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okay.. i met this guy a couple of weeks ago. his name is adam and hes my sisters friend.. well i really like him alot. but the thing is im 13 and hes 17.. is that wrong? but he has a girlfriend and last night he tried to kiss me! but i turned my head and i said dont you have a girlfriend and he said yes but he doesnt care.. but i wouldnt kiss him because he has a girlfriend and i think thats wrong to cheat. but he always hugs me and comes to my house and stuff and we hang out alot.. and he keeps asking me out too.. but i say no bc "he has a girlfriend" well my question is is that wrong to like a 17 year old and also i need advice on what to do about this situation.. thanks.. i rate 5's for good answers

first let me say: you are doing the right thing.
it is not wrong to like a 17 year old, and it is not wrong for a 17 year old to like a 13 year old. many people who get married are years apart. you might know someone's parents who are more than 4 years apart.
if he keeps asking you out, tell him to first dump his girlfriend before asking you out again.

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I'm 15/f. There's this guy that I like, but I'm afraid to try to talk to him, b/c a friend started saying things about us that aren't true. So I don't know what he thinks about all of it, so it might be a little weird for me to talk to him. But I really like him. What should I do? I'll rate 5's for good advice.

if you know it isnt true, chances are he'll know it isnt true as well.
if you really like him, tell him how you feel. if he feels the same way about you, ask him out.

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Ok my cousin and i are really good friends but in the past two years iv e developed a crush for him.. i dotn know what to do should i tell him and is it normal to like your cousin(im a 13 year old girl)

yes, it is completely normal. some people even crush on their aunts and uncles. dont worry about it! =]

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I just got my braces a few days ago and I was wondering if I could make out with another boy with braces? Would that make the wires attach to each other? HELP MEEE!

listen.
just because you both have braces doesnt make a difference.
no, the wires wont attach to eachother.

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Would you consider it healthy if an 18 year old girl is not (and has never been) sexually active and doesn't masturbate?

yes, it is healthy both physically and mentally.

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Hi. I am usually the one to give advice..but anyway. I have acne all over my forehead and some on my cheeks. I've tried a bunch of products but none of them seem to work. I've gone to a dermatologist and they prescribed some facial pads for my acne. It reduced the acne on my cheeks alot but not my head. Any product suggestions that will help with my acne on my forehead? Not too pricey please. Also if you can specify where I can buy a product you reccoment that would be great.

Thanks.

I will rate 5's for helpful answers.

clearasil always works for me! it isnt expensive at all, and you can get it in any local pharmacy.

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i'm 14 years old, and i was raped about a month ago. my friend got helped me get a couple of pregnancy tests, and they all turned up positive. i'm really scared to tell my parents, because i was at a party that i wasn't supposed to be at when it happened. i'm a volleyball player for my school, and last year we almost won the championships. i don't want to throw my entire life away, but i know that i would never be able to put my baby up for adoption. i'd wonder every day if she/he was safe, or if they hated me for abandoning them. i'm strongly against abortion...but i'm starting to wonder if maybe that's the right choice in this situation. i haven't told either of my parents yet...should i keep the baby or is abortion ok sometimes?

abortion is not ok. tell your parents - they will find out sooner or later once your stomach starts growing.
they should also know where you were (even though you werent supposed to be there) and who you were raped by.

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I'm really bored. A lot of my friends are at camp. What can I do besides watch TV. Anyone know any fun websites for quizzes, or games, or other fun stuff? Thanks!

quizilla.com, seventeen.com (if you are a girl)

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What are some really easy ways to make money besides babysitting?

collecting cans and recycling them, putting up a lemonade stand, car wash, or a garage sale are few easy ways to make money.

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