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What do I do now?!?
Okay I've been with this guy for about six months and we just recently broke up. When we broke up I asked him if it was over completely and he said no. Now I am wondering what I should do? Should I wait on him or should I choose to move on? I still like him a whole lot and he still likes me but I'm not sure if I should wait and see what happens. This is the second time we've broke up. What do I do? I live in California and there is so many guys that are hot here.
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You just need to leave him because if you broke up and you asked him whether it was over completely and he said no then why did you brake up???? There would be no point had it not been for a good reason and plus with all the hotties around, you just can't go wrong, so just leave this loser, i'm sure you can do better :D
Good Luck and I hope this advice helps
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ok well u cant keep waiting for this guy. life only comes once and you gotta live it to the fullest! lol so yah i think its time to move on.hope i helped XoXo
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If you both like each other, why did you break up? I think it is probably time to move on. If you really were meant for each other, you wouldn't keep splitting up. I hope you find someone soon!
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I'm sorry for any harshness you percieve in my answer. Blah.:
Let me get this straight... you broke up with him...but it's not over? Are you guys like the Never Ending Story, or something? Did I miss the part where breaking up actually MEANS breaking up!?
You both like each other. You're "broken up"... ok... if you still like each other, why are you even "broken up"?
You know why? I do. He's out there, looking for a "better" girlfriend to "break up" with. Because you know what, when a guy is really in love with you, there's nothing that would stop him from being with you. NOTHING. I know, because I've seen this with my vast amount of cousins. Whether it was parental divorce, long distance, exes.. these guys have rose to the occasion to win hearts.
My advice is to really break up with him (I mean it, seriously. Do it right this time.) and find one of those hot californian guys who won't "break up" with you.
I'm glad you're counting the times you've been "broken up", and not the times he came crawling back. Keep counting that way. Let him make one huge mistake, and break up with you, but don't let it happen again. If he comes crawling back, squash him like the nasty little cockroach he is.
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id just ask him about it...just get together a few time as friends..and youll definately know..if things feel way different then youll know that things have changed and you can work on moving on......aright...hope i helped..later
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if you really like him and cant think about your love life without him, go for it! if not, go hook up with those hot guys from california. haha.
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WELL if you both really like each other a whole lot..then the answer is rather obvious. Go out with him again! I go to California, and yes, there are many guys that are extremely attractive. But they might turn out to be total mondo jerks. If this guy REALLY likes you, and youve gone out with him for half a year already, stick with him. He sounds like a keeper to me. ♥Rebecca
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Well me and my boyfriend now broke up hm about 7 times already and this is the longest we've been together. Not counting all the break ups we have been going out for a year and like 3 days ha, ha but yeah he always used to tell me we were done then when me and him spent time together he said no we aren't and ask me back out. So I wouldn't say "move on" but you should consider it but if he's still saying no it's not over I'd wait for him to get his head straight but at that same time keep your relationship statis open and just talk to other guys you know mingle. Hope I helped.
Buh Bye,
ShanN*
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I've definitely been through that. Quite recently actually, with my 14 month relationship.
That said, why is he breaking up with you in the first place if it's not over completely? One of the few reasons I can think of is to hook up with other girls, and get back with you, so he can technically not be labeled a cheater. If you discover the reasons for this "break" are indeed what I just said, I say you need to move on. This guy will continue to break your heart.
However, if for some other odd reason this is happening, go by the three strikes rule. This is his second strike, his second time breaking up with you, and his third chance is coming to make it final. If you guys get back together and break up a third time, I would say to move on. You're just going to get your heart broken.
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awe! i deffinantly[sp] think you should wait for him i mean you guys can talk about whi and see what happens then if you two realli love each other then whi move on? .... hope i helped xoxo Dzana
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