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Not sexually active


Question Posted Sunday August 7 2005, 4:57 pm

Would you consider it healthy if an 18 year old girl is not (and has never been) sexually active and doesn't masturbate?

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Additional info, added Sunday August 7 2005, 5:04 pm:
I'm not asking if its normal or if it's alright if it happens. I'm wondering if it's healthy physically and mentally..

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TanDancer answered Tuesday March 30 2010, 9:59 am:
Yes, you are more than likely perfectly healthy. Everyone has a different sex drive, and for some women, it is very low.

You might want consult your doctor on the topic. It is possible that you have low hormones or something correctable if you have very little/no libido. Also, if you actually have a fear or aversion to sex, that may call for some therapy.

However, if you are happy with the way you are, you are fine!

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tropicalbabe33 answered Sunday March 28 2010, 10:11 am:
Sure, if you're not interested in doing those things right now. We're all different. Some 18-year-old girls might find it very hard not to be sexually active and masturbate, in which case, it might not be healthy if they didn't. But if you are fine with not being sexually active and not masturbating, then that's healthy.

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russianspy1234 answered Saturday March 27 2010, 12:45 am:
Sure. You do those things when you are ready, not on someone's schedule.

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0xjennaxheartx0 answered Sunday August 7 2005, 7:01 pm:
yes, it is healthy both physically and mentally.

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hailebop answered Sunday August 7 2005, 6:34 pm:
Is it physically healthy to abstain from sexual practice? Yes. There are health benefits from masturbation in that it can relax people and lower heart rates, but it is certainly not something that you'll feel worse for not doing.

Mentally healthy? That's more of a complicated area, and it depends on a few things.

If you don't have any particular desire or wish to have sex or mastrubate and don't do it, then I can't see how that wouldn't be healthy for you, you'd just be doing what you wanted. The only time I can think of not being sexually active in any way as being mentally unhealthy for you is if you are denying yourself these things despite a strong desire to do them. If you are abstaining from sexual practices only through guilt and negative feelings about your body, then this isn't a particularly mentally healthy outlook. If you deny yourself any realease despite strong desires, you could end up with very ambivalent feelings about sex and sexuality. If all your feelings about sex are tied up with feelings that you musn't do it, repression of ideas and guilt about thinking about sex then you could find that when you do want to enter a sexual relationship, your held back by these mental fears and demons. That's not to say that if you think about sex you should be having sex, just that abstaining because of some strong emotions such as guilt can be emotionally scaring, and you should be careful to be honest with yourself about your feelings and realise that however you do feel is normal.

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ThugGirl041790 answered Sunday August 7 2005, 5:35 pm:
Probably as healthy as you can get.. ♥ Dez

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xoxo_perfect1 answered Sunday August 7 2005, 5:17 pm:
yes! it's perfectly fine! many people wait until they are married (meaning in their twenties) to do anything involving sexual activities, and they're perfectly healthy.

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MissMarie answered Sunday August 7 2005, 5:11 pm:
That's totally healthy besides wouldn't you rather be safe then sorry?

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afro_timmy answered Sunday August 7 2005, 5:09 pm:
yah....
ur fine!
every 1 is different some people choose not to do these things.
rate me!
x

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X_Amanda_X answered Sunday August 7 2005, 5:06 pm:
Ofc course it's healthy!! Some people just choose not to masturbate. And if you don't feel ready for sex then there's no reason why you should. So yes this is perfectly healthy!

X_Amanda_X

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