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Hi im 14 and my brother just turned 18.Usually he has been coming home a half hour late and all he gets is a lecture but if i come home 10 mintues late i get grounded for a week.how can i tell my parents how i feel.ive tried telling them but they say oo come on hes 4 years older.it makes me feel like they like him better.just recently he had his bday and i was a little jealous.i dont know what to do because i feel like my family doesnt love me.i always want to leave but they say no and if he says it they say sure.i dont feel loved and i want to die i need help. (link)
Hey hun listen I know this might not be the answer that you want to hear but..
he is 18. he is considered as an adult.
You are 14. Your still a teenager. Your parents worry about you more then him because he is 18 years old.
He is at an age where he could move out, live on his own.
I know you might be jealous at times hey, I would be too, but think of it this way..
what if you had a son who was 18 years old and a daughter of age 14. wouldn't you be more worried about her? wouldn't you just let your son get away with coming home an hour late because hes an adult already? I would.
I'm sure your parents love you guys both the same.
Don't let this get to you.


Ok..i have a question if anyone could answer it.How could i get my ex boyfriend back??We both still like eachother a lot.If anyone knows please help me!!

Ill rate high if you help!!

16/f (link)
If you two still have feelings for each other then just talk to him, tell him how you feel and that you think you guys should get back together.



Anyone know a site about calligraphy or where I can find a copy of the Olde English Alphabet??? (link)
http://www.engl.virginia.edu/OE/courses/handouts/oealpha.html

http://www.asiawind.com/art/callig/Default.htm

Try those if you need anymore just search on google or drop one in my inbox.


OK i asked a question like this b4 but no one answered so i am answering again and I PROMISE TO RATE YOU A 5 IF YOU ACTUALLY GIVE ME A REASONABLE ANSWER-
My face turns red. A lot. I can't feel it turnign red but I know it turns red b/c my bffs all say it does. And I can definitelly trust the and all...
It turns red when a guy flirts with me, when I am up in front of class and presenting, and more times. WHAT DO I DO FROM KEEPING IT TURNIGN RED! (link)
I had the same exact problem. I still get times where I like a guy alot and talk to him and my face turns red.
I honestly do not know what you can do,
there really wasn't anything much I did.
It just went away after a while.
You have to get used to talking to guys do it daily.
Don't worry it will go away eventually.


what are some good songs by sugarcult?

besides pretty girl, memory, and crying?
thankyou (link)
"saying goodbye" is an awesome song


I know you all hate these questions!

What is this song. its so old!

Its slow and romantic, I think by an african american singer. and Its not really like rap.

Its like 1- im in love with you 2-i just wanna be with you 3- its plain to see that youre the only one for me, and 4 repeat steps 1-3

does anyone remember that?

5's and feedback!

Thanks!
-Kelsey-
:) (link)
Brian McKnight-Back At One


Okay so I want a new screen name..I know MADD people ask this but I really want a new one...I have light brown hair and blue eyes...Im only like 5 feet my favotite color is pink and I love fashion and shopping..however I want a cute sn..not anything wierd..THANKS (link)
PrettyInPinKxX

ShoppiNgAddict101

BlueEyedShOrtyxx

sorry thats all i have for now if i think of more i will edit my answer


Ok well i have been best frineds with this guy forever like since we were babies and i am in love with his sister. she is absolutly beautiful. i see her all the time and sometimes she acts like we r friends and others like she completely hates me. do i tell her how i feel and risk ruining my friendsip with her bro or just keep quiet? her bro is kinda protective (link)
I would wait a while to tell her how you feel.
Maybe talk to her brother about her
or you could just tell her how you feel that should not ruin your friendship with the guy.


okay this is kind of messed up but my friend and i were arguing about if chess was a board game i say its not its more of a board game or something you do for a hobby he thinks the opposite (link)
Chess is a board game but people may like to play it as one of their hobbies.


Ok...

i still really love my ex ron. and he cares for me too. but yesterday my friend asked me out and i said yes because hes not good with rejection. i dont like him. hes just a really good friend.

and i dont know how to tell ron because he wants me back but he cant have me because im with someone else...

i wanted to say no but i couldnt. the pain in his eyes would kill me. but ron says he wants me back in his life badly... bu he has one thing holding him back... the fact that we go to different schools. hes a 9th grader and im an 8th grader. i'll be going to the same high school he is going to....

i love him (ron) but i have no feelins for the other guy. so what should i do about ron? forget about him and try to be happy? (link)
You should tell your friend ( the other guy) how you really feel about him.
Being in a relationship with him if you dont even like him is not the best way to go you are just leading him on.
You have to be honest with him.
If you really want to be with Ron then go for it because opportunities like these are lost in a blink of an eye that is why you have to go for what you want before it's to late.


can someone help me out why do good things happen to bad people ? (link)
I think the reason for this is because they always do bad things to get what they want in other words manipulate some one and they get away with the things they do.


Hey, my cousin & I were planning on doing something to support victims of Katrina. What could we do? One of my ideas was to collect canned goods all around our plans/neighborhoods - collect money and buy school supplies for the kids - just raise money in general - what could we do? what are some good ideas that you can think of? ty!! (link)
Aww that is very sweet of you and that is a wonderful thing to do.
The ideas you have so far are great.
You could also with the money that you raise buy other things that they might need.
From what I heard they have plenty of clothes but they do need things for the babies and kids.
You could get the babies toys.
They will be very grateful to whatever you decide to do because that is support no matter what.



ok me and my friends never really go any where what are somethings we can do and how do i tell them to go places (link)
You guys could go hang out at the mall, park, go out to eat.
You can suggest if they want to do something like hang out somewhere just ask them if they want to go to the movies or out to eat stuff like that.


Where can i find EVERY song played in each Laguna Beach episode(season 2) nd like if its a website, cood yu tell me exactly how to get to it. And yes, i have tried to google it, but nothing works. Any help= 5's (link)
http://www.mtv.com/onair/laguna_beach/season2/episode_guide/
Choose an episode and then click on music.


14/F i am really confused rite now i have this boyfriend who is id say about 3 years older than me [ 17 ] hes a senior im a freshman & hes not a virgin and whatnot and i am . . we`ve been goin out for almost 5 months and hes starting to hint around that he mite want to mess around or somethin and the whole idea really makes me nervous considering hes my first real relationship & considering hes had more experiance than me and i am absolutly clueless . . hes never asked anythin be4 and im afraid that if maybe i dont do anything he mite break up with me . ? or something but i think its more of the fact that im nervous . what do you think i should do?

- confused & clueless
(link)
I think that you should not do anything you are not ready for.
If he tires to do something with you that you are not comfortable with tell him if hes a true boyfriend he will understand.


i have a really important question to ask...i am 13 and will be 14 in November i am about 5,4 and i weigh 120 pounds....is this a big weight for my age????? am i fat for an 8th Grader????? please answer my question...i rate 5's..

~Steph (link)
No you are not fat at all. That is a fine weight. Don't worry.


can someoen give me some sites that have like glitter stuff that you can use on xanga?? thanks.. (link)
http://www.xanga.com/groups/group.aspx?id=1556615
Click on any one there is a bunch there.


Im 15 and my boyfriend is 18. weve been together for almost a year. He was really sweet the first 5 months, but now he has gotten so jealous that we get in fights all the time over it. He doesnt like me talking to guys or even looking at them. He doesnt like me wearing slutty clothes. (he considers skirts slutty) We both work at the same place and when our manager tells me i have to work the drive thru with a boy, he gets so mad at me like i can help it. Ive broken up with him several times hoping that he will change, but everytime i get back with him, an hour later hes right back at it again. Each time i break up he calls me up or comes over telling me how much he loves me and i always take him back. He tells me often that i will NEVER find anyone who will treat me better, and that im lucky to have him!! I told him i dont want to live like this, but he doesnt seem to get it. If i accidentally piss him off he'll go and start flirting or talking to other girls to piss me off. He was like this with his first girlfriend, but it didnt seem to cause problems in their relationship like it has ours. Shes basically the same age as he is, so i dont know if that has anything to do with it. He was very sensitive to her needs, and would hold her if she got upset or mad, but i feel he doesnt care when i get mad. I do know that i dont want to be controlled! Any advice would be greatly appreciated!! (link)
my advice is to dump him and not take him back
this is an unhealthy relationship
you cant let him control you like this
its not right for him to tell you how to dress and its not right if he gets mad over little things like working with a guy
it might be the age difference he might think just because you are younger then he is by 3 years he can control you but guess what he cant and you need to tell him that
get rid of him and you will find some one better then him believe me


ive been on 3 dates with this boy tom. and we are supposed to go to some concert a week from tomorrow. after our first datee i was like ok i kinda like him but i wouldnt kno yet because i dont know him well. we went out 2 other timesss and i still wasnt suree. so todayyyyy i was tallking to him online and at the same time he sent me a message on myspace saying " hey i really like you and i wanna be with you, do you want to?" and i didnt say anything because i dont think i really like him and if i do i wanna go on a few more dates and see.. so i talked to him online and i was like im goin out talk to you tonight.. he signs on and in his profile is " i love u lindsey 9/10/05" and i never sed i wanted to and didnt even give him the sign i wanted to. and his myspace says " in a relationship" i dont know what to do.. tahts kinda creeeppyy.. i cant tell him on the phone so i didnt anser yett!.. wut should i tell him online or wen i text him.. i dont think its bad im tellin him that way because he told me the same way basically

thanksss (link)
wow that is creepy
tell him straight up that you would like to get to know him better before you guys get into a serious relationship
tell him he is going way to fast and you still need time
if he respects you he will understand and if he likes you he will wait until you are ready
hope this helps if you need anything else drop one in my inbox ♥


one day i just woke up with this bump kinda thing on my lip. its sensitive and really annoying. today i think it popped or sumthing but idk wht to do about it. easy 5's for wht it is and how to get rid of it (link)
im pretty sure you are talking about a coldsore
its going to go away in a few days dont worry you could also put medicated lip balm on it to help it heal faster




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