Question Posted Sunday September 18 2005, 11:00 pm
Ok well i have been best frineds with this guy forever like since we were babies and i am in love with his sister. she is absolutly beautiful. i see her all the time and sometimes she acts like we r friends and others like she completely hates me. do i tell her how i feel and risk ruining my friendsip with her bro or just keep quiet? her bro is kinda protective
Sean27 answered Monday September 19 2005, 9:06 pm: hm
talk to the brother
see what he thinks about the whole thing
if your good enough friends with him, he'll listen and understand most likely
dont be afraid of what might happned, go for it man! [ Sean27's advice column | Ask Sean27 A Question ]
t0xicParadiSe answered Monday September 19 2005, 3:46 pm: I would wait a while to tell her how you feel.
Maybe talk to her brother about her
or you could just tell her how you feel that should not ruin your friendship with the guy.
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XxTxX answered Monday September 19 2005, 2:55 pm: ..If you really do like someone you should definitly go for it..And if they brother isnt going to be understand that i dont see why he should be a friend of yours..I can see if he gets mad if you never spend time with him..But maybe you should talk to him about it and then talk to her about it..Hope i helped`Send me an message with what happen` [ XxTxX's advice column | Ask XxTxX A Question ]
The_best_there_is answered Monday September 19 2005, 2:44 pm: ok first off i would talk to her bro it his sister and if he knows you and he knows your cool then he should be cool with it and if he is find out how she feels about you just make sure if you do go out with her just dont leave your friend for her then her will get pissed i hope i could help you dude [ The_best_there_is's advice column | Ask The_best_there_is A Question ]
ChOcOLoLo answered Sunday September 18 2005, 11:14 pm: Hey there! The best thing to do is tell your friend first. Just be honest with how you feel, and know that true friends will always understand where each other is coming from. You guys have been friends for a really long time, and I am sure that he will understand how you feel.
About his sister, just keep talking to her and be kind to her. The best thing is to be friends with her first because you guys can easily be yourselves around each other. And girls are always like that. They may have these moments were they seem completely normal then absolutely incomprehensible hehe.Just don't be intimidated. Girls like guys who are willing to keep trying, even if it seems like they keep pushing them away. On the outside she may act like this, but on the inside she may just want to test you, and feels the same way. So don't be intimidated! Remember also to be honest, and be yourself always! Take care and Good luck! [ ChOcOLoLo's advice column | Ask ChOcOLoLo A Question ]
milliethu answered Sunday September 18 2005, 11:04 pm: the first thing i would do is talk to your friend about it. there is a chance he might be ok with it, and besides if he is, he can help hook you up with her! i mean, if you have been friends with him sence forever than he must be a preddy decent guy. but if he isnt cool with it, i dont think that you should risk it. i know this sounds horribly corrny but i feel like i should say it annyway: relationships come and go but friends can stay forever. hope i helped! [ milliethu's advice column | Ask milliethu A Question ]
Teza answered Sunday September 18 2005, 10:37 pm: Ahh, that's a tough situation. I think you should just keep it on the down low for now. You should talk to him because you guys seem very close, and see what he would say about it. You can't help the way you feel about her but she deserves to know as well. Just talk to him first. Hope it works out. [ Teza's advice column | Ask Teza A Question ]
Alpha345 answered Sunday September 18 2005, 10:33 pm: Ok I am going to be honest with you. Find someone else. Because if she is going to be on and off with you like that then she isn't really worth your time because if she liked you she wouldn't be that way with you. It's just my opinion, but keep your friendship with your best friend, because it sounds like your sister isn't really worth it, even if she is beautiful. Remember, choose personality over looks, you'll get better girls.
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