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I've been tring to use a Neutrogena deep pore cleanser when I take a shower to keep my skin looking good. When I put it on my face, it feels normal. After maybe 20-30 seconds it begins to burn to the point where I have to wash it off. I don't know if it's because I'm doing something wrong, or if that is supposed to happen because it's cleaning out my pores. Does anyone know why this is happening? Thanks alot!

No one here can tell you why its happening... call this number... if you look on the container of ur pore cleanser... there should be a number on it for questions & comments... they can tell u whats going on

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OMG! i dont knoe why..but my teeth are yellow!! i brush 3 times a day..and i dont smoke!!..whats wrong?!

coke, & coffee make ur teeth yellow too... try crest white strips premium...

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This was something my mom and I talked about the other night, and it really made me think. Is it possible to love two people at the same time in the same way, as in a bf/gf? I'd appreciate to see some opinions on this...

JyNxiE

in my opinion it isnt possible to truly love to people at the same time... usually when people feel they do... they are really confused... & at times like this... people should have time to themselves... than they can decide who they missed... & need...

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okay...well thier is this guy i that i really like. alot of people like him too! should i go for it or just forget about it?

u should defintly go for it... u never know... u may be the one he chooses... but you'll never know unless u try... & if u don't ur really going to regret it later on in ur life...

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pleaz help me, i dont no how much it hurts to get you belly button pirced! pleaz help me... i rate high!

i have a friend who got it done... & she said it doesn't hurt much... just make sure u eat sumthing before... they tell u to take a deep breath... & when u breathe in the stick it in... it'll be worth it... cuz belly button rings are hoTt...

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well see in my religion its a sin to pluck or wax eyebrows but the thing is everyone i no who are also muslims pluck/wax their eyebrows except my mom and sister.. im almost 14 years old and i think its my choice wheater i touch my eyebrows ... and tonight my dad is goin to get his hair cut and i want to go w. him to get my eyebrows done wut cud i say to my mom to get her to say okay?

tnxs..ill rate u high

im muslim too... & i get my eye brows done... tell her that this is something you really want to do... & everyone does it... it should be ur choice whether u get ur eye brows done or not... it soundz like ur family is really strict... so you should point out some things they do that are agaisnt islam... & compare it with gettin your eye brows done... Feel free to IM me :)

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my bestfriend moved to va to go to college and i wanna move up there with her soo bad and go to college there but im still n school and im tryna tal my parents into letting me get my ged n go to college so i can live with her i need some advice to make my parents let me

i LiVe in Va!!!! Explain to ur parents that this is something that you really want to do... & your mature enuff to get ur GED... & go to college in Va... what college does she go to?
Look at that college's website... & try to find what makes this college a good one... & tell ur rents that... NOVA... northern virgina community college.... is the best community college in the country... some of our schools are the best in the country... tell ur parents that...

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Hey um im having some super makeup problems .. ive got wicked long eye lashes .. super green eyes .. and kinda small eye brows .. theyre skinny hah .. but yeah anyway .. i need some ideas for new eye makeup .. im so getting bored with the black eyeliner in the top of my eyelid and the bottom .. gets boring .. i wanna go to school and wow people .. i rate high!! thanks

try glitter eye shadow... or shimmery light brown, pink, or white eye shadow,

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MJy stepdad is a real jerk, and my mom always chooses him over me, is that right:?

That isn't right... your mom should always take the side of the person that is right... you should talk to your mom & let her know how you feel...

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Hey I have natrually thick wavy hair a few inches past my shoulders..and I try and scrunch it all the time...but I always have a few problems. I have a lot of hair products ( Scrunch spray, curl revial spray, moose, scrunching gell, regular gell..a lot more ) and I don't know which one is the best to use. Also it's really poofy when I scrunch it..any tips? Thanks so muchhh!

try frizz ease hair serum... it works really good but its kinda expensive... or you could try curls up... it's cheaper & it works just as well... you find these products at wal*mart...

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I have been taking paxil (An anti-depressent pill) for about 3 years, and I'm now 16. Recently I stopped taking it because I feel like it blinds me. I feel like i'm too happy on it and I'm not myself. I was thinking about lowering the dose but I've already been on that and It didnt seem to do anything. I think that by taking the pill it changes who I am. My parents are getting really worried now because I havent taken it, and i'm not sure if I should get back on it. Does anyone get what I mean?? I was born who I am, and that is depressed, anxious, and with anger. I think I should be myself and face these problems on my own, with out medicne. I dont think medicine is the best way to deal with problems. Can someone please give me some advice on what to do. Am I doing the right thing?? What do you think about this. Thanks! -Jenny

I dont think u are doing anything wrong... try this out & see how it works... you'll be really happy if your learn to be happy without takin an anti-depressent... but dont just quit cold turkey... take it one step at a time... take it every other day... when u get used to that... take it every 2 days... & so on...

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i'm going to be moving soon and i was wondering if there are any teenagers out there with some good ideas on how to decorate a new bedroom?? you know, something fun yet classy, but not too crazy.

paint ur rooms ur favorite color.... get a matching carpet, curtains, & sheets, you'll find lotz of nice colorful stuff at Ikea, & Target... cheQ out my room... the link to my picture trail is in my column...

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Ok, well, I got my period on Thursday, Its not the 1st time I got it cuz I have had it since I was 10. The question I have is how long do they usually last? Before, mine were about 7-9 days and this one has only been 3 and it isn’t heavy at all, like im done with it and I usually get really bad cramps and have really heavy flows ad ahad neither. Why is it so light and short this time???


No, im not pregnant and cuz Im still a virgin, im only 13… lol…

I doubt that something is wrong... periods change as girls get older...

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ok, im doing a science fair at my school blah blah blah...is this a good project: How does music affect one's ability to sleep well?

please be honest, p.s:im in seventh grade(13)
just thought it might help judge...thanx

i learned in 7th grade that listening to music while u sleep makes you smart... im not sure if that's a fact or just a theory... usually i can fall asleep with music on... but if i wake up in the middle of the nite... i get annoyed and turn it off...

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Is there any way to help speed up the recovery of a small cut?

use neosporin... it relieves itching... and lessens scarring...

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What should you use to apply foundation to your face?

a make-up sponge... you could always use your finger tips... that's the best sponge...

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i am 5 feet tall exactly. i weigh 135 pounds. is this overweight?

yeah that is a lil over weight for your height... im 5ft even & about 118 lbs & i am considered chubby...

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My sister has been acting really bad lately. She recently has moved in with my aunt and is going to a Private School very close to my own home. I am only 19 and my sister put this idea in her head that she can come stay with me. And I can drive her to school in the morning. This is not going to work out, I told her. She is 14 years old. My mom said it was ok and so my sister asked me. I do not like this at all. I can barely provide for myself let alone try to take care of her. Me and my Boyfriend live together and we are young so we definatly like our privacy. I can not believe my mother wold think that this would be acceptable. Now I am a nervous wreck. It makes me so mad they would try to put that much responsibility on me. I tolded them that. What do I do now?

Tell them that you would love to have her move in with you... however, your not capable of takin care of a 14 year old... tell them that you are always busy & rarely home... so you won't really be able to look after her... she could be gettin into trouble while she's home alone... overall its just not a good idea... she's better off at her aunts house...

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Hi, i have a friend who has bad b/o. I'm not that kind of person who can say "Would u mind putting on some deoderent?" I could never do that to a friend. I was wondering if anyone could tell me how to tell her without hurting her feelings. Please my b-day party is coming up and shes coming, i dont want to afend my other friends. Please, I really need some help.

you should str8 up tell her... its better that she hears it from her friend in a polite way... than sum jerk that's lookin for a reason to pick on sum1... just tell her that she should try using a new deoderant... like secret platinum... because the one shes using doesn't work too well with her body chemistry...tell her not to get madd at you... ur only tellin her because she's ur friend & you don't want people to make fun of her...

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Ok: so i love scary movies... spook houses, and doing the ouiji board. I live down in the basement all alone and after seeing freaky movies... like Saw I can't sleep. I think that there in my basement gonna come kill me.. and even though I'm 16... i still sleep with my t.v. on all night... even though I can't stand a speck of light in the night i LOVE watchinng scary movies... but i get so scared I sometimes cry! What can I do?

i'm like that too... i saw the grudge on halloween & i'm still sleeping with my light on... Just think about it this way... if anything like that hasnt happened to you in the 16 years that you've been alive... it's most likely not going too... all those horror movies are fiction... & the ones that are based on true stories are highly exagerated... so don't worry nothing is going to happen... say ur prayers before u go to bed... as long as u have God in ur heart... nothing can happen to you

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