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MJy stepdad is a real jerk, and my mom always chooses him over me, is that right:?
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that is totally not right!!!! tell your mom how you feel! i mean it wont be the easiest thing, but it needs to be done!
lots of love
~Haley~
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NO NOT AT ALL! OMG MY MOM DOES THE EXACT SAME THING! I dont know the advise to give you...Maybe talk to her about it (that didnt work for me though she just said i was jelouse) but i hope everything works out with yall. I know exactly how you feel. If you ever want to talk, IM me on AIM or if you need any other advise just leave a message in my inbox and ill be sure to answer!-Michelle
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looks like ur having a big problom maybe spend some time with ur mom maybe ask her to take u shopping or if she dosent no aboutt this maybe secretly put a video camera somewhere and let
it record show it to her...:) if soemthing like that happends again tell a adult u trust..:)
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No thats not right if your mum chooses him over you your her daughter hes just some stupid boyfriend your mum deserves better and so do all of your family if hes going to be a jerk like that tell your mum that hes treating you badly please rate hope ive helped! roxie xxx
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18 is hard..you really are an adult..but most 18 year olds are still in HS or cannot afford to live on their own.
I have mixed feelings about step parents..first of all when you get married you HAVE to support your spouse..but here is where I agree with Dr. Laura...divorced adults SHOULD not get re-married until their kids ar grown...See a step parent step child relationship is the hardest thing to do...
But and YOU can show him this...HE MAY NOT CALL YOU names..An adult does NOT call a person names..that is both demeaning and VERY childish.
He is the adult..he should be acting and behaving better than you. Is he afraid of what you do on the computer or is the computer in his area at night?
As far as kicking you out..in 8th grade..what a loser...you were a child.
but I would have to ask you...what did You do to have that happen...if nothing then you all need to go see a FAMILY counselor..for you all have a very toxic thing going on in your house.
Could be that your mom is afraid of your Sd and will not stand up to him.
But as long as you live in your paresnt house..you have to abide by their rules...
this is a great incentive to go to a college FAR away or get a job and save money and move out.
I moved out at 20..after two years of college...I just wanted to be able to do what I wanted..when I wanted.
I hope you guys can find some peace....
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tell ur mom how bossy he is to u and ur sister..hes not ur real dad so u dont have to listen to him TAKE CHARGE :D
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nope. tell your mommmm, man.
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your 18.. you dont have to take it give your mother a choice.. if she picks him.. leave and she will regret it
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i know how you feel. my stepdad is the same way. but i'm only in 8th grade and am stuck in this house.your mom choosing him over you is deff. not right. but my mom does that too. i just thinnk that they're so desperate to not die alone. your mom is wrong and hopefully you'll be out of that house soon and won't have to go back. good luck & hope i helped!
xoxo *MiZZ niCoLe LYnn*
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well that is not right at all * did u talk to ur mother about this i think that u should and if she doesnt want to talk then talk anyways (but dont get in trouble) *~L~*
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no you should be a jerk right back to him i know somebody that has 2 put up with that but u never know ur mom might talk to him after hes done bein a jerk.
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well tell your mom look i kno he means a lot to you but im your daughter its seems like u always choose him over me and i dont liek that! let her kno im ur daughter u shouldnt put him first!
Hope i helpede
blayre
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Yah he sounds like an idiot. Tell your mom about everything and if she doesn't believe you or doesn't care....just leave, stay with a friend or smthn..
=) HoPe I HeLpEd!
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Of course not!!!! Your mom probably met you before your stepd dad. And he doesn't haev a right to treat you badly. Talk to him, and give him a feel of his own medicine. Ignore him or use that ole "your not my dad!" trick. That always get's to them. He can't do anything about it and it makes him realize that he can't be mean to you because he has no right to. hope I helped. Send me some feedback. :) -Bianca
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No. It really isn't. Your mom has an obligation to you. You came first not your stepdad. Be strong, maybe you need to discuss this with your mom. Best of luck-please keep me updated
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Depending on your definition of jerk. If you won't let you out past curfew, or he won't allow you to go out partying, or something like that, then he's being a good parent. But if he hurts you, or abuses you physically, sexually, or emotionally (calls you bad names) then it isn't good. And you should talk to your mom about it. If it's abuse, then you should talk to the police (only if physical or sexual) If emotional abuse, then you need to talk to him and your mom. Your mom should choose whichever choice has your best interests at heart. You need to make them realize you feel this way, and if they don't care, then call social services, or a family member, or somebody you can trust.
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lets see it depends on the circumstance...but if she always like...everytime pics him then its wrong
>M<
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No thats really messed up! my parents are divorced to. But liek just tell her how you feel my mom was going to have her bf move in and i told she couldnt or i would move out! Tell her how oyu feel about every thing and whta she does to you!
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That isn't right... your mom should always take the side of the person that is right... you should talk to your mom & let her know how you feel...
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not necessarily. sorry about that! --rachael
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