Okay last night I went out with my old boyfriend and his friends, but the thing is I didnt kno that they were supposed 2 be coming. Everything was good until we started riding around to this place called "Spring Hill" where my ex-boyfriends cousin's cousin lives and thats where I saw Fred (I hate him)we left there and we just went riding but after I left fred had started telling people that I was riding around will a gruop of boys (it wasnt even like that) we went to see ATL or w/e all that stuff after that we just went riding or w/e and then at like 2:30in tha morning they brought me home. To me it as just a nicelittle outting but to other people it was not. My cousin called me this morning and told me that Nard (my homeboi) had called me a hoe cuz I went out with them and they didnt kno wat could of happened they were cool dudes besides nothing was going to happen like that anyways, and I kno its going to be all around the school that Ima hoe just for going out with some "friends" what should I do, I really feel like killing my self right now they are critizing me when they didnt even kno wat had happened & nothing did thats really why I feel this way like I have nothing to live for and I am alomost just about really to go do something bad, I just dont kno what to do. Me and my old boyfriend are now going back out but people say that I shouldnt be goin with him and it weas supposed 2 be me & him and he brought his friends along wat should I do about that?? Stay with him or leave??? I feel so stupid the whole town will be talking about me and I cant take that so what should I do??? I really want to go and hurt my self someone please help me if you have yahoo im online please im me....mz_sydney_4ever
only you know the answer to this one. its up to you if you stay with him or not. it shouldnt matter what other people think. rumors are rumors and you know what really happened and what didnt. thats what matters.
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okay so I am 16/f and i have the hugest crush on a guy. Its one of those kinda crushes like a geek in school is inlove with the most popular guy she doesnt have a chance with ever kind of things.
Well i got the guts to tell him online that i really really liked him and i found out that he isnt really looking for a gf (he wants to do well this year in school) but he wants to hang out with me and be good friends and stuff!
what do i do? i know i want to hang out with him but how can i get over the fact i have a huge crush on him and be normal?
ps hes a junior/18
just be yourself around him, be friendly and happy & smile alot. guys seem to like that.. maybe even try flirting with him, he might grow to like it. the more open with him you get the more comfortable he'll be around you and that might change a few things!
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This sounds like a stupid question but is there any way to make your hair grow faster?
keep your spilt ends cut off.
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what can i do to make my stomach flat and get rid of panhandels/love handels. and how can i make my thighs smaller. thanks
exercise everyday, drink alotta water, no sodas.
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What is the average amount of days to have your period?
3-5, no more than 7.
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I've been shaving my arm pits for a while now and whenever I do I can't get them all the way shaved. I don't know why but when i get out of the shower there are still little prickles of hair there and it doesn't look like they are there in the shower. Does anyone recommend any good razors or just any tips on how to get them completly shaved?
Thnx.
your razor might be dull, use a new one each time you do it if thats what it takes
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I have this extremly werid fear of calling people. Its not just guys or people I dont know. Its friends and family too. I'll usually say I "forgot" to call them when really I never even wanted to pick up the phone. I have no idea why it happens and it can't be normal. Does anyone know how I can become better at wanting to call people? Or figure out what is causing me to be like this? - thanks
not everyone likes talking on the phone, it's not that big of a deal. dont worry about it
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My boyfriend (PJ) and I have been together since 6th grade. And know its freshmen year. Hes 15 and Im 14 1/2. We both love eachother alot. We have made-out&kissed&and all that other good stuff, but he wants to take it a little bit farther. well so do i but i dont want to take it so far that i'll be know as "Arrowhead #1 Slut"! and alot of my best friends have taken it pretty far. i just dont know what to do! please help!
if you have to ask other people what to do, then you're not ready.
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I wasn't sure which category it should go under, sorry.
Anyways, I hate my feet, like most people do. They aren't "ugly" or anything, and I keep them as clean and "pretty" as I can. But in a couple of spots, the skin is dry and cracked. Does anyone know any good lotions or "treatments" that would help get rid of this? Thanks.
i use jergens soft shimmer.
it works really good
& you can get it at target, $5.
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I'm almost 16 and my bf and I have no plans to have sex right away. We do fool around alot though and try to be as safe as we can be. I've been using my mouth on him for a couple months now and after he "FORGOT" to tell me that he was about to cum and did it in my mouth before I could pull away , I now make sure he wears a condom. Its safer and he can cum without me having to taste it.
My question is.....are the any products to cover me while his mouth is down there ?
well if you don't wanna taste it you could always buy flavored condoms. but also there's nothing wrong with swallowing it. most guys seem to like it, and its actually considered healthy. contains proteins, and its non-fattening. just make sure if he does pull out, finish him with your hands, dont leave him in mid orgasm. other than that there really isn't much you can do. hope i helped!
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ok so im 15 and never had a boyfriend and thats not what bugs me what bugs me is that im practically incapable of flirting. i just dont get it. i dont know how to tell if a guy is flirting with me or how to flirt back i can comfortably talk to my friends that are guys but if im around someone who i like im just not myself and it bugs me b/c i become kind of uptight and i just want to get this whole flirting thing like everyone else. please help!
if you TRY to flirt with someone it either makes you look really desperate or it just doesnt turn out right. flirting just happens naturally, theres not really a right or a wrong way to do it.
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I absolutely love to read. Can anyone give me lots of great teen books (novels are great!) that you absolutely loved...Most likely if a lot of people have read it, ive read it too. so think of some good ones that not many have read. some examples of my faves are Looking For Alaska, and Hard Love. Just looking for some more options!Thanks a bunch.
well im pretty sure you're a girl sooo. id say all the gossip girl novels. i hate to read but i actually liked reading those books! haha
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Sometimes, my friend Liv tends to make a huge deal out of things that don't really matter. It's also hard for me to talk to her because she doesn't talk well, she yells and gets mad and is mean. What can I do?
maybe she doesn't realize how she reacts. you should try telling her what she does and if she doesn't take that too well just don't tell her things and maybe shell take a hint
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sorry i didn't know what catagory to put this in.
ok i'm 13 and i just got a straightener. i heard that if you use it too much your hair gets really dry and it's unhealthy...so for people that straighten your hair...how many times would be too much? like how many times could you straighten your hair in a week without it becoming unhealthy? thx!
it depends on your hair.
i straighten mine twice a day sometimes and its still fine. if you do it alot buy a shampoo/conditioner that helps with moisture and damaged hair!
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I run track and my shins are starting to bother me. I have a big track meet tomorrow and I really need some help on wha I need to do to help soothe them. Thank you in advance
shin splints are a bitch
theres not really anything you can do until they heal. just keep ice on them and stay off of them as much as you can
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Okay. I've had my period on a regular cycle for a little over a year and a half. This week, it came a little earlier than usual, but sometimes its a few days off. Anyway, it started three days ago, and until this morning it had been really light. For half of today it had been regular, then started being light again around 12:00. I don't think anything's wrong, but this hasn't ever happend before and i just wanted to check. Will it be longer since it's lighter or will it be the same length?
it'll probably be the same length, it doesnt really matter if its light or not. if anything it could be shorter..
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When I shave my underarm I somtimes get these bumps and they hurt pretty bad! What are they? Use Venus for my razor and soap. Am I doing something wrong? Should I be doing something else?
use shaving cream and they'll go away! the soap is probably irritating your skin
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If your gonna say something about skin cancer don't answer or I'll rate you bad.
alright. tommorow I'm going to the tanning salon.
I've been there once before. =] [the tanning bed kind] However I have a few questions.
~ How long do you stay in for?
~ What do you wear in there?
~ Please include some additional information if you want a five.
~ Is it alright to go bowling afterward?
stay in there for about 20 minutes..the more you go the longer you can stay in.
you dont have to wear anything at all but you can just wear underwear if you dont mind the tan lines.
i use a lotion called tropical hawaiian(dark), it works pretty good and you can get it anywhere like walmart or target.it smells really good too.
and its deff ok to go bowling afterwards!
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I like this guy but I dont really know him that well. I feel like I can talk to him about anything but we've never really hung out. I guess its just a crush but Im afraid that if things dont go well with my friends boyfriend that she will go back for this guy, even though she told me i could date any of her exs cause she loved the person she was with so much.
So i guess my questions are
[]How can I get him to hang out with me?
[]Is there any way that I could prevent
my friend and him getting together later
[]And if I do get him to hang out with me
what kinda things can i do to show him im
real nd to get him interested
find out what he likes to do, and go do that with him. maybe itll be something you both enjoy, and you can bond that way. just be honest and open with him. flirt with him, but don't over do it. act friendly of course, smile alot and let him know you like being around him. hope i helped!
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hey im 15/f my boyfriend just broke up with my last night and im not in school today because i cant handle all this pain. We were going out for four months and i really thought that this time we could work you know. Because i've went out with him in the past. He says that he just doesn't want anybody to love right now. And i dont know what to do i cry every single minute of the day. I need to be with him. We still talk and we're still friends but i want to go back to the way it used to be. Please can somebody help me out!!! i'll rate high!
-Ashley-
i think you just need to move on. it might not seem so simple but once he sees you've moved on, he might realize what he's lost and he just might try to get you back. if not, there's still plenty of guys out there. and i know thats not what you wanna hear but its the truth. hope all works out!
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