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broken heart
hey im 15/f my boyfriend just broke up with my last night and im not in school today because i cant handle all this pain. We were going out for four months and i really thought that this time we could work you know. Because i've went out with him in the past. He says that he just doesn't want anybody to love right now. And i dont know what to do i cry every single minute of the day. I need to be with him. We still talk and we're still friends but i want to go back to the way it used to be. Please can somebody help me out!!! i'll rate high!
-Ashley-
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i broke up w/ my boyfriend about a month ago and it really hurt me too i thought i made a mistake and im not gonna lie it was really hard for weeks i just wasnt myself and i dated him for 10 months the thing is tho it takes time which i know you hate to hear but the truth hurts sometimes. besides you need to realize its his loss because he is missing out on a really great person. also if hes not ready to have someone to love he may have broken up with you because he doesnt want to hurt you anymore he doesnt want you to love him so much and be rejected because that hurts just try to get over it and realize it will take time
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Oh I've been there.
Eventually you will get over him, it may seem unbelievable now, but it just takes time. It took me 3 months to get over my ex boyfriend and I really liked him. But remember, everyday you spend missing him, is a day you'll never get back in the end.--
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okay you sound just like my friend you the same age too..
doll you are going to have lots of boyfriends in your lifetime. and that is good you two are still friends give it time if anything.
but you need to be stronge about this. just give it time. i know everyone hates giving things like this time.. but that is what you are going to have to do in this case.
just maybe being friends well bring you guys even closer then before who knows.
anyways hope goes well.
peaceout.
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It hurts right now but the pain will ebb eventually. I know it's not any help right now but it's the best anyone can offer in a situation such as this.
You deserve someone who will love and care for you, he isn't willing to give that right now.
Perhaps you should look to your friends, do things with them, have a girls night, eat ice cream, watch movies or go to the mall. Just something fun that you can do that can show you just how much fun you can have without a boyfriend.
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i think you just need to move on. it might not seem so simple but once he sees you've moved on, he might realize what he's lost and he just might try to get you back. if not, there's still plenty of guys out there. and i know thats not what you wanna hear but its the truth. hope all works out!
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I believe the answer to your troubles is time, which heals most wounds. This is going to sound horribly cliched, but you are young and there are a lot of fish in the sea. I understand how awful it feels at the moment, but it you wait it out, you'll be surprised how much better things will seem in even a week's time.
I would recommend avoiding the boy for now. Even if you guys want to be friends, at this point speaking to him would only be making your hurt worse.
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