Okay last night I went out with my old boyfriend and his friends, but the thing is I didnt kno that they were supposed 2 be coming. Everything was good until we started riding around to this place called "Spring Hill" where my ex-boyfriends cousin's cousin lives and thats where I saw Fred (I hate him)we left there and we just went riding but after I left fred had started telling people that I was riding around will a gruop of boys (it wasnt even like that) we went to see ATL or w/e all that stuff after that we just went riding or w/e and then at like 2:30in tha morning they brought me home. To me it as just a nicelittle outting but to other people it was not. My cousin called me this morning and told me that Nard (my homeboi) had called me a hoe cuz I went out with them and they didnt kno wat could of happened they were cool dudes besides nothing was going to happen like that anyways, and I kno its going to be all around the school that Ima hoe just for going out with some "friends" what should I do, I really feel like killing my self right now they are critizing me when they didnt even kno wat had happened & nothing did thats really why I feel this way like I have nothing to live for and I am alomost just about really to go do something bad, I just dont kno what to do. Me and my old boyfriend are now going back out but people say that I shouldnt be goin with him and it weas supposed 2 be me & him and he brought his friends along wat should I do about that?? Stay with him or leave??? I feel so stupid the whole town will be talking about me and I cant take that so what should I do??? I really want to go and hurt my self someone please help me if you have yahoo im online please im me....mz_sydney_4ever <<< my screen name. Please help me.
Sydney
durgahelps answered Saturday April 1 2006, 1:16 pm: HEY Sydney!!
My name is Durga. my e-mail is durga_sg@hotmail.com you can mail me there if you want.
Don't do anything to yourself. you know what happened, so does your guy.As long as you're happy with him and like him don't let people who know nothing talk bad about you.
If I hurt myself everytime people talked bad about me, i'd be a walking zombie, covered in plaster.
I'd actually admire you more if you tried ignoring because i know it's much harder than anything else. Maybe you don't ahve any other friends now, or they are not talking to you but you've just made a new one. Hi! I'd be really glad if you would talk to me.
Maybe i think you should not see your homeboy for a while so that you can find out how you feel about him and everything. If you're happy, then believe that you're going to be fine, people never gossip forever, trust me.
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