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I don't know if this is a game, or what.
First I'll give some background info. When I first met this guy, I liked him. We went out, & broke up obviously because he liked this other girl, but he never told me that was why. Then we went out again a couple months later. Broke up again obviously because he wasn't over that other girl. Now, it still seems like he isn't over her, and I'm still not over him. It's been 7 months since we met each other/went out. About 3-4 weeks ago at a dance, he asked if we could have sex. I thought he was kidding so I said we could, jokingly. Then I told him I was kidding, after he asked if I was serious. So he accepted that, but then asked if he could have a kiss. I didn't kiss him because I thought he might be using me. [I'm NOT a slut, and he knows it. I've never made out with anyone, he knows that.] Then a couple days later, I unexpectedly had to go to Florida for 2 weeks. I didn't talk to him for those 2 weeks while I was gone. I came back to school on Monday and he started flirting with me more. Then he called me up last night, wanting me to go to his friends house, cuz he and a few other guys were there spending the night. He told me to "get my lips ready" & said, "I really like you." I told him, "I think you're just trying to use me." He denied. I got to the house & he's like, "lets go makeout" & asked me who I liked, if i liked him, all the things he used to ask when he liked me before. His friend also told me that he liked me. I again told him I thought he'd be using me. He said, "no! why would i use you? i know you're one of those girls who would wait til like marriage!" [i don't plan on waiting til marriage, i just don't want to get used] Then he asked again if I liked him, and I stupidly said no, because I've always wanted to tell him that I still have feelings for him, even though it's obvious he has them for that other girl. Then when I said no, he stopped trying to get me to makeout with him. But he kept hugging me. But now I wish I would've made out with him, and told him that I still liked him, but I pretty much lost the perfect opportunity to... when he asked. What do you think? Does he like me?
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hey there! well I think from what you said, it is obvious that he doesn't have feelings for you anymore, and yes it does seem like he is using you when that other girl is not around! Sadly, a lot of people do that... but think about it. When you like someone, all you want to do is be with them and you don't care about being with anyone else. He broke up with you not once, but twice because he wanted to try and be with another girl. And you are saying that when the girl has a boyfriend, the guy is over you more! That's a pure sign that he just wants someone to fill in the gaps when he doesn't have a chance with the other girl! I'm very impressed with your actions and your way of thought! A lot of girls would have made out with him and given him whatever he wanted because they would have been in denial and thought that he liked them! But you are very smart for questioning him! Any time a guy doesn't want to be with you and only you, he doesn't like you like that anymore! So don't let him use you! Stop talking to him completely, and before you know it you will be 100% over him! Don't waste your time with a guy that doesn't really like you when you can be single and out there looking for the guy who will treat you like a queen and have eyes for no one else but you! Good Luck! =)
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