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flirting
ok so im 15 and never had a boyfriend and thats not what bugs me what bugs me is that im practically incapable of flirting. i just dont get it. i dont know how to tell if a guy is flirting with me or how to flirt back i can comfortably talk to my friends that are guys but if im around someone who i like im just not myself and it bugs me b/c i become kind of uptight and i just want to get this whole flirting thing like everyone else. please help!
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Its not that hard U just need some practuse. No one is born knowing how to flirt they observe and follow by example. I do have some helpful hints I wish I had.
1. Smile(it seems dumb but it works wonders)
2. Say hi but like lipping it(no sound) like from a bit of a distance.
3. wave and play with you're hair
4. Look at them and then stop when they look at you (do this only once) Then next time let them see your looking they might get interested.
See if that helps, good luck
Peace out,
DA
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if i were you, i would imagine yourself as if they were your guy friends, if you treat a guy like a flirtacious freak, there going to be like wow this girl only wants to date me, not have a serious conversation or play some basketball after school. communication is important around that age. 14 and below it was like were dating, and never talked to your boyfriend it just said you were dating, and now your starting to mature, you have to start treating guys you want to date as if they are you bestfriends. I do! and i get so many guys it aint funny, i steal girls boyfriends. which is bad!!! but guys love it.
trust me! its a 100% gaurantee.
-sammay
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if you TRY to flirt with someone it either makes you look really desperate or it just doesnt turn out right. flirting just happens naturally, theres not really a right or a wrong way to do it.
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You feel akward and uptight around the guys you like because you don't know what they'll think of you if you say something wrong.
Thats a big problem too because you have to learn that if you are not the uptight type of girl, then you have to start being your true self again. It's really hard to relax around people who we truly care of what they think of us, but the key to knowing if a guy is right for you is knowing that you can be relaxed and not so tense around them. I'm not saying that you should suddenly feel relaxed around some guy and thats how you know. You just have to start getting to know him a little more. Don't try to think about whether he flirted with you or not.
Nobody knows every single sign of flirting. It's really complicated to answer questions of whether someone is flirting because nobody is for sure what is what. You say that you want to flirt like everyone else does. Well, you think that all of the other girls who flirt aren't nervous or uptight either when it comes to flirting with guys they like? It's not that you are doing anything wrong, you aren't singled-out or the only one who feels this way. Now, some girls are just able to put themselves out there better which is ok too. A lot of times when you get nervous and turn into another person around a guy, it's an insecurity problem.
But who isn't insecure of themselves at times? You just have to learn that if you aren't secure with yourself, then you'll go through life worrying about what other people think of you, and you'd be lying to this guy and yourself if you stay insecure. In other words, relax and just make this guy like a friend first so that you can have an idea of who this guy is.
-TheTeenGirl
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