So here goes:
I'm 14/f and you guys are probably wondering "What has she been through? She's only 14."
Well, my grandpa left when I was young because of cancer. My uncle promised that he'll be with me forever and that he'd quit smoking. Now he's dead from lung cancer. My grandma, I adore and love, is getting ill everyday. I hate the fact that my family members are slowly going away. In addition to that, I've let one too many guys take my heart and break it into pieces. Now I'm afraid of letting anyone get close to me. IF a guy likes me, & even if I like him back, I find myself running away from the guy and pushing him away. If I have a friend that I really enjoy having around, I'll find ways to ruin the friendship. If I have a crush, I'll force myself to forget about him/her and convince myself that I'm just going to end up hurt again.
I just find myself secluding myself from people everyday in fear of letting them hurt me. I feel like if I push them away, when they leave, it won't hurt as much. I know I'm hurting my friends and family by doing this but I can't help it. I really want to stop myself but I can't...can someone please help me get over this?
I can understand you've been hurt a lot at least by guys and love. Thing is if you keep pushing people away you'll eventually see that you have no one there around you. And that can be a far more painful thing especially at times when you need people around you (be it for support in a moment of sadness or to celebrate something).
Everytime we give our heart away its a gamble with 50:50 odds. Things will either work out or they won't. As long as you remember this you should be okay. It's painful when I see people say how they love someone and will be with them forever because in the back of my mind I will be thinking forever is a very long time and things change a lot, people change a lot so they may never reach forever together. That's not to say you shouldn't try though. I know it's hard and having people taken away from you is really tough but it just shows how life should be lived to the maximum because none of us are going to be around forever.
My uncle used to only live down the road from me (about 10mins walk) and worked about the same distance (across the road from his house) and I would hardly ever pop over there to see him or anything because I took for granted that he was always there just down the road. Then one night I found out he had passed away from something or another on his way to hospital when he had complained of chest pains and really bad headaches. In just a short moment and without warning he had gone and the biggest regret I had for a long time was that I took him being just down the road for granted. All I can say is don't push your frends and family out of your life. You'll regret it eventually because you'll look back and ask yourself why didn't you take the time to get to know them and spend time with them.
We all go eventually but ask yourself how you want people to remember you and how they may want you to remember them? As someone who cared, loved and had fun being around each other? Or as someone who locked them out because of the fear they would one day be gone?
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I'm a 14/f. And I have a WONDERFUL boyfriend. Yeah, say I'm to young to be inlove, I don't care.
Anyways, i'm white, and my boy friend is mixed(black&white), well..my parents are exactly rascists..but they are really bad to stereotype and they think all blacks are bad and they think they all steal..and kill people. lol. Well, they think that about my Bf. And none of it's true. And it's not his fault what his color is. And really, if you were blind and he never told you that he had black in him, you'd never know.
He doesn't try to act all 'gangstuh' and 'ghetto'...he actually leans more to the emo/scene. Haha.
But, still, my parents dislike him, and i've let him meet my mother twice. and still...she hates him. is there anything i can do to convince them different?
I mean, i have to deal with it at school, too. getting called a nigga lover..and everything else. I know i can't do anything about the kids at school, but i would like to change my parent's view on the situation.
The only way people change is by having an open mind to things. It seems obvious from what you said you're parents either don't or just plain don't want to change their opinions on your bf. The only real way you could try and show he is not like that is for them to meet and obviously get to know your parents better (and vice-versa). It may open their eyes as to what he's like but I have to admit that most just won't change in which case you may just have to deal with it. I suppose the good thing though is that they have not forced you to stop seeing him which is a good thing. I had this same problem with one of my ex's (I'm Sikh aka asian and she was white) but her parents were very against the whole idea and it got to the point that it because very difficult for the relationship to continue because of the amount of stress it put on the relationship. You'd think they would at least be greatful when I was there for her and helped her to deal with her drug addiction but that's gratitude for you. :]
As for the kids at your school - that's called ignorance. Personally I think education is wasted on people like that since they take all this stuff in but still learn nothing. :/ Ignore it as best you can because it's pretty much all you can do but don't let it get to you or let you stoop to their level. If it's any comfort then know that once they get into the real world they WILL learn from their mistakes (I could go into an example from what happen to me but I'll resist the temptation to write it here for everyone to read, lol).
As long as this guy treats you right then it's all good. With your parents, just give them time to try and get to know him better. Eventually they'll either change their views on him and see not everyone is the same or they won't.
Good luck. :]
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yes thats what i`m using.
&& that would be amazing if you can tell how to add music.
i`m not completely done yet with the video i have a few more pictures.
should i wait til i`m completely done adding picture?? well jus let me know everything you can help out with.
&& i need the song patience by guns n roses also
thanks so much in advance
Hey. :]
I got hold of the song for you and uploaded it to my web sites server (it was easier than looking for one of those free download sites).
Anyway, you should be able to download it from the following page on my site:
http://www.thedevilsoffspring.com/download.html
To download the actual track please right click the link on the page and then select 'Save Target As' since it seems to be the only way it works. Once you've downloaded it just let me know and I'll delete it from my web space.
If there's any problems with downloading it just give me a shout. :]
Hope the video is coming along good. :D
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yes thats what i`m using.
&& that would be amazing if you can tell how to add music.
i`m not completely done yet with the video i have a few more pictures.
should i wait til i`m completely done adding picture?? well jus let me know everything you can help out with.
thanks so much in advance
Hey! :D
Best thing to do is to add all the graphics and picturs into the time line first that way you'll have the general idea of how long the whole thing will be. That way if it turns out to be longer than the music file you're using you'll need to extend the audio track to match.
To add music/sound to the whole thing this is what you'll need to do:
Provided you have Windows Movie Maker already open and all the video stuff already in place:
1] If the storyboard is acvive at the bottom bar along the bottom of Windows Media Maker then right click anywhere in the grey are (where you add the movie/pictures for the final movie) and select 'Timeline'.
2] Once the timeline is active you'll see the video/picture in the top portion and the audio below it (which should be empty at this point).
3] Drag and drop the track you want to use into the main window of Media Maker and once loaded there just drag it into the audio part of the timeline below the video timeline and it will load up and be ready. If you need to clip or edit the track all you need to to is select it in the main window before dragging it to the audio timeline and you'll be able to play it in the media player window on the right side.
Only thing you need to remember is when dragging the audio track into the audio timeline you will need to place it in the right place (to the far left if you need the music to start from the beginning of the movie) but you will know that already anyway. :] After that just play the whole thing and see if it comes out how you need it or not.
Sorry by the way for the delay in getting back to you and good luck with finishing it off. :]
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Ok, I did the advice on "Am I 2nd place?" But I think I hurt myself also. He said we were only friends, and I said then dont make promises you can't make. I want to know if I made the right choice. I really like Evan, and im about to cry. I just got over my last bf, I don't want want to do the same thing I did last time, please help me.
Hi.
It took me a lil while to find that question you said about but I finally found it and after reading all the answers people had given you I think they were all very right. If you followed what they said you certainly did the right thing.
I know it must hurt you and I'm sorry about that but you did the right thing and saved yourself a lot of heart ache in the long run.
This guy was keeping you just as a girl on the side for when things go sour with his current gf and I seriously have doubts about any guy who would dump their gf for another girl. If they managed to do it to their gf what's to stop them meeting someone else and doing the same to you? That makes for a very unreliable bf who would be gone the moment he decided he found someone better.
He said what he said to make it look like he wasn't the one in the bad but he said himself he will go out with you if he breaks up with his gf - that's not what friends say to each other. He was just making you feel bad about it and putting the blame on you which it isn't at all. I very much think you did the right thing and I stand by everyone who told you to do what you did in your original question. I'm afraid when it comes to things like these we always have to remember we can get our hearts broken and our feelings hurt. It's one of those things that comes with the territory I'm afraid. Rest assured you will recover given time and you WILL meet someone alot nicer because it's what you deserve. It will take time for the pain to heal but time is a great healer. Look forward and you'll see very soon new doors of opportunity will open up before you.
I commend you on being able to do the right thing. In doing so you made it clear you're not going to be someones back up girl because you deserve better than that.
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hey. ok 14/f. well, i met this guy at church a few weeks ago. i could tell from the second that i saw him he liked me. and after i talked to him for a little bit, i liked him, even though i didn't know him very well. well, he always kept flirting with me. and today he told my friend Tina that he liked me and was gonna ask me out. and after i got out of the bathroom, he asked me for my number. so like, 3 hours later he called me. and we just started talking, then he goes, "hey... do you wanna go out with me?". and i was like "i don't know.." cause i really don't know if i wanna go out with him. so i was just like "can i have a day to think about it?" and he just gets all pissed and is like "why do u need a day?" and i was just like "i don't know". by the way, i'm skipping a little bit of this, cause it is really long. so, we just started talking about all of this today and he keeps saying "baby, i love you" and stuff like that. he's also talking about kissing me, and how he wants to kiss me so much. and i just think it is all moving way to fast. but see, he's been in some trouble before. like, he used to smoke weed, and he got a girl pregnate (sp), but he doesn't do that stuff anymore. but also, there is a bit of an age difference. i'm 14 and he is 17. do you think he is to old for me? but tonight when he goes "i love you, you know that right?" and i was just like "yeah.." and he gets really pissed and says " you know what?f**** you, i've worked to hard in this relashonship, now its your turn" blah blah blah... i don't know what to do. i can understand he wants an anwser, but i need a day to think. what do u guys think i should do? do you think i should go for him, or tell him no? i really need help. i really like him, but i'm afraid he might break my heart. he told me that he is kinda scared to go out with me because he might "fall in love". like seriously, does he like me, or does he just like using lines from movies? haha, jk. anyways, help!!!! thanks a bunch!
Not sure if they are lines from movies but I can tell you they are lines that are usually used by someone whos a player and is trying to get your trust quickly. :|
Harsh as it may seem I think this guy is trouble and you need to cut him loose. He knows you're young so you'd like hearing how he loves you would make you melt and want to do anything for him etc, etc. It's the same crap guys feel girls to get what they want. The fact he didn't like that you had wanted to think things through for starters was a hint of him trying to push you into makeing a quick decision. I don't think its more an issue about him being older I think it's just more what he is looking for which I think may not be the same thing you are looking for. He has only known you a little while and is already telling you he loves you? :/ Was that the same line he used on the girl he had got pregnant? This guy is not a relationship guy so if you're after a meaningful relationship you're very much looking in the wrong place. As for him changing, I'll believe that when I see it. Guys always say they'll change but it takes time for a guy to be able to change and even then it only happens if they really want it to.
I think all he's after is a physical relationship (if not just sex) hence how he seems obsessed about going on about it. The fact you're young maybe his way thinking that he can get what he wants more easily becuase you're going to be nieve. Oh, and as for that for, "you know what?f**** you, i've worked to hard in this relashonship, now its your turn." line. That's the most used and abused line ever in relationships when it comes to people like him. Usually the next thing the girl says is something along the lines of an apology and then what they can do to prove they do care or love them too. That's when the guy has his opening in trying to suggest something sexual (since you both ain't even going out yet though he may say to go out with him and all that jazz). He's using the same MO that a lot of guys like him use.
Oh, the whole being scared to go out with you incase he 'falls in love' - another load of rubbish. He was already telling you how he's totally in love with you and was the one who asked YOU out and got in a mood about it when you said you needed time to think about it. He's not keeping things consistant with his story or how he's supposedly making out he's feeling - I think he's just making a lot of this stuff up just to get what he wants. It seems he's just working around you poking, so to speak, till he finds a hole through your barrier you have up to protect yourself to make you crumble and fall for him to the point that you're hooked and can't resist him anymore (hence the whole I love you crap he's coming out with).
I'll say one thing, you've been really smart to keep your head on and think things through with your head about what's going on since a lot of girls usually do fall for the stuff he's come out with so I commend you on that. I think he's just after an easy target to satisfy his needs so you should move on and find someone better - or at least someone who's as nice as you are, I think you deserve that much. This guy just seems bad news but at the end of the day it will be your choice and decision. If you need any other help feel free to message and good luck. :]
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Hi. I'm a 16/f. So there is this guy I like that goes to another school. When he and I started hanging out a lot, he had a girlfriend of like 6 months, but we were just hanging out as friends. Then he we decided that we liked each other. He broke up with his girlfriend (he said he was unhappy with her), and we started talking. I didn't want to rush into anything, so we agreed to just keep hanging out and talking and see where things went. Then he ended up getting back with his girlfriend one night. But we agreed to still be friends. Now, we are still hanging out. I still like him a lot. He tells me and everyone else how unhappy he is with his girlfriend. He said he had to give her just one more chance, but she didn't change. He also keeps saying "She's about to lose a great guy". So when we hang out, we just act like friends. But the other night, a bunch of people were at this girls house, and a lot of people ended up staying the night out in her back yard in tents (He invited me, & not his girlfriend). That night, me and him ended up sharing blankets and stuff in the tent. We cuddled all night, he held my hand a bit and rubbed my back. I think the kid is just really confused. My guess is that he doesn't want to end his long relationship (although he's not happy) for me, since he doesn't know if we would end up working out. He's told me he still has feelings for me and stuff. I just don't know what to do. I know I can't mess around with a guy with a girlfriend (you don't have to tell me, I know). I just can't get the kid off of my mind. If I don't talk to him, I go crazy. I haven't liked someone this much in a really long time. He is going to my school next year, and his school is like a week from being over. So I'm kind of hoping that once he doesn't have to see her and her friends everyday (When he dumped her, half his school hated him), he will be more open to other options. I'm not going to expect anything, because I don't want to get my hopes up, but still... (& if it helps, he's only been back with her for 2 weeks)
So What do I do? What is up with him?
This situation is driving me crazy. Any input would be great. Thank you for reading, and sorry it was so long =)
First and foremost you have to remember that you're only getting one side of the story as far as his relationship goes. If he's the one who's being the not so nice guy in the relationship it's not like he will just admit it to you and tell you that at the risk you'd no longer feel the same way about him anymore.
To me though it just seems he is very confused so all I can really say to you is to be careful as far as how things go with you and him. If he does decide to dump her eventually then I would suggest, as before, taking things very slowly so as to give him a chance to get over her (I think it was more he hadn't gotten over her than anything else which is why he gave her that second chance). And as I said before too, you don't actually know the other side of the story so for all you know it may not be that his gf is the bad one in the relationship. Once that does happen though then by all means go for it and see how things turn out. It's a good thing to hear that you know what you're doing though as far as going for someone who already has a gf and such goes.
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ok so i recently got over a crush that lasted halif a year and that really hurt me. he never really liked me and he led me on... and i dont want to go through that kind of pain again. so friday i went to the mall with my friends. jenna's bf named john, came too and brought his friend chris. chris is really hilarious and nice right away we started talking and we clicked. he was telling me and pat about how john and jennas relationship isnt going so well. and then he said that he doesnt treat her right and that he would never treat a girl like that.
it was fun and all talking to him and joking around all day. but then my friend pat asked if i like him and i said yea and she said me too so STAY AWAY. and i just laughed and said not a chance hahaha. later we were hanging by the fountain and chris sat next to me like really close and yea it was kinda nice and i sat cloae too. and then he left to go with his guy friends and later we walked passed him and i smiled at him and he smiled back. well the thing is pat really likes him too and no we're not like mad at eachother. so how can i get to know him better i already got his myspace but so did she and well im probably gonna see him again at the mall next week or something. how should i act around him. thanx in advance =)
Why should you need to act any different around him just because you like him? Just act how you normally do and act yourself. If he likes you back then this other girl won't really be a problem. If it turns out he likes her more than never mind - there'll be plenty of other guys out there too.
Whatever happens though don't act like something/someone your not. If he likes you for something you're pretending to be then eventually when he sees through the act he's not going to be happy about it and will just feel you have decieved him.
Good luck with him. :]
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I have a Dell Inspiron 8500 and the laptop won't work witht he battery in. When i press that button on the battery all the green lights blink so im thinking it's charged but when I put it in the laptop it doesn't work. Should i get a new battery or does it have to do with the actual laptop itself??
It could be the battery that just needs replacing since they eventually do die, if you've had it a long while now. The only thing I can really suggest is buying or getting hold of another battery and then trying it to see if it works. If it does than obviously the problem was with the battery but if it doesn't then there's something wrong with the laptop in which case, if it's still under warrenty, you may want ot get it sent off for repairs. If not then you'll need to take it into a specialist who can find what's wrong with it and repair it.
Sorry I can't offer much more assistance than this I'm afraid but I had the same problem with my laptop as well (still do). I need a new battery but since the batteries are so expensive I just use the mains power supply instead which works fine anyway since I never carry this thing out anywhere (it weighs a ton).
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Basically my best mate who i have been mates with since little school copied my coursework. Thats not all keep readin! i gave it over email a while back and forgot about it.
i was called into the office bout 2 weeks ago, and i found out what she done.mine was nearly not sent off cos they thought we were in a pact together. but now mine is being sent off and she has been taken off the course.. i was so angry that i didnt return her calls or let her talk to me.. if mine wasnt sent off then i would be able to pursue my career thats how serious it was..so i carried on not speakin to her, she was rushed into hospital on thurs by ambulance. her mum came into my work on sat to tell me that she has been put on a ventilator. so now i feel really guilty because the condition she has is serious. i still feel like i shudnt go and see her because then its accepting whats she done. What would you do in this situation??
I'd go and see them. If you never got the chance to again then it'd be something you'd have hanging over your head for a very long time. Think of it this way, if you decide not to go now can you honestly say to yourself you'd be able to live with your decision? Because judging by you needing to get advice on what to do I would say it may be a decision you'll find a lot harder to live with than you may think.
By going you're not saying you forgive her for what she did but everyone does deserve a second chance. Tell her that too. That you wanted to see her because you heard she was in a bad state but you don't want her to think it made what she did to you okay because it could have cost you your career.
Overall it's your decision though but just remember it'll be a decision you'll need to live with for a very long time.
Good luck.
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14/f. Sorry if this is a bit long. I have a group of 5 friends; we sit together at lunch, hang out on weekends, blah blah. Now, theres this girl, 'Jill', who thinks she is the 6th member of our group. We'd be happy to be friends with her, but shes so freaking annoying. She's immature, always copies us, invites herself places.. One time she just showed up at the mall when she heard about it, even though we didn't invite her at all.
The 5 of us try to ignore her, hoping she'll get the message, yet she still sits with us, walks with us, etc. The only problem is, I feel really bad. I think she knows that she is always being excluded in our plans, and she's obviously really upset. She has no other friends besides us.
The question is, should we keep being friends with her? I don't think it's fair to let Jill think her friends are us, when really all we do is talk about her meanly behind her back with eachother. Or should we just be nice and let her sit with us and stuff? She's SO annoying.
Maybe you should talk to her? If she follows you all around and does what you all do and everything then obviously she seems to maybe look up to you all? As you said you lot are probably the only friends she has as far as friends go, at least for her.
I'm guessing since you're all in the group together maybe if you suggested the rest atleast try and get along with her it might all work out. No harm in trying? :] If there's something that she does which annoys you all then by all means tell her but make sure she knows that what she's doing is something people may find annoying.
I dunno, it really is up to you all what you want to do I just don't see it as a nice thing to do to dump her onto someone else. Sure she's annoying and such but since she doesn't have any friends I guess all she's trying to do is fit in with you 5, she's probably just trying a little too hard to fit in. When she can actually be herself and not this annoying person that's trying to fit in she may not be all that bad a person at all.
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hi, i am a 19 year old guy and i have been dating my 17 year old girlfriend for a year and 3 months. when we started dating everything was awesome and we spent all of our free time together and now i have realized that i have taken her away from her frinds and family. this is the last thing i want to do. friends and family are so important in your life that i would never want to take them away from her. we both just recently realized that we need to give each other a little more space. i have no problem with doing this but whenever im not with her i find myself calling her and texting her a ton. i feel like i should know exactly what she is doing and who she is doing it with at all times and i know that this isnt right. it has made our relationship worse. neither of us have ever lied to the other and i trust her completly but i cant seem to just back off and let her go do what she wants. i feel like i am obsesive and i need help to get over this. we both love each other more than anything and i am willing to try anything to make her happy again. like i said i love her more than anything and dont want to push her away because of this. what do i do?
Hi.
I know exactly how you feel mate, I've been there more than once myself too. It takes time for any person to change who they are so you will need to give yourself time to adjust and change too. I know what you mean by you trusting her. Most girls do misunderstand because they think you don't trust them when it's usually not the way. It's more not trusting those around them (lets face it guys know how guys can be and how most guys feel a girl that's already taken is a nice 'challenge'). All I will say is that your fear you have of how it will/is pushing her away is very true. If you continue this it WILL push her away more and more until she decides she can't take it anymore and it will just becomes a barrier between you both.
You said already you trust her though so trust her to be able to tell guys to get lost if they do try anything (it was one of the mistakes I had made in another relationship which went sour because I pushed her away and it started with how things are with you at the moment). Don't totally cut off contact or anything but ration your messages to her and let her have her space with her friends and family while you also do the same. As long as you don't flood her with questions about who she's with and what she's doing all the time it will be a really good start. It may be a good idea to try and talk to her about this but make sure its face to face and not over the phone and just let her know you're sorry about how you've been acting but it's not you and it will change but she just needs to be patient with you. If you get stuck on how to explain things then show her what you've written above. :] As long as she understands it's a good and from what you've said you both have I think she will understand.
You can do it, just remember you're doing it to save your relationship with her so as not to push her away. I won't lie by saying it's easy because it won't be but you can do it. :] Good luck dude and I really hope everything gets sorted out.
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why do some people judge someone by how they act when they are drunk?
It could be a number of reasons I think. Firstly it's said alcohol makes a person let go and come out of their shell so when someone is drunk they act more like themselves and what they are like so some people go by that literally and judge people by that. To be honest I've seen no scientific evidence to support this theory since I know for a fact that with me this is not true - so with some people it may be true but not with all.
Others I guess are just ignorant. They judge someone before getting the chance to actually get to know them. Saying this though there are others who can just be stupid and when they are drunk it makes them even worse. I've come across plenty of people like these when I used to work as a doorman at a fast food place (don't ask).
When people get in a group and get drunk they sometimes do dumb things. In a circle of friends it may seem amusing and funny and even when they find out the next day they'd probably have a nice laugh about it with their friends but others would just look at them and frown and judge them by that. Again, I don't see any reason why they should but then if people do that it should in my opinion just be ignored. There are some people when drunk have been known to do things that were bad and wouldn't normally have done (cheat without realising because they were too drunk for example) and usually the only thing I say to this is that they should be a lot more careful when out drinking so things like this don't happen or at least have a friend you can TOTALLY trust with you who will be able to step in and stop you doing anything wrong/bad if you get drunk. People judge others by this when maybe it is the persons own fault to an extent but again, they were under the influence and it may not really be who they are at all.
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i have the ROKR phone by motorola
and i don't have the charger [the dog chewed it up]and i want to start using it again , so what do i do .
how much will a new one be ?
and if i have get an ipod will that be able to let me get songs on the itunes
on my phone ?
The price for a new charger will vary depending on where you buy it from but from somewhere like ebay I've seen prices as low as £2.99 (I only checked UK prices but if there's people selling them here in the UK and you're in the USA there will be people over there selling them too).
You could always pop into a mobile phone shop too as they stock spares like those too but I would imagine that a new charger from such retailers would be a lot more pricey, albeit faster than ordering it from somewhere like ebay. If you're willing to wait a few days or so then by all means order it from ebay from someone who's a reputable seller as it'll only set you back a few pounds (not including postage that is).
As for the ipod and music I don't really understand what you mean. Do you want to download music using itunes and then put them on your phone? You said, "if i have get an ipod will that be able to let me get songs on the itunes on my phone?" and am uncertain exactly what you mean. If you can clarify please I'll try help on that too. :]
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13. my bestfriend was abused im many ways. her mom was a drug addict. her mom gave her drugs through shots and made her smoke and used many different drugs on her. her and her 2 sisters. my friend stopped growing but got on so many medicines and started again this year. she has 2 skin diseases and extremely deep smokers cough. her mom left her alone in a different state when she was in kindergarten. later her mom went to jail. her and her sisters went to her aunts. all this happened when she was 4 till 10. shes now in depression and hides everything and all she does is screams yells and stares. she still cant get over it she had no idea it was bad. now shes paranoid of drugs or even smoking or alcohaul anything like that she was abused with. now were doing d.a.r.e to resist drugs its a daily year round thing. and she has to do it and she doesnt say a word the whole time or just actually cries she never crys. i feel so bad for her. she got a restraining order on her mom and her mom is in jail till the end. her mom also had mental problems/ alot of people are doing drugs and everything already and when she sees someone she tries to kill them or atleast punch them to the ground. she is normal other than depression and being paranoid of drugs and stuff. how do i get her to leave others alone SHE SHOULDNT TRY TO KILL PEOPLE. how do i stop her how do i help her a therepist didnt work. i fell soo bad for her ill do anything for her. she cant get over it i know itll be hard. i need help to help her. HOW!
That's really bad, putting someone so young through something like that doesn't bare thinking about. :[
The only thing you can really do I'm afraid is to be there for her and let her know you're there for her. These problems she has are very, very deep and I'm afraid that reaching them to try and resolve them may not be so simple or easy. She will need a lot of time to adjust and come to terms with things and just get her bearings back. There may not be a way to speed her recovery up but you can certainly help her by being there for her. I really hope she gets better though because it sounds really bad what she is going through and what you are going though seeing her in this way.
I'm sorry I cant really be much help but she may still need professional help, even though it seems to not help. It may be the best thing for her at the moment.
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Is there a way to find out when last someone was logged into RuneScape?
(I'm not really a RuneScape nerd completely... I just play it if I'm EXTREMELY bored.)
I'm afraid not, no. Unless - you are referring to someone logging onto your account (since account stealing seems to be a major problem on there at the moment). If it's your own account when you log on it will give you some details (like the time and date of your last log-in as well as the IP number of the person who last logged in). If it's someone elses account (like one of your friends) then there's no real way to know I'm afraid unless you ask one of their friends that you might also know on the game.
Didn't think anyone who came here played runescape, lol. Lvl 114 ftw. :D
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oka where should i start ok my friend is going out with this boy name chris and they been goin out for like 4 weeks. Anywayz one day she told me that she was on the chat room and met this boy and they statred talking and stuff. And so everyday she would go on just to talk to him and she told me she like him becasue he sweet and everything. But she already have a boyfriend and im just wondering is it wrong that she talking to a boy on the internet when she got a boyfriend. Oh and she said she might break up with him becasue of all this.
I woudn't really say it's cheating just to talk to this guy or any other guy for that matter. If she's doing stuff with him though then I would probably class it as cheating. The fact she wants to dump her boyfriend for a guy she's met online and barely knows and who, for all she knows, could be a total jerk, seems like a pretty rash decision. At the end of the day though I guess it's her decision and if it comes to it, her mistake, to make.
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I 'm a 17 year old girl and my brother's wife tried to kill my brother while driving today. I wanted to know how many years can you get for attempt murder?
Speaking from the UK I don't think there's actually a set sentance since it always seems to vary (most of the time looking pathetic compared to the crime commited).
I would think that it would be anything from 4-10 years in prison if not more (and I would certainly like to think it's a lot more than that). I think it all comes down to the circumstances and such though because I read about one guy getting a term for 4.5 years for actual bodily assult when he stabbed someone. :/
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i got a cell phone for my 15th bday (YAY!) and when i go on AIM whenever i type something 2 my friends, like when i try 2 type 1 letter, it shows up as a whole wrd! and its not the wrd i want it 2 be eother! so if i want 2 type something i cant because 4 each letter it shows up as a complete wrd! how do i make it so i can type 1 letter at a time?
(sry if its confusing!!!)
thnx in advance!
Yay on the phone and your birthday (happy birthday). :D
It sounds like your phones predictive text has been switched on by default. If you're not familiar with predictive text it predicts what word you're trying to write with each of the keypresses you use. For example I could hit the numbers 5, 2 and 6 and I would get the choice of having Lan or Jam (words taken from the phones dictionary).
If you have a lookat the book that came with your phone there should be instructions on there on how to change your phones input type (you just need to either switch off predictive text or change it so it's on normal input). When you only need one letter (for example you want an X and you hit 9) it may come up with the letter W first and usually theres another button you can press to scroll through the letts so you can select X instead (if theres arrow keys on the phone try one of those).
Sorry I can't be more help but since I have no idea what phone you are using this is the best I'll be able to do. :] Hope you manage to get it sorted out.
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I smoked pot last night for the first timee
I didn't like it very much, but I've got soo many questons
I DID get high, 100% positive because I thought I was going to die, and no it wasnt in my head I promise.
I felt like I would leave my body and then fall asleep, but then wake up, and i wasn't aware of movements or couldn't feel anything for about a minute at a time. I was extremely tired, becuase I normally need to sleep a long time WITH a nap, and i slept for short w/o one.
So maybe the heat and the fatigue caused this, but I truly think I was high.
Does this make sense because my friends think I was faking it, even though I deffinantly wasn't. Has anyone experienced something like this before
Also what are some effects (long and short term?) of smoking marijuana
PS for people that havent done drugs doont do it!
Short-term effects of marijuana include problems with memory and learning, distorted perception (sights, sounds, time, touch), trouble with thinking and problem solving, loss of motor coordination (which may explain why you couldn't feel anything when you woke up as well as not being able to move), increased heart rate, and anxiety (this would account for why you thought you're going to die). These effects are even greater when other drugs are mixed with marijuana. A user may also experience dry mouth and throat.
As for long term effects, marijuana smoke contains some of the same cancer-causing compounds as tobacco, sometimes in higher concentrations. Studies show that someone who smokes five joints per week may be taking in as many cancer-causing chemicals as someone who smokes a full pack of cigarettes every day.
I've not experienced what you have because I've never done them (all I've ever done was smoke a cigar when I was drunk, lol) but as you said - if you've not done them then keep well away, isn't worth it.
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