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is it cheating
oka where should i start ok my friend is going out with this boy name chris and they been goin out for like 4 weeks. Anywayz one day she told me that she was on the chat room and met this boy and they statred talking and stuff. And so everyday she would go on just to talk to him and she told me she like him becasue he sweet and everything. But she already have a boyfriend and im just wondering is it wrong that she talking to a boy on the internet when she got a boyfriend. Oh and she said she might break up with him becasue of all this.
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my friend did the same thing. I did consider it cheating, but she didnt really care about her boyfriends feelings. I would only consider it cheating if they talk about sexual things, like my friend did. Id say just talk to your friend. If she wants to break up with her boyfriend, its her choice. But dont just stand there. You should try and talk to her about it.
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If she is just talking to the kid online as though he is a FRIEND, then no it's not cheating. If she's talking sexually to him like saying she wants to kiss him or "do" him than I guess to a point some people WOULD consider it cheating. If she goes out with this kid online AND her boyfriend, and is having two boyfriends at once, that is definitely cheating. Has she ever met this kid online? Because if they go on dates or have kissed and hugged, than yes it's cheating. If they just talk a lot but they aren't being sexual or going out then it's fine and I wouldn't worry about it.
If she's going to break up with her boyfriend for a kid online, then it's her choice. If she's never met this kid online than I suggest she doesn't get into a long distance relationship because it won't work out. But she shouldn't just break up with Chris just because she might "like" a kid online. She needs to decide who she likes more and choose from there.
I'm sorry I gave so many different answers from different points of views, but if you give more detail about this relationship I can help you better!
Have a nice day.
-Candace
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its not wrong that she talks to boyswhen she has a boyfriend. but it is wrong to wanna break up with him for some boy she met on the internet, who she prolly never met and she doesnt really kno who he is.
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I woudn't really say it's cheating just to talk to this guy or any other guy for that matter. If she's doing stuff with him though then I would probably class it as cheating. The fact she wants to dump her boyfriend for a guy she's met online and barely knows and who, for all she knows, could be a total jerk, seems like a pretty rash decision. At the end of the day though I guess it's her decision and if it comes to it, her mistake, to make.
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