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Your really not guna believe this story but its 100% true
Basically my best mate who i have been mates with since little school copied my coursework. Thats not all keep readin! i gave it over email a while back and forgot about it.
i was called into the office bout 2 weeks ago, and i found out what she done.mine was nearly not sent off cos they thought we were in a pact together. but now mine is being sent off and she has been taken off the course.. i was so angry that i didnt return her calls or let her talk to me.. if mine wasnt sent off then i would be able to pursue my career thats how serious it was..so i carried on not speakin to her, she was rushed into hospital on thurs by ambulance. her mum came into my work on sat to tell me that she has been put on a ventilator. so now i feel really guilty because the condition she has is serious. i still feel like i shudnt go and see her because then its accepting whats she done. What would you do in this situation??
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If I were you, I would definitely go see her. I mean, like.. she's the one whose suffering, and she was taken out of the course. You're right - it COULD HAVE affected your career, but instead, it affected hers. And, now she's in the hospital, you HAVE to go see her - no questions. Take her balloons, and just let her know that you were upset about the whole situation but you're sorry for ignoring her. She'll probably apologize for the whole thing happening.
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Even though she copied stuff, and got YOU in trouble, she's still your friend. See her, and see if she's okay.
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I'd go and see them. If you never got the chance to again then it'd be something you'd have hanging over your head for a very long time. Think of it this way, if you decide not to go now can you honestly say to yourself you'd be able to live with your decision? Because judging by you needing to get advice on what to do I would say it may be a decision you'll find a lot harder to live with than you may think.
By going you're not saying you forgive her for what she did but everyone does deserve a second chance. Tell her that too. That you wanted to see her because you heard she was in a bad state but you don't want her to think it made what she did to you okay because it could have cost you your career.
Overall it's your decision though but just remember it'll be a decision you'll need to live with for a very long time.
Good luck.
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