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I did the advice on "Am I 2nd place?", but was it right.
Ok, I did the advice on "Am I 2nd place?" But I think I hurt myself also. He said we were only friends, and I said then dont make promises you can't make. I want to know if I made the right choice. I really like Evan, and im about to cry. I just got over my last bf, I don't want want to do the same thing I did last time, please help me.
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Hi.
It took me a lil while to find that question you said about but I finally found it and after reading all the answers people had given you I think they were all very right. If you followed what they said you certainly did the right thing.
I know it must hurt you and I'm sorry about that but you did the right thing and saved yourself a lot of heart ache in the long run.
This guy was keeping you just as a girl on the side for when things go sour with his current gf and I seriously have doubts about any guy who would dump their gf for another girl. If they managed to do it to their gf what's to stop them meeting someone else and doing the same to you? That makes for a very unreliable bf who would be gone the moment he decided he found someone better.
He said what he said to make it look like he wasn't the one in the bad but he said himself he will go out with you if he breaks up with his gf - that's not what friends say to each other. He was just making you feel bad about it and putting the blame on you which it isn't at all. I very much think you did the right thing and I stand by everyone who told you to do what you did in your original question. I'm afraid when it comes to things like these we always have to remember we can get our hearts broken and our feelings hurt. It's one of those things that comes with the territory I'm afraid. Rest assured you will recover given time and you WILL meet someone alot nicer because it's what you deserve. It will take time for the pain to heal but time is a great healer. Look forward and you'll see very soon new doors of opportunity will open up before you.
I commend you on being able to do the right thing. In doing so you made it clear you're not going to be someones back up girl because you deserve better than that.
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