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at gym, we had to run 5 laps and i got out of breath.... i like running but i can only run so much, so i figured i should build up my stamina. i asked my mom if i could be one of those morning joggers, but she said no even when i told her i would stay on our street! if i run in the backyard, i have to dodge dog poop, trees, and my trampoline, plus i have to run in circles. i don't like running in circles.

i can't go to the high school track field everyday, and i can't join a gym or whatever.
how can i run everyday?
i really should do something to stay in shape, and i want to try running a little bit.
but where?

how can i convince my mom to let me run just on our street?

it would be so cool 'cause i have an ipod and i could use my moms athletic shoes.

what do i do (link)
hey

just tell your mom not to worry! do you have a cell? just say you'll keep it with you. or, ask her to jog with you (just the first time!) until she feels that you are responsible enough and won't get kidnapped or whatever.

she's just being protective - when you talk to her, don't scream or argue. just CALMLY ask her, "mom, why won't you let me run just down our street? if you don't want me running in the morning, i can go after school when there are more people around in case something happens." also, if you take your dog, just tell her that if something happens your dog will start barking and will attract people's attention.

don't ever say, "but MOM! why NOT?!" and start raising your voice - if you want to be treated like a responsible adult who can have the priviledge to run around her own street, you should act like one :]

or, if those suggestions are totally out of the question, just ask her if you can buy a treadmill! yeah, they're expensive, but that way you can run during the wintertime too, when it's cold and you can't jog outside. and on rainy days.

if you very willingly ask her to jog with you the first time, she will feel a lot better about you not getting into trouble, you know? just once. - so you might really wanna consider that option.


okay. I want to try find aways find not intress be on here.. please help how i start habit where i want get one only twice week, like I get one once where i just check emails and messages. other day i chat with my family and freinds. only twice week of a moonth. please give me good reasons. (link)
please don't rate if you think it's bad.
hide your computer chair, to where it will make it uncomfortable for you to sit.


if i bought a box of cheerios and like everyday brought a little baggy of them to school as a snack if i get hungry is that healthy? or would it be bad? (link)
it would be fine because even though theire not super healthy theyre good and delic. like they arent full of protien or anythin gbut they have very low cholestrol amounts.


anyone know or whats your biggest turn on (girls) or turn on spot? (link)
hey

all girls are different, but for me it's like my legs and if you are sexually active concentrate on the clit.

otherwise, just ask her what she likes!

i hope i helped


Fear of doors....

Anyone know? (link)
hey

http://en.allexperts.com/q/Phobias-3097/name.htm

i dont think there is a term! like the person under me said, maybe it's just called door phobia.


How do I ask a question? (link)
lol :)


Well basically in my group of friends, I have always been that background girl. Out of drama, out of fights, the nice shy one of the group. Although that may sound pretty good, I'm also the one that gets overshadowed by EVERYONE. I never, ever get the attention from guys, I'm never the one that all the girls want to hang out with. Pretty much, I'm never in the spotlight. I'm so sick of hearing how my friends are jugglin like 4 different boys constantly, and I have a difficult time getting one, especially when guys must be crazy if they pick me over my friends (all my friends are absolutely gorgeous by the way) I've always acted like it never bothered me, but lately it's just been really getting to me, because my whole life this is the way its been, and just for once, I would love to get the attention even just for a slight second. I don't know...any thoughts or advice would be appreciated :-/ (link)
I have been down this road before. I was always my own person. The thing is, i had to grab the attention. Whether i knew how to dance, tell a joke or just be silly ol me. It was me that people loved and not a fake person. So my suggestion to you is show people what your good at or what your made of. Maybe even jump into different friends. Mix your friends up. The more the merrier. Who cares if they have a BF. Life shouldnt be focused on that. Focus on yuorself. Focus on the great person you are. Make sure people see your shine. Fuck your friends, than. Whether or not you speak up, they will look at you like your crazy. Cause females like that wont understand what your problem is. I say at a party/club/event bounce around. Be ballsy. Go and talk to guys yourself. Be funny. Be a dork. I am sure you are a wonderful person and once you know that you will never have a problem. About the "gorgeous" thing. Bring out your best assects. Be it your eyes, lips, boobs...whatever. It may raise your confidence alil more when speaking to guys.


Ok I need to know if I'm overreacting when it comes to something that happened today.
This is the story.

Last week I left for a convention[for a week[ thats about 12 hours from where I currently live. I have a boyfriend of a year and a half and he couldn't come with me. Everytime I called him he was at this girl dianna's house. They have been friends for about a year now. But when I'm there he never goes to her house and not to mention it was prom weekend. Then today I came back from the convention intenting to get a warm welcome. I called him on the phone and the only thing he could say was that he was sooo tired. So finally he got off the phone and said he was going to bed. So about an hour later I had to go to wal-mart to pick up my brother but before I went I cruised by my boyfriends house because I wanted to give him a hug before he was too asleep but his car wasn't at his house..but guess who I saw at wal-mart when I got there?Him and Dianna, he sure was happy. He didn't even notice that I was there..he was so focused on her. And so now I don't know if I'm overreacting or if something might be going on or what. Please help me. (link)
Guys will be guys. The sooner you learn that the better. He lied. Period. Thats it. Whether it was a big lie or not. He lied. You need to confront him. Ask him what he did that night and if he said he was just at home, you know what to do. You are not over-reacting. Someone who says they care for you wouldnt try to hurt you. He's sneaking around with her [whether or not he is doing anything, he still is not telling you everything]. You need to tell him what you saw and confront him about his lie. If he stutters, drop him. And drop him fast. There are many many other guys who would love to have a devoted girlfriend by their side. You are better then that and need to know that.


okay well my sisters boyfriend is like 18 and he likes me?! and im kinda freaked out. im only 14. and he always comes in my room and lays in my bed when im in it. and the one day my boyfriend was over and me n my bf got in a little fight. and i went in my sisters room to ask her what to do. and my sister was in the bathroom . and jake (sisters bestfriend) started to hold my hand..i let go and told him to stop...and he got pissed..im really freaked out..everytime hes over i lock myself in our computer room..but somehow he always gets in..please help!! (link)
Wow. I read some of the other girls advice and i have 2 older sisters myself and i am not so sure if you should go straight to her first. You need to be blunt and aggressive towards him and tell him to back off. If that then doesnt work, have him and your sister in the same room and tell her. You need to be forward on this and you need to confront him about this. She needs to know what kidnof of boyfriend she has so she can drop his ass. Telling her in private she might think your jealous or whatever. Sisters are like that so its better if he's over one day that you blunting tell her to his face and see the reaction. If she chooses not to beleive you, he may stop doing what he is doing either way. Better yet, snap a photo of him with your phone or have a video camera going. It will catch his ass in the act.


My parents think I have sleep apnea because I get in bad moods allot, and I fall asleep all the time, and snore. Does anyone on here have sleep apnea or know symptoms? I'm getting tested for it this summer but I just want to know if anyone on here knows anything about it. (link)
Obstructive sleep apnea (OSA) is caused by a blockage of the airway, usually when the soft tissue in the rear of the throat collapses and closes during sleep. In central sleep apnea, the airway is not blocked but the brain fails to signal the muscles to breathe. Mixed apnea, as the name implies, is a combination of the two. With each apnea event, the brain briefly arouses people with sleep apnea in order for them to resume breathing, but consequently sleep is extremely fragmented and of poor quality.


It could be and it could not be. I ahve a neice who can fall asleep at a drop of a dime and she sometimes snores [she's 17] but thats because she had problems with her adenoids. I figure dont be too nervous about it until you fully know what it is. Like cross the bridge when you get to it. Getting in bad moods?? Hmmm are you bi-polar? Or somewhat depressed? I would look on the internet for that and check the symptoms because you might have something else that you may never thought of.


how do i look my boobs look bigger? without plastic surgery, or anything like that. How do you stuff your bra without making it look obvious. Thanks. (link)
Okay. I just read the other girl's comment. No water bras! EVER! They can pop and you can become emebarassed. If you want to make your boobs look bigger, by a push up bra from Victoria's Secert. Padded bras are fine too but thats what you get a push up for. THERE ARE NO SUCH BRAS THAT TRAIN YOUR BODY TO BECOME LARGER. That is a false statement. Do not believe any of the pills or creams that say they can make your boobs bigger. I'm a 32c and i was a late bloomer. So it just depends on your body and genetics if you will have large breasts or not.


Me and myboyfriend were making out.. getting into it, whatever.. and you know he was kinna out of breath and everything and i felt like... almost a pulsing in his "region". is that normal? what does it mean?
thank you!
(link)
He was hard hunny. Or almost hard. Either way, he was aroused by you two making out. It is very normal and nothing to be scared about.


Well I'm on my 4th year of puberty and my breats didn't grow at all. Totally flat. Will it stay like that?

I mean, it's been 4 years..

And I never knew before that when your breasts hurt that it's growing so in the past when it did hurt I slept laying on my tummy so maybe that's why? Again, will it grow? (link)
I was 18 when i developed breasts. I was a late bloomer. All my other sisters developed early so even though it is gentics then again your body may not be ready. I was a sporty girl and was very flat. Unfortuantly i do not know if you will have large breasts or no breasts at all, but sleeping on your tummy didnt make them not grow so dont worry about that. I [being a female] want you to know that no matter what size breast you do have you will always be a beautiful person. Young woman do not understand that even though BOYS want you have boobs so you supposly will be liked more. FUCK them. Once you get my age you will understand why i tell you not to worry too much. If it happens it will happen. It will happen when u least expect it.


My bf is in a different town. 7 miles away. He wants me to take his car and come down and see him. I really need to. I haven't seen him for several weeks. And when he still lived here I saw him everyday. So it's very different. I just don't know how to ask my mom or do I just do it? I know I would be back the next day. So should I just go, or tell her the truth. (link)
The truth is always best. I know this from experience. If you feel the need to explain yourself to your mom just tell her everything will be fine. You'll call or you'll have his parents call as soon as you get there. Try to make it easy for her to reach you. Seven miles away is not that far and i wouldnt understand why you would be back the next day when you'd be able to come home that night?


okay, so randomly out of the blue at like 1 in the morning this song pops in my head.
and i dont remember it. except like two lines.
it goes like,
"ill be loving you kissing you holding you" or something.
and "so girl dont tell what im feeling's make-believe"
ahh. and yes, ive googled it.
i answer alot of questions on here and no its so annoying when people ask questions so easily answered on google. lol.
so thank you, ahead of time,for helping (: (link)
One Wish - Ray J


i think my daughter has a controling boy friend what are the symtoms of this (link)
Wow, mom if you think he is most likey, he doesnt allow your daughetr to do things that she used too, she may become more aggressive towards to, even sad, needs to call him or speak to him ALL the time, is scared he'll be jealous/mad/or disappointed in her if she makes a decision on her own. All i know is, if she does. She needs to drop him fast because guys like that become a threat.


i like techno music can someone please give me some songs please and thank you (link)
Wow, this is hard since i ahve thousands of songs i can give you. BUT if you want to find different kinds of songs. Download Limewire. And when you go under search [audio] go to Genre and put techno in there. Or even Electronica [which can be considered techno] and it will give you all kinds of different artists. Bennossi Bros. are my favorite techno.


ok so me and my boyfriend want to have sex. i of coarse want to use a condom and hes fine with that. I just wanted to know as much information i can on what to do before hand to prevent anything bad. Like where can i find information on the pill and what types of tests do they do on you to check for stds. i also wanted to know where i can go to get on the pill with out my mom knowing. Im 19 f if that helps (link)
Okay. Being nineteen is good.
Your doctor. A family doctor or even get a seperate doctor for yourself [to avoid any questions asked to your mom]. Your doctor can take blood tests that can make sure you dont have any stds or aids. He/She can also put you on the pill. [if you have insurance that would be the best place to go for the pill] Also, a parenting place for young adults provids birthcontrol pills. You have to be careful though with pills because you will gain water weight. So to provent this i would rather go to the doctor and get all the info on birth control. Like i said before, being nineteen is good. You are an adult and you being an adult can make that decision without your mother knowing about you getting pills. Just be careful period. I've been through all the scare when i was your age. Remember condoms break and get the right size cause too small or too big size condoms are not good cause they can slip off or break.


I got the biggest foam rollers I could find...
They're goody. theyre pink.
well at least theyre the biggest ones at rite aid that actually work.
and (i already have curly hair, i was trying to loosen em)
when i wake up in the morning
my hair is really curly
do i brush it out? i dont wanna brush out the curls,
but honestly, really curly hair makes me look slutty.
its hard to explain. like dreadlocks. but not.
what do i do the morning after? (=]) (link)
To brush it would loosen them up but you'd need some type of moose so it wont friz. You dont want to look crazy so i suggest getting some friz control moose and that should work for you.


I was wondering, if there any free sites for piano music? I've been trying to find Vanessa Carlton's "White Houses", but everything cost money.

If anybody knows of a site where the music sheet's for a piano is free, I'd really appreciate it! (link)
I believe there are alot of sites. My ex Boyfriend played in a band and used to google music sheets all the time. I think if you look it up on google and im sure you will find some type of site that will show you. If anything i would use "free download" to be specific.




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