my sisters boyfriend likes me?! (not sure if its in the rig
Question Posted Sunday April 22 2007, 4:42 pm
okay well my sisters boyfriend is like 18 and he likes me?! and im kinda freaked out. im only 14. and he always comes in my room and lays in my bed when im in it. and the one day my boyfriend was over and me n my bf got in a little fight. and i went in my sisters room to ask her what to do. and my sister was in the bathroom . and jake (sisters bestfriend) started to hold my hand..i let go and told him to stop...and he got pissed..im really freaked out..everytime hes over i lock myself in our computer room..but somehow he always gets in..please help!!
[ Answer this question ] Want to answer more questions in the Relationships category? Maybe give some free advice about: Love Life? orphans answered Tuesday April 24 2007, 3:21 am: Wow. I read some of the other girls advice and i have 2 older sisters myself and i am not so sure if you should go straight to her first. You need to be blunt and aggressive towards him and tell him to back off. If that then doesnt work, have him and your sister in the same room and tell her. You need to be forward on this and you need to confront him about this. She needs to know what kidnof of boyfriend she has so she can drop his ass. Telling her in private she might think your jealous or whatever. Sisters are like that so its better if he's over one day that you blunting tell her to his face and see the reaction. If she chooses not to beleive you, he may stop doing what he is doing either way. Better yet, snap a photo of him with your phone or have a video camera going. It will catch his ass in the act. [ orphans's advice column | Ask orphans A Question ]
Luvsingin201 answered Monday April 23 2007, 1:43 pm: what are ya waiting for tell ya sister what's going on she'll know how to end it with him, and end it permanently if it get worse. This could lead to rape, I'm not trying to scare u, gurl, but dis is reality, peace. Let yo folks kno, let the owner of your home or apartment kno. u smart don't hide where he can get to you. [ Luvsingin201's advice column | Ask Luvsingin201 A Question ]
iwubyewbby answered Sunday April 22 2007, 8:47 pm: Hun, tell your sister. If nothing happens then talk to your parents or a councelor. Someone can do something to get him away from you. Just stay calm and tell someone right away. You will be fine, I promise.
keke_britt answered Sunday April 22 2007, 8:18 pm: You can't let him do that. You have to first talk to your sister and if that don't help tell your parents. If your parents don't listen tell your school councelor. The councelor will call chidren services and make sure that boy is not to be around you anymore. [ keke_britt's advice column | Ask keke_britt A Question ]
summer_is_love258963 answered Sunday April 22 2007, 8:13 pm: wow. alright well you deff need to tell your sister. if he got angry when you wouldnt hold his hand, he might get really mad if he tries to do something else and you refuse. soo yea you really need to tell your sister he doesnt sound like a good guy at all.
please keep me updated id like to see how everything works out. [ summer_is_love258963's advice column | Ask summer_is_love258963 A Question ]
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