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Age: 14
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Member Since: April 21, 2007
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Ok so I got my ears peirced on April 13th and I know the lady said I should wait 4-6 weeks to take the earrings out but I can't waaaitttt. Lol. I want to try all these earrings, you know? I've cleaned them the first 2 weeks twice a day like I was supposed to and now I've had them for 3 weeks. So yeah.

What would happen if I just switched earrings for a few days? Eh. I'm afraid of them getting infected then I'd have to get them re-peirced and it'd take even longer. Reh. xD Help. (link)
You can try to change them but it is not suggested. I have 8 different piercings and I know that for a fact that it hurts soo badd to have them infected. If you do change them, make sure the earring is really clean and that your hands and clean. Clean it right after the earring goes into your ear too.

I hope I helped!

--I wub yew bby xOx


my boyfriend is will be 17 in july. and i will be 15 in june. we have been dating for a like 3 and a half months, and we are both really happy together. the only real problem is my parents. they like him and all, but they just don't really want me dating. its not even the fact that he is older, but its the fact of my just going out on a date. oviously they know him and i know his parents too, but he ust got his lisence and he wants to take me out to dinner. my parents don't want me to go in the car with him driving. there is like nothing i can do to convince them either. they automatically think he is a bad driver, just because he just got it. i just don't know what to do. i'm so irritated that i have to say "sorry, i can't my rents won't let me" every single time he freaking asks me. please, anyone with help. it would be greatly appreciated. any tips too. and don't say like have your parents get to know him better and such, because they know him. and they like him. and they know i really like him. (link)
Hey,
I am turning 14 in July and during last summer I dated a 16 year old and my parents didn't want me dating him either. Don't worry this happens to a lot of people. What I had them do is just to chill and told them times I will be home and gave them permission to call my cellphone whenever so they can reach me at all times to know everything is okay. If you don't have a cell phone and he does then give them his number just make sure they put into consideration that his family is paying for his cellphone or that he is so they don't call too too much. If neither of you have cell phones or if you want to do this too, let them know what resturaunt your going to and where your going after. Just make it so they can trust him and you together and make it a safe inviroment for them to trust.

I hope I helped

--I wub you bby xOx


okay well my sisters boyfriend is like 18 and he likes me?! and im kinda freaked out. im only 14. and he always comes in my room and lays in my bed when im in it. and the one day my boyfriend was over and me n my bf got in a little fight. and i went in my sisters room to ask her what to do. and my sister was in the bathroom . and jake (sisters bestfriend) started to hold my hand..i let go and told him to stop...and he got pissed..im really freaked out..everytime hes over i lock myself in our computer room..but somehow he always gets in..please help!! (link)
Hun, tell your sister. If nothing happens then talk to your parents or a councelor. Someone can do something to get him away from you. Just stay calm and tell someone right away. You will be fine, I promise.

I hope I helped

--I Wub You bby xOx


how do i look my boobs look bigger? without plastic surgery, or anything like that. How do you stuff your bra without making it look obvious. Thanks. (link)
Hey, I think everyone basically answered this for me, but I would like to suggest a water bra or a light colored padded bra. Some certain bras actually help train your body to grow bigger. I had a friend who stuck to that for a while and She is bigger now and I am actually big for my age so don't think you need to be huge. Don't worry. It's uncomfortable and annoying if you have huge boobs. Give it time.

I hope I helped you hun!

i wub yew bby xOx


i have to write a poem about thing to sell that cant be sold, for example "a rainy day in april" or "lies" or things like that, but i dont know what to write! can i please get some inspiration? should i write about thing i'd want to be able to buy but cant be bought like love and honesty and positive things, or things that i have in my life that are bad and i'd like to sell? whats best? thankss! (link)
I think writing about Love or Honesty would make a great poem! Talk about how you wish Love could be bought be cause the store is where you find the greatest of all things and you know you'd find true love. Er say something like this.

I hope I helped!


haha i might just be overthinking but theres this guy i've sat next to in science for like the entire year so far.. hes also in my literacy classes (theres 2, and i sat next to him twice then), and i dunno if he likes me or not, and i dunno if i like him or not either. how do you know if have a crush on a guy, or if he has a crush on you? i talk to him mostly in science though, and hes pretty funny, nice (haha i can always get gum from him), and was born in england like me so we can also talk about places there that most people dont know about since they've never actually lived there (but im jealous because he gets to visit there alot! lucky rich bastard! lol). and.. i dunno how to explain it! jeez i hope i dont get a crush on him, hes cute i guess, but i think i like him better as a good friend than a boyfriend!

13/f (link)
Just talk to him about a boy you like er something even if the boy isn't true. Tell him that he is a good enough friend to talk to these things about and just take a look at his reaction. At the end of talking about you and your crush just say "yeah so do you like anyone these days?" Maybe that will get him to open up. Also make sure he knows he can trust you.

I hope I helped.


ok so well today i was taking pictures of me and my friends in the pool and so i kind of got it wet because my hands were wet....i know stupid..and now it turned off and wont turn back on (and no its not dead) i tried drying off the battery and everything. OK so my question is will it work again? or will i have to get it fixed or get a new phone (link)
I think your best bet is to take it to the dealership and have them take a look at it.

I hope I helpped!


Is John Paul Jones still alive? and if he isnt how did he die? (link)
I believe he is still alive.

I hope I helped!


I was wondering what Stairway to Heaven means. If anyone knows, or knows of a site that could give me an explanation that would be wonderful. Thanks you XD (link)
Stairway to Heaven.

Particulary the song is about a girl dying and as she is dying she is climbing the stairway to heaven.

I hope I helped.


i want to make my boyfriend a ffriendship bracelet exept idont know what style or color to make it. Do you think that maybe you could send me a link to a picture or somthing of a style that a boy would like? Idont want him to think its to girly. Thanx so much!!!
P.s 13/F
Hes 13 too (link)
http://www.guildcraftinc.com/images/products/full/625-296%20Friendship.jpg


Theres an example of some colors you can use. Stick to blues, whites, blacks, and greens. I did the same thing for my boyfriend.


What antidepressants are approved for teenagers? And i'm talking someone who's 17, not 13. Thanks. (link)
Deffinetely talk to your doctor. They will perscribe you ones that fit what your feeling.

Hope I helpped.


I CANT THINK OF IT!!!!!!!!!!!!! does any1 know wat the song is called where they say:
If you want me to stay
ill never leave
i cant member anymore but sum1 PLEASE help its stuck in my head!!!! (link)
I'll Never Leave You (Uh Oh) by Lumidee

If that doesn't work then try just Uh Oh.

Hope I helped!


Hey, i need serious help, well, one of my best friends does. Her boyfriend is into doing Pot, but, the thing is, he doesnt want to. Is there anything he can do...to like, not do pot, like, chew gum or something...or something odd like that. Getting help by an adult is not an option. Please, any suggestions.

thanks.

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Hey, there are a lot of things he can do.

First off I will admit that I used to smoke pot a lot and I became really addicted. I recovered by doing something simple yet hard at the same time. Here is what I did~

I chewed gum all the time, yes it works but its not as succesful as some other things are. You need to keep yourself occupied. Weed is physicologically addicting. Physically any human can quit, but it makes your brain think you need it. Tell him that he needs to just not think about it. It is going to be hard but anyone can get through it.


I'm a teenage girl and I'm always alone- i'm not kidding. I'm homeschooled so that's why.(and i'm the only dependent minor in my family) I used to go to a prep school where I was around annoying people 24/7, and i hated that. But this makes me depressed too. Never being around anyone. my problem is this:

Whenever I get tired of being completely alone and I go out in public for a rehearsal or something (i do theater), I can't stand being around unintelligent sluts who don't understand me and just ask me why i look so sad and things like that. I get panic attacks whenever I try to talk to someone (unless it's one of my 2 best friends in the whole world) and i start sweating and I turn red and my heart starts pounding. and it gets too awkward and i have to make an escape.

I'm very well-spoken and i couldn't call myself "shy" but i still feel reclusive because i just don't really get along with other people. I've thought it was because of my intelligence being significantly above average. (been professionally tested) So I "notice things that no one notices" which makes me "unusual". (that was something stated word for word in my testing document thing)

It's like everyone else is a bunch of cows in a heard that looks exactly the same and does the same thing, and I'm a completely different species, who doesn't see the need to be in that heard. (if that makes sense)

I also battle depression- and I always have. It's not from any particular event- it's just always sort of been there. and i can't change it.

What is wrong with me? (link)
Hey, I was one extremely depressed and I started cutting my wrists and I had to see a councelor. You may just be going through a phase. Right now I also go to a prep school and its all girls. I hate it there, but I am smart enough to have no friends. I am alone a lot as well [hense the reasons why i answer peoples questions all day] I do not like my life a lot of the time but what you need to do is look beyond the negatives. If you can't stand certain people just smile and say i'd prefer if you didn't talk to me. or answer there annoying "are you alright" with "does it matter to you?" or "its none of your buisness, you shouldn't care because it doesn't involve you"

There is nothing wrong with you, everyone is depressed at some point and sometimes it lasts for years. The only way you can get through it is by working through it. No one can really help you other then yourself... but I hope I changed that and I hope I helpped you!

Don't worry, you'll be fine.


what is the easiest time for a girl to get pregnant? (link)
The easiest time is a few days after or before her period. It's peak time for the body.

I hope I helped!


I have liked this guy for awhile and he liked meh to at one point. He always seems to find a reason to not hang out with me but i know if he did he would like me again. Why wont he hang out with me I know he still likes me. How can i get him to hang out with me and what could we do if we do end up hanging out. Something fun thats not boring at all!
PLEASE HELP!? (link)
Hey, I am going through a problem exactly like this right now. What I am going to do is have a group of people hang out. Some of his friends and some of yours so its not just us two. Sometimes being alone is uncomfortable for guys. Expecially when they know the girl might make a move. It's a crazy theory I know, but try that. Maybe he will like to chill as a group and you can flirt for a while. You guys can walk around and just hang out. Don't worry about what people will say or anything just make sure you make the matter fun and you get plenty of flirting time with your crush.

I hope I helped!


my life is falling apart in hate~13/f i ask alot of questions about being gothic and depressed. but i always thought my life was the worst ever but no now it is. i feel useless like absolutly nothing now just am stareing and feel nothing. just 7 minutes ago i was crying my eyes out and screaming and just going crazy. then it just all came to me. my life. i went to a party yesterday. my bff is a guy jake and a girl carly. so im with them alot. then carly is friends now with jakes other bff. so theres us 4. 2 girls 2 guys. jake and i love eachother so i thought. carly and tom like eachother. the 2 guys thought itd be funny if they danced with every other girl. tom tried to make carly jelous bc he likes her alot but she wont date him and she used to like him. she was drama. i keep everything in i have no real emotions. she cried for tom. i ignore jake. but he was trying to make me jelous tom even said. but jake wouldnt even talk to me at all 2 bffs not even saying a word at a 6 hour party. who in a 6 hours would talk so much. i love him but hate him so much! his bday is tomarrow and for my bday he was counting down and everything and emailed me a card and said he missed me. but for his bday 2 marrow i dont know what to do. i hate him so much right now! he danced with every girl even 2 of my bffs. their gothic to he even said they scare him. if they scare himn he had enough nerve to dance with the only 2 people who freak him out. to hurt me. i have 4 bffs and out of the 4 its him carly who was crying and was in so much drama and them 2 he danced with. im going threw alot im loseing friend before the party. i have 6 i think now counting them 4. but i dont even no now. becuz if he goes threw so much to hurt me to make me cry for2 days is that bffs. jake and carly are everything to me their my main 2 bffs i dono what id do w/o them. im crying my eveys out now. even in the time i was writing this Q i changed how i feel so much. out of my favorite songs 'i hate everything about you' and 'pain' by 3 days grace explain me. bff of 2 years wouldnt do this to eachother what swrong? why would they try to hurt us especially him? i told him in person i like him he told me he loved me. is that what alll guys do? how do i change it? what do i do for his bday? why dance with the only people who scare him so badly (my 2 othe bffs) to make me mad? why ignor me? how do i ask him by starting with something else not directly the party. he cant take hints and doesnt like directly doing that to him? and anything else i for got. please answer soon by atleast 10am 2 marrow pleeease. i cant go on. all the hate i go threw with parents cousins friends enemies strangers and now my bff the last person i have other that my other 4 bffs. but out of everything in my life i care about him. its drivin me crazy! please help soon (link)
okay first, calm down. I was really depressed for a while and I had to go to counceling because I was sliting my wrists. Just calm yourself and know that everything is going to be okay. There are a lot of things that mess up a lot, but you always need to stay strong and hold yourself together. this boy is obviously better as just a friend if he is going to hurt you like that. I don't like seeing people hurt so I am trying my best to think of what to say. Just explain to him that he really hurt you and that you like him and you don't feel comfortable with him acting like that. Explain to him the story that you just talked about and that you can't stand being hurt like that any longer.

All I can really say to you is to explain and try and stay calm.

I'm sorry, and I hope I somewhat helped.


I have been hooking up with this guy now for over 6 months. We kiss and hold hands and stuff everytime we see each other but we have never done anything more than that because when I try he says he "doesn't want to". He also says he doesn't want a girlfriend and that is why we are not going out but he never hooks up with other girls and has told me he loves me? He is obviously not using me for sex because we never do it and isn't seeing other people so I am really confused and any answer would be really appreciated! thanks in advance (link)
Hm, thats kind of weird, but I will try my best to help you. Maybe he just doesn't want to get hurt or he doesn't want to hurt you. A good thing to do is to explain to him that you feel like you two should be in a relationship instead of being just friends with benefits. Maybe he will understand. Feel free to ask another question if you take my advice. I might be able to help once things are broken down a little more.

Hope I helped some!


i dyed my hair but since it was my first time the lady didnt want to use bleach so basiclly i have unbleached dyed hair will it turn orange if i wash it? if not how can i prevent it from turning orange? i dyed my hair yesterday (link)
Hey, My hair is actually naturally blonde but I keep it dyed Red because blonde is too bright in the summer. I did not bleach my hair before I did it either so I also have un bleached hair. No it will not turn orange, just keep it healthy. Shampoo and condition a decent amount and make sure you rinse all the chemicals out. The sun will lighten it so don't get nervous. Since it is recently died it will lighten up as the chemicals wash out. If it starts to turn orange. Go back to the salon that dyed it.

I hope I helped!


I NEED HELP RIGHT THIS SECOND. please. I think my friend blew me off to go out with my other two friends. Im trying to call her, and find out if she did. How do I find out, without actually asking her? This is really important. % I can text or call her, but i really need some advice right now.

%Thanks in advance% (link)
Hey, yeah this happenes a lot. I totally agree with the person who is answering this as well. That always works. Another way to do it without having a fight is kind of implicate the topic that you are curious. Here is an example convo that could happen.

Her: Hello
You: Hey
Her: Hey
You: Whatsup?
Her: Nothing, you?
You: Nothing really, just calling people to see what they were up to and you popped into my head.
Her: Ooh.
You: So yeah, what have you been up to today?
Her: Nothing really chillen with [EXAMPLE NAMES] Sierra and Rachael.
You: Ooh sounds like fun. Maybe we could hang out sometime soon.
Her: Yeah sure.
You: Well, yeah I have to go grocery shopping with my mom, so I'll call you later. Alright?
Her: Alright.
You: bye.
Her: bye

I hope I helped!




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