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I NEED HELP RIGHT THIS SECOND. please. I think my friend blew me off to go out with my other two friends. Im trying to call her, and find out if she did. How do I find out, without actually asking her? This is really important. % I can text or call her, but i really need some advice right now.
%Thanks in advance%
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Maybe give some free advice about: Friendship?
Just for future notice, immediate advice isn't something that can happen - I may not be online when you send the question.
Now, onto your question....
Why do you think your friend has blown you off? Have you been arguing lately, or has she been giving you signals that she doesn't want to be your friend? Or could she simply want to spend some time with other people?
There's also the possibility that you haven't been blown off at all.
The only person who can answer your questions is your friend. She'll know her own motivations for her behaviour. If you feel weird coming out and asking her, you can always tell her how you feel. Like, 'The other day I thought you blew me off to hang out with __________. That made me feel really ___________.' and see what happens.
Trying to find things out through Sherlock Holmes methods can get you into mind games, paranoia, and feeling generally miserable. Friendships do much better with honesty, and so will your emotional health!
I wish you the best.
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Hey, yeah this happenes a lot. I totally agree with the person who is answering this as well. That always works. Another way to do it without having a fight is kind of implicate the topic that you are curious. Here is an example convo that could happen.
Her: Hello
You: Hey
Her: Hey
You: Whatsup?
Her: Nothing, you?
You: Nothing really, just calling people to see what they were up to and you popped into my head.
Her: Ooh.
You: So yeah, what have you been up to today?
Her: Nothing really chillen with [EXAMPLE NAMES] Sierra and Rachael.
You: Ooh sounds like fun. Maybe we could hang out sometime soon.
Her: Yeah sure.
You: Well, yeah I have to go grocery shopping with my mom, so I'll call you later. Alright?
Her: Alright.
You: bye.
Her: bye
I hope I helped!
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When you call her ask if she did anything today, and if she says no then be like oh nothing well thats pretty boring you must have done something. Like eat and sleep, take me through your whole day. (it might sound gay but it works) and when she tells u about her day and kind of hesitates then she probably did blow u off. If not then dont worry about it.
hope i helped :)
Nicole x0x
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ok. i always feel the same exact way. what you say is "hey, wuts up?" "i was just bored so i thought i would call you" then she'll say something, then if there is a moment of scilence or something you can say "so what did you do today/tonight?" hope i helped
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