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im 13 and i havent had my period yet. im totaly flat but lately the middle of my nipples have been hurting. does that mean there growing? (link)
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hey
that's not a stupid question.
yes, it could mean they're growing and you may get your period soon. so be ready!
if it doesn't stop in like, a few days i'd suggest going to a doctor to make sure everything is okay.
i'm sure it's just that they're growing.
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There've been a lot of deaths among the student body of my school in the past two years (five last year and three this year.) A few of them were friends of mine. Lately, I've been getting more and more paranoid. I text my friends and call them almost constantly; I'm scared to let them out of my sight. I'm convinced that at any moment someone else will disappear for good. I don't have the time or money to go in for real counseling, and the counselors at my school haven't taken me seriously since they found out about my anxiety-related seizures (long story) so what else can I do to stop being so worried? (link)
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hey
there are lots of things! but they may not be as easy as they sound
- stay in touch. give them often but simple text messages like, "hey whats up?" so that you can be in peace without being really paranoid.
- believe. if you dont believe that everything is going to be okay, then it won't be. to be something, you have to want and believe in it. in this case, it would be to not be so worried. just think, everything is gonna be fine - i can stop worrying now.
- talk. talk with your diary. seriously. it will help you let out your feelings without making everyone else crazed. just let it all out & that way, you'll feel much better just talking it out with something. you know?
dont worry. nothing else will happen to you or your friends.
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ok so im turning 16 in a few months and in NY thats when you can get your permit so i was wondering what was the best car for a young driver for under $14,000 (link)
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you're prolly just gonna wreck it anyways. most people wreck their first cars. so go for a volvo. you'll at least be safe in there.
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Okay so I'm 13/f and I haven't gotten my period yet. My mom said she got hers when she was 13 too so she thinks I should get it soon. I've been getting a few pimples but not many like one or two.
Can anyone estimate the time I'll be getting it?
...yeah. I'm afraid I'll get it during school and it'll go through my pants and grrrr. D: (link)
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hey
well you probably will get it either this year or next year. no one can estimate the time you'll be getting it cause your body is different and it's completely unknown.
some symptoms of getting your period are, however, that the center of your nipple aches, like when you poke it (not like with a stick, just a light press). also, loss of appetite or over - sleeping could be signs that it's coming.
dont worry - just keep extra tampons and pads in your backpack so that if you get it, you can just go to your locker and get some tampons!
also, your school nurse should have pads and tampons, so if you feel like you're getting it, just tell your teacher you arent feeling well and need to go to the nurse.
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Yesterday (Saturday) my mom and I were talking about clothes. I said to her; Do you remember when you said to me that you thought I lost weight because my beige pants looked big on me; she said; well they did look big; I then said; what about the white pants I am wearing today; and she said; they look fine; which made me say; well I feel that every time I wear a pair of pants you are or will be thinking they look big; and she said; That is in your mind, I would have told you if I thought your pants look big - again it is in your mind; AND again today I asked her about the blue pants I am wearing and she said they look fine. SO MY QUESTION: IF YOU WERE ME WOULD YOU FINALLY ACCEPT THE FACT IT WAS JUST THE BEIGE PANTS THAT DAY THAT MADE HER THINK THAT. AND HOW DO I FORGET (NOT DWELL) ABOUT THE COMMENT SHE MADE ABOUT THE BEIGE PANTS" (link)
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omfg. you go to a freaking pyschiatrist or get a life or get over it. you have asked a billion questions about this. i AM SO FREAKING SURE!! GET A LIFEEEE.... people gain weight and lose weight and look large some days and don't some days and some pants fit different and some shrink, but whatever, GET OVER IT!!! WEIRDDDDDDDDD.. im sorry but i just had to say this. you need to wake up and chill out.
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16/f.
i liked this guy and he liked me. me n him go to the same school.
we both live "out of zone" for our school and should be going elsewhere.
well, he called me recently and told me that he didnt want a relationship with me because of lacrosse and his grades.
but come to find out, he lied to me and hes going out with one of my friends that goes to the school that we should be going to.
i really liked him and i spent my sweet 16 depressed over him. should i confront him about it? call him and tell him we need to talk? or should i just let it be, seeing as he's been ignoring me lately? (link)
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sweetie, dont be upset over him. honestly.
if he lied to you, he's not worth your time.
i'm sorry that that happened to you- guys do that. girls dont know why, either.
if i were you, i'd suggest not bothering him about it or anything. i mean what's the point? actually, there is a point. if you were really REALLY upset, you can make him feel guilty by being like, "why did you lie to me." but if you guys have a friendship, it will mess up the friendship.
but you want to grow up out of his league, you know? dont sink down to his level just to 'get even.' in the long run, you'll be way ahead of him if you dont confront him about it.
calling & saying we need to talk? talk about what? how he lied to you and made you sad? it's just not gonna work, hun. i'm sorry... but the mirror of trust is seriously broken and if you try to "talk it out" like adults, which he's already proved that he cant do by lying to you like a 5-year-old, he will never be the same person to you because of what he did.
if he's been ignoring you lately, you ignore him back. you be the strong one. when he comes crying to you, dying to go out with you, you be the stronger one who says that he broke your trust & its not gonna be the same.
i'm sorry about your situation, but love, just move on and find better guys who dont lie to you.
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I am 13/F and I want to redecorate my room for high school. I dont have a high budget so I was wonderring if anyone had ideas of things I could MAKE for my room that would look cool. I love polka dots and the colors lime green/blue if that helps. Thank You (link)
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put a border around your room in the center of the wall (white?) and paint the bottom blue and top lime green. you could put white polka dots all over if you want. i suggest a daybed. they're awesome. themes= oldies (like 50's with records/albums on the wall!), hawaiian, disco, preppy, music, colorful, etc.
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can someone give me ideas on what to wear with red converse? like what color clothes would look with them. thanks!! (link)
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pretty much anything except perhaps purple or light blue. converse are really reversible - you can wear a mini skirt and abercrombie tank or loose baggy jeans and a sweatshirt.
some examples :]
- outfit one:
http://www.abercrombiekids.com/webapp/wcs/stores/servlet/product_10101_10851_339459_-1_12155_12103
pink
http://www.abercrombiekids.com/webapp/wcs/stores/servlet/ProductDisplay?storeId=10101&catalogId=10851&productId=329540&langId=-1&categoryId=12159&parentCategoryId=12103&colorSequence=03
white
http://www.abercrombiekids.com/webapp/wcs/stores/servlet/product_10101_10851_289472_-1_12160_12103
dark
- outfit two:
http://shop.pacsun.com/webapp/wcs/stores/servlet/ProductDisplay?storeId=10001&catalogId=10001&langId=-1&productId=58176&parentCategoryId=10002&categoryId=25917&pageNumber=1&sortBy=0
http://www.urbanoutfitters.com/shopping/product/detailmain.jsp?itemID=29535&itemType=PRODUCT&iMainCat=3&iSubCat=1135&iProductID=29535
http://www.hollisterco.com/webapp/wcs/stores/servlet/product_10251_10201_322468_-1_12598_12552
- outfit three:
http://www.abercrombie.com/webapp/wcs/stores/servlet/ProductDisplay?storeId=10051&catalogId=10901&productId=281161&langId=-1&categoryId=12262&parentCategoryId=12203&colorSequence=04
light
http://www.abercrombie.com/webapp/wcs/stores/servlet/ProductDisplay?storeId=10051&catalogId=10901&productId=318195&langId=-1&categoryId=12843&parentCategoryId=12203&colorSequence=04
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how long should they last .
and like
how do i actually give one
how long should it last
and is it wrong to give one in a movie theatre?
sites ? (link)
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okay. here's how it is. you put his knee in your mouth. you bite it until it's purple. once it's fully purple, (about 6 hours) you take it out. don't do it in a movie theatre, because people find knees offensive.
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On saturday, I went to the movies with the boy of my DREAMS. I REALLY like this kid, and we've been talking for about a month, and My friends and I were eatting dinner outside and my friend made me laugh and i FARTED! and EVERYONE of my friends started LAUGHING and I started to cry because with me, farts dont exsist, like really, if i fart i get SO embarassed and I FARTED INFRONT OF HIM!!!!! And for the past 3 days its been replaying in my head CONSTANTLY and I cant concentrate, i cant go by the kid i like, i am completely mortified and humilated. WHAT DO I DO?! I feel like I need therapy because of it, im about to cry just thinking about it, because since then he's been different, and I dont know how to relax and let it roll off my shoulders! I'M MAJORLY STRESSING THE FACT THAT I FARTED! I know this sounds hilarious but its seriously screwing up my mental health! and everyone is telling me that i should just not even care BUT I CANT! it was SO EMBARASSING! and to top it off, we were supposed to be all kissing and making out that night and he didnt do it once!!!!!!!! THats why i think its different!
PLEASE HELP ME!! I FEEL LIKE CRAWLING UP IN A WHOLE AND DIEING!!!!! =[ (link)
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well see, if you like him so much, you obviously don't want to lose him. and if you keep acting like this (being scared to talk to him) then he'll think you don't like him anymore, and he'll move on. now, you don't want that, do you? most guys actually like it when girls can fart infront of them, sign of comfort, eh? but, since you're like that... but really. you should've just laughed. but since you freaked out, i can understand why he's different. seriously, go talk to him and LAUGH ABOUT IT. there is nothing else you can do, but that. don't stress.
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I have heard you can tell a guy's length and width by his hands and feet? Is this true & can you expand on it? (link)
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it's genetic. it's not a matter of this or that. if his family has a history of big wangs he should have one too. if they don't, well he prolly wont too. but most guys are average as is. and as you've prolly heard size isn't what's important, it's how willing the guy is to please you. if he just doesn't care it doesn't matter how big he is, he's still gonna suck for just not giving a shit.
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I'v heard it's unhealthy to sleep too little and too much. However, that's all I do... I go to bed really late on weekdays and wake up really early. I've become so use to it that I cant help it even if I try to go to bed early. On the weekends, I can sleep for about 12 to 14 hrs.. If i wake up, I close my eyes and just sleep longer and longer and I can do this all day. How can I start going to bed early, when Ive tried so hard already and I just CANT fall asleep... I literally just stay lying in bed, eyes closed, for hours...Until the usual time I go to bed which is like 1 or 2 am. I'm not going to take any sleeping pills or anything like that. First, is it true that it's bad to sleep TOO much? And, how can I make it a routine of sleeping more on weekdays? (link)
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Many people have problems with their sleep. First thing they do is consider themselves some short of mental diseased and name themselves isomniac.
My opinion is that there is no such thing. Every person has some energy inside his body he needs to target somewhere. If you dont target that energy of yours on...work, obligations, hobbies...then you cant sleep at night.
Do you think that if someone is working like a dog all day long, that he can stay up till 4 o clock at night? (Dogs dont work but...whatever looool!!!)
Anyways, you should take up a new habit like ca hobby. Maybe get into sports and all. Why dont you start playing Football? American Football that is. It is good for you and chicks go crazy over such guys.
In case you are a woman you could start playing tennis or dancing. You know how guys go all crazy about tennis girls right? And dancers of courses.
And most of all, it is good for you and your body.
pimp is out.
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I heard sex makes your breasts grow if you do it enough (not by getting pregnant). Is this true? (link)
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Yes it is true.
Also sperm is good for skin. It helps you stay young forever and never die.
Blowjobs are good for the lungs and cure cancer.
Handjobs are good for the heart.
In case you didn t notice yes, I am being sarcastic.
Some men will tell you anything to get you to touch their penis lol!!!
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when is it right to tell someone you love them...and what if they dont tell u they love u back
how do i know he really means it?
help me out (link)
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Dont use this word unless you are for sure, because it could scare the other person. Its hard to tell when is best to use it.
You will know for sure if he really loves you. Believe me. The way he looks at you or says your name. The butterflies in your stomach will start flying. If its love, you'll feel it in the pit of your stomach.
i hope he loves you, hun. =]
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i need to find the instrumental version for this song called "bye bye blackbird". im so nervous because my talent show is this upcoming thursday and i cant find the song anywhere. i cant like order it from some random place that would take like a couple weeks for me to get. and forget ebay too. um would like wal-mart or any kind of store like that sell it? or what alternative should i do? i like the shirley bassey version but if i cant find that the guy who organizes the talent show says that i can also have the song with the person singing in the background.. which wont be as great, but still. but im mostly looking for the instrumentals.. in other words, the song without the lyrics. THANKS SO MUCH I LOVE YOU FOR ANSWERING!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
13/f (link)
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http://www.cduniverse.com/search/xx/music/pid/1009735/a/Live+At+The+Village+Gate.htm
click cltrl and the "f" key and write instrumental.
this site lets you listen to the song.
idk if thats what you wanted.
sorry if its not
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who wrote the song come on eileen iknow the clash had it but who originally wrote it (link)
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Dixy's Midnight Runners were the orignial singers of that song, back in 1982 and was writen By Kevin Rowland
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hi, what is the average penis size for a 14 year old? (link)
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This is difficult because every fourteen year old is different so i would trust any charts til your fully grown.
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long story...here it goes
ok so i had this boyfriend that was "drifting away" as some people called it. well anyways thursday i didnt want to talk to him and he was just ignoring me anyway...so then school was about to end for the day and my best friend had her last class with him and at that time he told her he was just playing a game with me and that his relationship with me wasnt real. also to top it all off she told me he was hitting on my other friend vanessa in class and she never stopped him or anthing she just kept flirting. it pissed me off so bad but he had already left school early so i didnt get a chance to tell him off. it really hurt my fellings because deep in my heart i knew he was a little player but i thought at that time i was falling in love with him.
so on friday i just told him it was over.he asked me why and i told him "because ur just playing a lil game rite" and he was like "what?? i never said that" but i just ignored him for the whole weekend and now i cant stop thinking about him even though i went out with him for 6 days...
why cant i stop thinking about him?
and how do i know if he still thinks about me?
i still want to be his friend but i dont know how to aproach or talk to him anymore and i just want to be with him again
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You still liked him cause it was new. Any new relationship is awesome and it feels nice. But if he was "supposely" flirting with your friend and told your friend that he was playing a game. Well, now you play a game too. Let him come to you now. If he likes you, he will try to win you over. Believe me. I know it hurts but you will soon find someone new if he doesnt come running. And your friend Vanessa doesnt seem like a very nice friend. I would tell that bitch off [but thats my opinion]. Just wait a few more days for him and see if he tries to talk to you or approach you in school or whatever. If he tries. I would try to give it a shot once more, but dont fully give in. Cause he could just be playing a cat and mouse game with you. Good luck.
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I have heard you can tell a guy's length and width by his hands and feet? Is this true & can you expand on it? (link)
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No. Its mainly hereditary. Ive dated guys who were large feet and his package was not. =[
So dont believe all that stuff.
Ive also learned guys who dont brag usually are packing something "large".
haha.
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Each year, I am usually backstabbed my someone I trusted and was really close with. In 7th grade, my two best friends were after my bf who I was dating for more than 6 months. They made a plan to become friends to make me jealous, and steal my boyfriend and turn everyone against me. Last year was horrible. I moved on, and made new friends. In 8th grade, my good friend who helped me through last year ditches me all the time for my ex-boyfriend, treats me horrible, and talks crap about me for no reason. Well, I basically ended the friendship with her too and she had the nerve to give me back all the gifts Ive given her throughout our whole friendship, I know, extremely childish.. Well, I threw the bag of gifts away and gave it to people I'm trying my hardest to ignore her but it's just so hard since she's basically purposely in my face to make it hard for me. I dont talk to my ex boyfriend from this year because now they are best friends and he hates me. I still talk to my other ex and I'm really good friends with him(for now...) Ok, so now that you know everything, I just dont know how I can basically trust people or even make more friends (which I have already).. If I always end up getting hurt in the end. What should I do? I dont want to end up not having friends because the ones ive dealt with have backstabbed me in the end. But i dont know how I can stay optimitic if I keep getting hurt.
I'm so sorry for it being so long! (link)
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Wow, this is a tough one. Its especially hard because you do have to deal with them everyday. Well i will tell you, at my work place there is this girl that i could not stand and the best thing to do in a situation [by avoiding her] is to ignore her, or act up in front of her. Like i would be with someone and would be really loud and laughing like seeing her didnt bother me. Eventually it didnt bother me at all. You need to start taking things with a gran of salt. Dont let them see you fall. The best thing to say to yourself is not to let me get the best of you or they'll ride you all year. They are just trying to get a raise out of you. The only time i would ever show them my feelings is with my anger and if they stepped up to me. Other then that let them be. Who cares, anyways right? You said it yourself. You can make friends. The only thing i would warn you around is fully given in your complete trust into people. I am not saying not to trust people but do not say things to people that one day may hurt you in the end. When you know your boundary line with trust in people you can never truely get hurt from them. Knowing someone for a year and trusting them is pretty solid thing, but even that i would just let them fully in. Just be careful with what you say to these friends and another thing. Women are skantless. Be weary when you bring your bf around your friends because women are attracted to men who are attached. [its a sceintic fact] Because theres always a reason why a guy is single and attached men look good to a womans eyes because obiviously HE'S WORTH SOMETHING IF HE HAS A GF. Tell me if this works for you. I hope i helped alil bit.
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